Counterfeit Emotions Podcast with Curtis Morley

Episode 37 | Recovery Is Living a Life You Don’t Need to Escape | Dalton Tarufelli

In this deeply emotional episode of the Counterfeit Emotions Podcast, host Curtis Morley sits down with Dalton to discuss addiction, grief, shame, and ultimately, hope and healing. Dalton shares his devastating journey through alcoholism, rooted in unresolved pain, trauma, and loss. After losing his father to cancer at 17, Dalton struggled with deep emotional wounds that eventually led to severe alcohol addiction. During COVID, Dalton, his mother, and younger brother spiraled into daily alcohol abuse together. The turning point came in April 2021 when Dalton attempted CPR on his younger brother Derek after discovering him unresponsive from alcohol-related complications. Derek later passed away, leaving Dalton drowning in guilt, shame, and self-hatred. Over the following year, Dalton cycled through hospitals and detox centers while battling overwhelming grief and addiction. Eventually, with the support of his sister, grandfather, and friends, he entered Wasatch Recovery Center, where he began the difficult process of recovery. The conversation explores how addiction is often less about substances and more about escaping shame and emotional pain. Dalton explains how alcohol became a “safe place” that numbed fear and grief, while Curtis draws parallels between substance addiction and pornography addiction through the lens of shame-based coping. Through therapy, vulnerability, boundaries, surrender, and self-compassion, Dalton slowly rebuilt his sense of identity and worth. He describes learning to “sit with” his pain instead of running from it and reconnecting with the younger version of himself who simply needed love and reassurance. By the end of the episode, Dalton radiates peace, purpose, and emotional freedom. He now works helping others through recovery, lives without fear, and has found meaning in grief, relationships, service, and authenticity. The episode ultimately delivers a powerful message: Recovery is not about becoming perfect — it’s about learning that you are already worthy, even in your imperfection. CONNECT WITH THE DALTON TARUFELLI https://www.instagram.com/dalton.tarufelli/ [https://www.instagram.com/dalton.tarufelli/]  LISTEN/WATCH/SUBSCRIBE TO THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST: *Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994] *Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3 [https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3]  *YouTube Podcasts - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts [https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts]  *Amazon Music Podcasts - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley [https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley]  *iHeartRadio Podcasts - https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817 [https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817]  CONNECT WITH THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST *Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis [https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis]  *LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/]  *YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis [https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis]  *TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis [https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis]  *Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis [https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis]  *X - https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis [https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis]  *Website - https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/ [https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/]  *Email for general messages - info@counterfeitemotions.com [info@counterfeitemotions.com]  *Collab with us - info@counterfeitemotions.com [info@counterfeitemotions.com]  *Book me to speak = speaking@curtismorley.com [speaking@curtismorley.com]  *Sponsor Us -  info@counterfeitemotions.com [info@counterfeitemotions.com]  WE LOVE MAIL AND CARE PACKAGES!: Email us for the address:  PRODUCTION CREDITS: Recorded at Mindset Content Creation Studios Produced by Tommy Moore Brought to you by Vodcasts by Tommy Moore Presents - https://www.instagram.com/vodcasts_by_tommymoore/ [https://www.instagram.com/vodcasts_by_tommymoore/]

Episode 36 | Positive Trauma: How Discomfort Creates Growth | Kristin Mackey

This episode explores the concept of emotional frequency, sensitivity, and transformation, featuring Kristin Mackey. The conversation blends science, spirituality, and emotional intelligence to explain how emotions operate as energy and how individuals can better process and elevate them. A major focus is on reframing sensitivity as a strength, not a weakness, and learning how to manage emotional awareness without becoming overwhelmed. Kristin introduces the idea of “positive trauma”—challenging or uncomfortable experiences that, when embraced, can accelerate growth and unlock potential. The discussion also dives into: * The importance of presence and authenticity * How unprocessed emotions build up and later erupt * Why “feeling is healing” * The transformative power of witnessing pain (in ourselves and others) Ultimately, the episode teaches that by accepting, feeling, and reframing our emotions, we can access deeper authenticity, healing, and personal growth. CONNECT WITH THE KRISTIN MACKEY https://www.instagram.com/kristin.mackey/ [https://www.instagram.com/kristin.mackey/]  https://www.frequencymatters.org/ [https://www.frequencymatters.org/]  https://www.graymilleragency.com/roster/kristin-mackey?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGn06-2Bs19XbIPwTvvzw8l6sOJjsBARI6AbEYFQ-FvfZzRMYUIAo8l5HwpB8I_aem_TAhF7wABrFe5q_O3-6WSkg [https://www.graymilleragency.com/roster/kristin-mackey?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGn06-2Bs19XbIPwTvvzw8l6sOJjsBARI6AbEYFQ-FvfZzRMYUIAo8l5HwpB8I_aem_TAhF7wABrFe5q_O3-6WSkg]  LISTEN/WATCH/SUBSCRIBE TO THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST: *Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994] *Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3 [https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3]  *YouTube Podcasts - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts [https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts]  *Amazon Music Podcasts - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley [https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley]  *iHeartRadio Podcasts - https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817 [https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817]  CONNECT WITH THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST *Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis [https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis]  *LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/]  *YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis [https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis]  *TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis [https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis]  *Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis [https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis]  *X - https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis [https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis]  *Website - https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/ [https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/]  *Email for general messages - info@counterfeitemotions.com [info@counterfeitemotions.com]  *Collab with us - info@counterfeitemotions.com [info@counterfeitemotions.com]  *Book me to speak = speaking@curtismorley.com [speaking@curtismorley.com]  *Sponsor Us -  info@counterfeitemotions.com [info@counterfeitemotions.com]  WE LOVE MAIL AND CARE PACKAGES!: Email us for the address:  PRODUCTION CREDITS: Recorded at Mindset Content Creation Studios Produced by Tommy Moore Brought to you by Vodcasts by Tommy Moore Presents - https://www.instagram.com/vodcasts_by_tommymoore/ [https://www.instagram.com/vodcasts_by_tommymoore/]

Episode 35 | Excellence Over Perfection: Lessons from an Olympic Champion | Peter Vidmar

This episode features Olympic gold medalist Peter Vidmar, who shares powerful insights on the difference between excellence and perfectionism, the role of failure in growth, and the mindset required to perform at the highest level. Peter reflects on his journey from a young gymnast inspired by his coach to becoming an Olympic champion. He emphasizes the importance of vision, disciplined preparation, and learning through failure. A central theme is his “Plan → Prepare → Perform → Evaluate” framework, which he used to continuously improve. The conversation also explores emotional resilience—distinguishing pain from misery, guilt from shame, and determination from stubbornness—highlighting how mindset shapes performance and personal growth. CONNECT WITH THE PETER VIDMAR https://www.linkedin.com/in/peter-vidmar-51018210/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/peter-vidmar-51018210/]  https://www.teamusa.com/hall-of-fame/hall-of-fame-members/peter-vidmar [https://www.teamusa.com/hall-of-fame/hall-of-fame-members/peter-vidmar]  LISTEN/WATCH/SUBSCRIBE TO THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST: *Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994] *Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3 [https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3]  *YouTube Podcasts - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts [https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts]  *Amazon Music Podcasts - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley [https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley]  *iHeartRadio Podcasts - https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817 [https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817]  CONNECT WITH THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST *Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis [https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis]  *LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/]  *YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis [https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis]  *TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis [https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis]  *Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis [https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis]  *X - https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis [https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis]  *Website - https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/ [https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/]  *Email for general messages - info@counterfeitemotions.com [info@counterfeitemotions.com]  *Collab with us - info@counterfeitemotions.com [info@counterfeitemotions.com]  *Book me to speak = speaking@curtismorley.com [speaking@curtismorley.com]  *Sponsor Us -  info@counterfeitemotions.com [info@counterfeitemotions.com]  WE LOVE MAIL AND CARE PACKAGES!: Email us for the address:  PRODUCTION CREDITS: Recorded at Mindset Content Creation Studios Produced by Tommy Moore Brought to you by Vodcasts by Tommy Moore Presents - https://www.instagram.com/vodcasts_by_tommymoore/ [https://www.instagram.com/vodcasts_by_tommymoore/]

Episode 34 | The Ultimate Girl Dad. Helping teenage girls figure out life | Mike Draper

This episode features Curtis Morley interviewing Mike Draper, a social media creator and self-described “girl dad,” about parenting, identity, and emotional authenticity. The conversation blends fatherhood insights with deeper psychological themes—especially around counterfeit vs. authentic emotions. Mike shares his journey from military service and law enforcement to building a large social media following, while emphasizing that his most important role is being a father. The core of the episode centers on what it truly means to be a “girl dad,” highlighting intentional parenting, leading by example, and helping children develop confidence, identity, and decision-making skills. The discussion expands into broader life principles: understanding your mission, avoiding perfectionism, trusting your gut, and taking action before you feel fully ready. A major theme is that people—especially parents—must embody the behaviors they want to pass on, rather than simply instructing them. CONNECT WITH THE MIKE DRAPER https://www.instagram.com/mikerdraper/ [https://www.instagram.com/mikerdraper/]  https://www.instagram.com/bebuiltforlife/ [https://www.instagram.com/bebuiltforlife/]  https://www.instagram.com/mikedraperbusiness/ [https://www.instagram.com/mikedraperbusiness/]  https://www.bebuiltforlife.com/ [https://www.bebuiltforlife.com/]  LISTEN/WATCH/SUBSCRIBE TO THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST: *Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994] *Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3 [https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3]  *YouTube Podcasts - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts [https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts]  *Amazon Music Podcasts - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley [https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley]  *iHeartRadio Podcasts - https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817 [https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817]  CONNECT WITH THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST *Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis [https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis]  *LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/]  *YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis [https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis]  *TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis [https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis]  *Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis [https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis]  *X - https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis [https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis]  *Website - https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/ [https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/]  *Email for general messages - info@counterfeitemotions.com [info@counterfeitemotions.com]  *Collab with us - info@counterfeitemotions.com [info@counterfeitemotions.com]  *Book me to speak = speaking@curtismorley.com [speaking@curtismorley.com]  *Sponsor Us -  info@counterfeitemotions.com [info@counterfeitemotions.com]  WE LOVE MAIL AND CARE PACKAGES!: Email us for the address:  PRODUCTION CREDITS: Recorded at Mindset Content Creation Studios Produced by Tommy Moore Brought to you by Vodcasts by Tommy Moore Presents - https://www.instagram.com/vodcasts_by_tommymoore/ [https://www.instagram.com/vodcasts_by_tommymoore/]

Episode 33 | Seeing Humanity in a Divided World | Kyle Reyes

This episode of Counterfeit Emotions features Curtis Morley and guest Kyle Reyes discussing how to foster unity in an increasingly divided world. The conversation centers on seeing people beyond surface-level differences and understanding their humanity through deeper context and connection. Kyle shares his personal journey growing up in a multicultural household and how mentorship, education, and storytelling shaped his passion for building bridges between people. His book The Lens of Humanity introduces a framework for understanding others through four lenses: self-awareness, context, empathy, and community. A major theme is that modern society often creates “disconnection disguised as connection,” especially through social media. The antidote, they argue, is intentional human connection rooted in curiosity, humility, and genuine listening. The episode emphasizes that: * People want to be seen, heard, and valued * Differences are not threats—they are opportunities for growth * True connection comes from understanding stories before solving problems Ultimately, the conversation reframes “healing the world” as a personal responsibility to engage with empathy, curiosity, and advocacy rather than anger. CONNECT WITH THE KYLE REYES https://www.linkedin.com/in/kyle-a-reyes-ph-d-04406613/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/kyle-a-reyes-ph-d-04406613/]  https://www.instagram.com/lensesofhumanity/ [https://www.instagram.com/lensesofhumanity/]  LISTEN/WATCH/SUBSCRIBE TO THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST: *Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994] *Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3 [https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3]  *YouTube Podcasts - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts [https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts]  *Amazon Music Podcasts - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley [https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley]  *iHeartRadio Podcasts - https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817 [https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817]  CONNECT WITH THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST *Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis [https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis]  *LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/]  *YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis [https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis]  *TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis [https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis]  *Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis [https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis]  *X - https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis [https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis]  *Website - https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/ [https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/]  *Email for general messages - info@counterfeitemotions.com [info@counterfeitemotions.com]  *Collab with us - info@counterfeitemotions.com [info@counterfeitemotions.com]  *Book me to speak = speaking@curtismorley.com [speaking@curtismorley.com]  *Sponsor Us -  info@counterfeitemotions.com [info@counterfeitemotions.com]  WE LOVE MAIL AND CARE PACKAGES!: Email us for the address:  PRODUCTION CREDITS: Recorded at Mindset Content Creation Studios Produced by Tommy Moore Brought to you by Vodcasts by Tommy Moore Presents - https://www.instagram.com/vodcasts_by_tommymoore/ [https://www.instagram.com/vodcasts_by_tommymoore/]