Create Your Own Reality Podcast

Why Hard Work Feels Different When You Actually Have A Goal

Ever notice how waking up at 3:30am hits different depending on why you're doing it? In this episode, I'm unpacking a quote that completely reframed how I think about hard work: it's only sacrifice when you don't have a goal. Once you know what you want, hard work starts to feel like opportunity instead of grind. If you're a multi-passionate person who tends to dabble without direction, this one's for you. In this episode: * The quote that reframed how I see "hard work" * Why SMART goals matter more than we give them credit for * My Pilates cert story — and what almost derailed it * What I learned from a whole program I finished with no real end goal * Why "just doing things to do them" can quietly become a trap Let's talk:  What's a goal you're working toward for the second half of this year? Drop it in the comments — I read every one! Connect: Instagram: https://instagram.com/cyorealitymedia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= [https://instagram.com/cyorealitymedia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=] Newsletter: https://www.cyorealitymedia.com/pages/newsletter-signup [https://www.cyorealitymedia.com/pages/newsletter-signup]

Transform or Destroy: Which Will You Choose?

After finishing the multiple choice portion of my Pilates teacher certification final — 150 questions, three hours, and more than a few moments of complete mental blank — this quote hit differently! In this episode, I'm getting real about the anxiety I carried into that exam, the moments where I genuinely didn't know the answer, and why that experience became the perfect metaphor for something way bigger: the choice we all have when life puts us in a hard spot. In This Episode: * What happens when your mind goes blank under pressure (and why it's not the end of the story) * The glass half empty vs. half full framework — and why your default perspective might be holding you back * How this mindset applies beyond exams: difficult projects, life transitions, loss, relationships * Why acting like your highest self is the only way to actually become her * The teeter-totter of mindset work and why the struggle is part of the process The Truth: You can let the hard thing destroy you, or you can let it transform you. The power is yours — but only if you choose it New episodes drop every Sunday. If this one resonated, share it with someone who needs the reminder. Instagram: https://instagram.com/cyorealitymedia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= [https://instagram.com/cyorealitymedia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=]

Be Different: Stop Following The 'Safe' Path

You don't need a "safe" job to build a life you're proud of — you need the courage to be different. Sky gets real about a recent conversation where someone told her to "just get a 9-to-5" — and why that comment lit a fire under her (literally, Inside Out style). From switching majors twice to navigating two layoffs while chasing her Pilates certification, Sky breaks down why comparison is the thief of joy, why social media highlight reels lie to us, and why the things that make you different are actually your biggest superpower. In this episode: * Why "safe" isn't always smart * How to stop comparing your behind-the-scenes to everyone else's highlight reel * Sky's own non-traditional path (dance → cinematography → Pilates) * Reframing what makes you different as your greatest strength * Why building your own version of a dream life matters more than anyone else's opinion Remember — you're not behind, you're just on your own path! Instagram: https://instagram.com/cyorealitymedia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= [https://instagram.com/cyorealitymedia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=]

Stop Drowning In To-Dos — Here's The Framework That Actually Works

Feeling scattered? You're not alone. In this episode, Sky gets real about navigating a full-blown in-between era — losing a part-time job, finishing her Pilates instructor certification, and stepping into a rebrand — all at the same time. And out of that beautiful chaos came a simple weekly planning framework that's been a game-changer. If your to-do list keeps growing but nothing meaningful feels like it's getting done, this one's for you. In This Episode: * Why "anything is possible" can actually feel paralyzing (and what to do instead) * The difference between needle-moving tasks and the busy work that keeps you stuck * A step-by-step Sunday reset to plan your week with intention * How to use time-blocking (and why the Pomodoro method might be your best friend) * The real reason fear might be slowing you down on your biggest goal 1. The 4-Step Weekly Reset: 2. Review last week — what didn't get done? 3. Write all unfinished tasks in one list 4. Re-rank them from most important to least important (deadlines go to the top) 5. Pick 3–5 and schedule them into your week That's it. Simple, but it works. Try it this week and drop a comment letting Sky know how it went — she genuinely wants to hear from you! Instagram: https://instagram.com/cyorealitymedia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= [https://instagram.com/cyorealitymedia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=]

3 Brutal Wake Up Calls From Losing 2 Jobs In 1 Year That Finally Made Me Stop Playing Small

Fear is just false evidence appearing real -- and it's costing you more than you think. In this episode, I'm getting real about the fears that keep so many of us from stepping into our purpose, sharing our gifts, and taking that very first move toward the life we actually want. I open up about my own ongoing struggle with showing up on video (yes, even now), what happened when I lost not one, but two jobs in the span of a year, and why I still believe -- more than ever -- that there is more for me AND for you. Whether you're afraid of being judged, worried the market is too saturated, or waiting for the "perfect time" that never seems to come, this episode is for you. In This Episode: - The FEAR acronym -- and what it actually means for your everyday decisions - Why the perfect time to start will never arrive (and what to do instead) - My personal experience bing let go from two jobs and how I hose to respond - The algorithm trap: why seeing so many people in your space makes you feel behind -- and why that feeling is lying to you - Why your people are already out there waiting for you specifically Key Takeaway: You don't have to have it all figured out. You just have to take that first step. Once you do, everything else starts to feel a little less scary! If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs the reminder that they're not behind -- they just haven't started yet. And leave a rating or review if you're feeling generous! It genuinely helps more women find this show! Connect: Instagram: https://instagram.com/cyorealitymedia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= [https://instagram.com/cyorealitymedia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=] YouTube: https://youtube.com/@cyorealitymedia?si=8CM2stg7KYWcrmNI [https://youtube.com/@cyorealitymedia?si=8CM2stg7KYWcrmNI]