Body Like You

39. Are You Chasing Fat Loss...or Approval and Admiration?

For 1:1 coaching inquiries, find me: Web: framenutrition.co [http://framenutrition.co] Email: aimee@framenutrition.co [aimee@framenutrition.co] IG: @coachaimee.nutrition And I'd love to hear from you!

38. Thoughts That Encourage Self-Sabotage: It Shouldn't Be This Hard

For 1:1 coaching inquiries, find me: Web: framenutrition.co [http://framenutrition.co] Email: aimee@framenutrition.co [aimee@framenutrition.co] IG: @coachaimee.nutrition And I'd love to hear from you! Why do “easy” healthy habits sometimes feel so hard? In this episode, we’re breaking down one of the most common limiting beliefs in sustainable fat loss and behavior change: “It shouldn’t be this hard.” Whether you’re trying to go for a daily walk, cook more meals at home, go to bed earlier, eat more protein, cut back on alcohol, or stop nighttime snacking, your brain may resist even the simplest changes. This episode explores why small, realistic habits can feel harder than extreme diets. You’ll learn how your brain prioritizes immediate comfort over long-term rewards, why temporal discounting makes behavior change so challenging, and how shame and self-criticism can lead to self-sabotage before you’ve even had a chance to succeed. Instead of assuming something is wrong with you when a simple habit feels difficult, you’ll learn how to let the easy thing be hard without making it mean anything about your discipline, willpower, or worth. If you’re working on sustainable weight loss, healthy eating, long-term fat loss maintenance, emotional eating, habit formation, or building a healthier relationship with your body, this episode will help you understand why change feels hard—and why that doesn’t mean you’re failing.

37. Why Exercising to Burn Calories Keeps You Stuck

For 1:1 coaching inquiries, find me: Web: framenutrition.co [http://framenutrition.co] Email: aimee@framenutrition.co [aimee@framenutrition.co] IG: @coachaimee.nutrition And I'd love to hear from you! What if exercising to burn calories is actually keeping you stuck? In this episode of Body Like You, we’re rethinking fat loss, calorie burn, exercise, and mindset. If you’ve ever started a workout plan hoping it would finally make fat loss happen faster, this conversation will help you understand why exercise alone is a terrible way to lose body fat and why chasing calories burned can damage your relationship with your body. You’ll learn why fat loss ultimately depends on energy balance and a calorie deficit, but also why the advice to “eat less and move more” is far too simplistic. We’ll talk about total daily energy expenditure, why exercise only makes up a small percentage of daily calorie burn, and how your metabolism adapts when you increase activity. Most importantly, this episode explores the mindset trap of treating exercise as a transaction: “I worked out, so I earned food,” or “I burned calories, so my body owes me weight loss.” That approach often leads to frustration, body resentment, overexercise, and giving up. You'll hear how to separate exercise from punishment, calorie debt, and body dissatisfaction and begin seeing movement as a way to build strength, vitality, body trust, and positive body image.

36. Thoughts That Encourage Self-Sabotage: It's Not Fair That She Can Eat Whatever She Wants

For 1:1 coaching inquiries, find me: Web: framenutrition.co [http://framenutrition.co] Email: aimee@framenutrition.co [aimee@framenutrition.co] IG: @coachaimee.nutrition And I'd love to hear from you! Have you ever looked at someone who seems to eat whatever they want, stay effortlessly thin, and thought, “It’s so unfair”? In this episode, I unpack the painful comparison loop that happens when your body, weight, or relationship with food feels harder than everyone else’s. I also look at what research suggests about people who appear to stay thin without effort, and why the story your brain tells about them may not be the full truth. PMID: 35839758 [https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35839758/]. You’ll learn how to notice body comparison, send compassion to yourself, and move out of resentment and into a more grounded, caring relationship with your body and food. Topics covered: body image, weight loss, yo-yo dieting, food struggles, fatphobia, self-compassion, thin privilege, body comparison, emotional eating, diet mindset, metabolism myths, and compassionate health behavior change.

35. What If You're Too Close to Your Own Patterns With Eating To See What Actually Needs To Change?

For 1:1 coaching inquiries, find me: Web: framenutrition.co [http://framenutrition.co] Email: aimee@framenutrition.co [aimee@framenutrition.co] IG: @coachaimee.nutrition And I'd love to hear from you! What if the thing keeping you stuck isn’t a lack of discipline, but the fact that you’re too close to your own patterns to see what actually needs to change? In this episode, I’m talking about the power of coaching, support, and having someone in your corner who can see the path forward when you’re spinning your wheels. I share my own experience of hiring a trainer to help me with strength training, chronic pain, fatigue, recurring injuries, and stalled progress in the gym, and how his plan was not what I wanted, but exactly what I needed. We’ll talk about why behavior change is so hard to do alone, especially when your routines feel safe, your all-or-nothing thinking kicks in, or your fear of change convinces you to keep doing the same thing harder. I also connect this to nutrition coaching, fat loss, clean eating, body image, overexercising, and the frustration of putting in a lot of effort without getting the result you want. This episode is for anyone who has been working hard on their fitness, nutrition, weight loss, or body image goals but keeps running into the same obstacles. A good coach can help you stop wasting years on strategies that aren’t working, give you a clearer plan, and support you through the discomfort of doing the thing you might not want to do but probably need.