Coming Home to Ourselves with Denise Elysa

S3E3 Navigating the Year of the Fire Horse: Insights and Strategies

In this conversation, Denise Elysa interviews Jillian Rothschild Scholar, a master of Feng Shui, about the Year of the Fire Horse in Chinese astrology. Jillian explains the energetic dynamics of this year, emphasizing decisive action and transformation. They delve into Chinese metaphysics, 2026 Chinese Zodiac, personal charts, and the three lucks in Feng Shui. Jillian introduces the Flying Stars system, which helps navigate the energies in living spaces. The conversation highlights the implications of double fire energy and the need for intentional, conscious choices in a fast-paced world, particularly in managing stress and prioritizing rest. Denise and Jillian explore the significance of self-validation, the impact of zodiac signs on personal and professional life, and the importance of Feng Shui in navigating the challenges of the Fire Horse Year. They discuss the necessity of rewiring the nervous system for health, the opportunities that arise from challenges, and the value of forming supportive alliances in both personal life and business. The conversation emphasizes the importance of emotional well-being and making choices that feel good, while also providing practical advice on Feng Shui adjustments and selecting a Feng Shui specialist. Key Takeaways + Topics: - 2026 as Year of the Fire Horse, significant for its dynamic energy - Bold moves and decisive actions - Aligning your environment with your goals - Understanding personal charts - The three lucks: heaven luck, human luck, and earth luck - The Flying Stars system: identify beneficial and challenging energies in your space - Double fire energy: both creativity and destruction - Prioritizing rest and hydration - The necessity of intention and conscious choice - Awareness of the energies in your environment as empowerment in decision making - Chronic stress can lead to severe health issues - Rewiring the nervous system is essential for recovery - Clashes in zodiac signs Extended episode available for those of you who wish to take a deeper dive into the nervous system, potential clashes between the Rat and the Horse as well as special factors for the Ox and Rooster Chinese Zodiacs, and more. You can access the extended version inside the EmbodiedSoul with Denise Elysa Community [https://deniseelysa.com/embodied-soul-app/]  Meet the Host: Denise Elysa is a practitioner and teacher of multiple modalities including somatic inquiry, intuitive energy healing, past life regression, oracle card reading and meditation. Blending somatic inquiry, somatic parts work, nervous-system informed education, intuition and grounded spirituality, she helps people who feel disconnected or chronically unwell reconnect with themselves, increase their capacity and awaken their inner healer, without requiring medical validation or overwhelming routines. How is Denise’s work different than others? - Over 13 years of experience in professionally supporting people with their health + wellbeing - Lived experience navigating complex chronic illness, autoimmune diseases, Lyme disease and co-infections, chronic pain conditions, trauma, disability, neurodivergence + nervous system healing - Contracted to Internal Medicine Specialists to co-facilitate offerings to their patients living with complex chronic diseases such as ME/CFS, Fibro, LC, MCAS, POTS, Chronic Pain, hEDS, + co-occurring conditions - Acknowledged by the TTIA as meeting all criteria for each of their courses and is a member in good standing with the BCTTNS Connect [https://deniseelysa.com/link-tree/⁠⁠] Meet the Guest:  Jillian is a Master of Feng Shui with over 15 years of experience, and a Red Ribbon Professional with the International Feng Shui Guild since 2010, she helps ambitious individuals find clarity and confidence through classical Chinese divination systems including Feng Shui, BaZi, Qi Men Dun Jia and the Yijing. Jillian translates ancient wisdom into practical solutions for modern life, working with clients worldwide from her base in Pheonix Arizona. BaZi Calculator [https://fsinmotion.com/bazi-calculator/] Eight Mansions Toolkit [https://fsinmotion.com/eight-mansions-toolkit/]

S3E2 Is This Really Mine? Ancestral Healing & Conscious Parenting

What if the patterns you keep repeating aren’t actuallyyours? In this episode, Denise talks with family constellation practitioner Blanka Molnar about how family generational trauma and inherited trauma can live in your body and impact your nervous system and health. They explore why big life changes like moving, leaving relationships, or changing careers sometimes don’t bring the lasting change one may be looking for, when trying to escape or recreate their lives. You’ll learn how trauma can be passed down through generations, how it may show up in your relationships, health, and sense of self, and how intergenerational patterns and Family Constellation Therapy may support root-cause healing, and can gently help break these cycles.   Meet the Host: Denise Denise Elysa is a practitioner and teacher of multiplemodalities including somatic inquiry, intuitive energy healing, past life regression, oracle card reading and meditation. Blending somatic inquiry, somatic parts work, nervous-system informed education, intuition and grounded spirituality, she helps people who feel disconnected or chronically unwellreconnect with themselves, increase their capacity and awaken their inner healer, without requiring medical validation or overwhelming routines. How is Denise’s work different from others? * Over 13 years of experience in professionally supporting people with their health and wellbeing * Lived experience navigating complex chronic illness, autoimmune diseases, chronic pain conditions, trauma, disability, lyme disease and co-infections, neurodivergence and nervous system healing * Contracted to Internal Medicine Specialists to co-facilitate offerings to their patients living with complex chronic diseases such as ME/CFS, Fibromyalgia, Post-Viral Illness, LC, MCAS, POTS, Chronic Pain, hEDS and other co-occurring conditions * Foundation of her energy healing work is based in Therapeutic Touch® and acknowledged by the Therapeutic Touch International Association as meeting all criteria for each of their courses and is a member in good standing with the BCTTNS Connect with Denise: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Socials: https://deniseelysa.com/link-tree/⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbUpKN2xoYU1kSWhrZllKQXVpcWJzamYzNjlsd3xBQ3Jtc0ttQldnTUV5eTdJRGNDY29hUVlnUTJXT0tHRU5jcHJMbnFGdkhLNTBxcVVMME5SRjNDbEhscWp3RTYtTGtob3RPZ1UtbVNkY1EwX3JoSWRvZkNfS3ZyVHpfcnU2UldHZFpFLWlkcERSUlc1WkdhM3I4NA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fdeniseelysa.com%2Flink-tree%2F%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0&v=7a70yZxJhgE] ⁠⁠⁠ Website: https://deniseelysa.com/ [https://deniseelysa.com/] Work with Denise: https://deniseelysa.com/work-with-denise/ [https://deniseelysa.com/work-with-denise/] EmbodiedSoul Community: https://deniseelysa.com/embodied-soul-app/ [https://deniseelysa.com/embodied-soul-app/]   Meet the Guest: Blanka Blanka Molnar works with parents who want a closer, healthier relationship with their children. She helps parents explore intergenerational patterns through Family Constellation Therapy and other approaches to support deeper connection, healing, cycle breaking and growth. Connect with Blanka: Webpage: https://awarenest.net [https://awarenest.net/] TriggerLog: https://awarenest.net/resources/downloads-and-printables/ [https://awarenest.net/resources/downloads-and-printables/] E-book: https://awarenest.net/product/ebook-growing-you-growing-me/ [https://awarenest.net/product/ebook-growing-you-growing-me/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blanka_awarenest [https://www.instagram.com/blanka_awarenest] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BlankaMolnar_Awarenest [https://www.youtube.com/@BlankaMolnar_Awarenest]   Chapters 00:00 Blanca's Journey to Healing Multi-Generational Trauma 00:33 Meet Blanka Molnar + What Family Constellations Are 02:32 Why You Can't Outrun Patterns Stored in the Body 05:32 Why We Change: Pain, Identity Shifts, and the MessyMiddle 09:24 What Opens Up on the Other Side: Joy, Relationships,Alignment 12:19 Anti-Guru Healing: Empowerment vs Dependency 15:28 Family Constellation Therapy Explained (GenerationalTrauma + Root Causes) 21:08 What Constellations Can Support (Health, Money, Work,ADHD, Collective Trauma) 21:27 Success Stories in Family Constellation 23:48 Conscious Parenting: Kids Mirror Your Nervous System 24:06 Conscious Parenting and Its Challenges 30:33 Somatic Parenting Tools: Regulation, Repair, andModeling 41:18 Practical Tool + Where to Find Blanka (Trigger Log +Book) 44:43 Coming Home to Ourselves Season 3 Outro.mp4   #FamilyConstellationTherapy #GenerationalTrauma #InheritedTrauma#AncestralHealing #NervousSystemHealing #TraumaRecovery #RootCauseHealing #ConsciousParenting

S3E1 Spring Equinox 2026: Nervous System Capacity, Energy Clearing & New Beginnings

Spring Equinox invites us to connect with the growth that has been happening within and around us, beneath the surface, often in the depths and darkness. In this episode, Denise welcomes Season 3 of Coming Home to Ourselves with an embodied reflection on growth, resilience, and nervous system capacity. Drawing on education + lived experience blended with somatic wisdom + intuitive insight, she explores winter + early spring as a germination phase; inner change, healing + recalibration occur beneath the surface, even when it appears that nothing is happening externally. This episode offers space for integration + recalibration + a moment to honor and celebrate your own growth + expansion even if it doesn’t appear to match societal expectations. Explored through reflections on somatic healing + energetics, the body, energy system and nervous system must be supported together in harmony in order to hold growth without collapse. Offers gentle guidance + a Spring Equinox Oracle Card Reading in themes of: • increasing nervous system capacity without forcing or rushing • clearing old energy, patterns, beliefs, and energetic “weeds” that no longer serve • making space for new beginnings that are aligned with who you are now • clarity, energetic “cleaning house”, self-worth, moving forward from the present vs the past • honoring small wins, slow expansion, and sustainable growth • navigating the liminal “void” and dark night of the soul with support and awareness • energy healing, manifestation, self-compassion and reconnection with your inner light You’ll hear reflections on: • healing in community and why ceremony matters • balancing inner expansion with outer growth • accessibility in healing work • the role of authenticity, frequency, and integrity in creative and spiritual work An invitation to come home to yourself, release what’s ready to be let go of + step into spring with intention, compassion, + clarity. ✨ Announcement: Denise also introduces EmbodiedSoul with Denise Elysa, a new online community and app designed to make somatic, energetic, and nervous system-informed healing more accessible through live events, seasonal ceremonies, guided practices, guest conversations, and community connection. Meet the Host: Denise Elysa is a practitioner and teacher of multiple modalities including somatic inquiry, intuitive energy healing, past life regression, oracle card reading and meditation. Blending somatic inquiry, somatic parts work, nervous-system informed education, intuition and grounded spirituality, she helps people who feel disconnected or chronically unwell reconnect with themselves, increase their capacity and awaken their inner healer, without requiring medical validation or overwhelming routines. How is Denise’s work different from others? • Over 13 years of experience in professionally supporting people with their health and wellbeing • Lived experience navigating complex chronic illness, pain, trauma, disability, neurodivergence and nervous system healing • Contracted to Internal Med Specialists to co-facilitate for patients living with complex chronic diseases such as ME/CFS, Fibro, LC, MCAS, POTS, Chronic Pain, hEDS, + co-occurring conditions • Acknowledged by the TTIA as meeting all criteria for each of their courses and is a member in good standing with the BCTTNS Connect: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://deniseelysa.com/link-tree/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

S2E13 Cycle Syncing for Success with Renae Fieck

This conversation felt like permission. In this episode, Renae Fieck and I explore what it means tolive and create in rhythm with our feminine nature — through the lenses offeminine wealth energetics, cycle syncing, health, and the deep connectionbetween safety and our creative power. Renae shares her personal journey from burnout toempowerment, highlighting how understanding the biological differences betweenmen and women can completely shift the way we approach productivity, rest, andwell-being. We dive into somatic healing, the phases of the menstrual cycle,and how aligning our work and lives with our body’s natural rhythms opens us togreater ease, abundance, and flow. Our conversation also touches on the dance between thefeminine and masculine — how both energies support each other in creatingsafety, structure, and expansion. We explore the protective role of men insociety, the challenges women face with conditions like endometriosis, and theeffects of hormonal treatments. Together, we reflect on how honoring the menstrual cycle canbe an act of empowerment — not just for ourselves, but for the next generation— through education, awareness, and modeling what it looks like to listen toand trust our bodies. This episode is a reminder of the power of self-permission,the medicine of stillness, and the importance of embodying the balance we wishto see in our homes, our businesses, and our world.   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Feminine Leadership and Cycle Syncing 02:08 Renae's Journey: From Occupational Therapy to Coaching 06:08 Understanding the Biological Differences Between Menand Women 11:15 The Impact of Societal Conditioning on Women'sProductivity 14:43 Navigating Personal Challenges and Emotional Numbing 19:12 The Importance of Somatic Awareness and EmotionalProcessing 21:10 Aligning Life with Body's Natural Rhythms 24:45 Practical Steps to Track and Understand Your Cycle 30:36 Embracing the Luteal Phase 35:49 Understanding the Menstrual Cycle Phases 41:44 The Rhythm of Life: Seasons and Cycles 47:40 Feminine Wealth Energetics: The Power of Being 55:46 Safety and the Balance of Masculine and Feminine 57:03 The Protective Role of Men in Society 58:03 Trauma and Its Impact on Women 58:56 Endometriosis and Women's Health Challenges 01:01:26 The Medical Approach to Women's Health 01:02:25 Cyclical Living and Women's Empowerment 01:05:19 Empowering the Next Generation of Girls 01:07:59 Normalizing Conversations Around Menstruation 01:09:49 Strategies for Overcoming Burnout 01:12:44 Listening to Your Body's Signals 01:15:54 The Feather, Brick, and Bus Analogy 01:19:11 Creating Safety in the Body 01:22:31 Navigating Autonomic Challenges in Parenting 01:24:51 Finding Safety in Discomfort 01:29:04 Integrating Mindfulness into Daily Life 01:32:54 Modeling Emotional Awareness for Children 01:36:40 Empowering the Next Generation throughSelf-Connection 01:48:19 Closing   Connect with Denise: Socials: ⁠⁠⁠https://deniseelysa.com/link-tree/⁠⁠⁠Enter to win: ⁠⁠⁠https://deniseelysa.com/newsletter/⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.deniseelysa.com/⁠⁠⁠Blog: ⁠⁠⁠https://deniseelysa.com/blog/⁠⁠⁠Groups: www.deniseelysa.com/groups [http://www.deniseelysa.com/groups]1:1 Intuitive + Somatic Work:https://deniseelysa.com/11-intuitive-energy-balancing/ 1:1 Past Life Regressions: https://deniseelysa.com/11-past-life-regressions/ [https://deniseelysa.com/11-past-life-regressions/]Groups: https://deniseelysa.com/groups/ [https://deniseelysa.com/groups/]Meditations, Workshops, Ceremonies: ⁠⁠⁠https://deniseelysa.com/shop/  Connect with Renae: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaeFieck https://www.instagram.com/renaefieck/ renaefieck.com www.renaefieck.com/freebook [http://www.renaefieck.com/freebook]   Get a discount on the Natural Cycles app Denise uses: 20% off your annual subscription, plus a free thermometer https://www.naturalcycles.com/refer-a-friend?name=RGVuaXNl&code=referralid20&referral=b99af1353afa4e1e9aedb47f1498e049 [https://www.naturalcycles.com/refer-a-friend?name=RGVuaXNl&code=referralid20&referral=b99af1353afa4e1e9aedb47f1498e049]   [ cycle, health, productivity, somatic, wealth energetics, burnout, menstrual, empowerment, endometriosis, hormones, burnout, parenting ]

S2E12 The Power of Boredom: Unlocking Creativity and Clarity with Slow-living Witch, Eileen March

In this conversation, Denise and Eileen explore the significance of boredom and unproductive time in fostering creativity and mental well-being. They discuss the societal pressures of hyper-independence and the martyr archetype, which often lead to burnout and emotional labor. The importance of scheduling downtime, embracing community support, and recognizing the need for rest are emphasized as essential components for a balanced life. In this conversation, Eileen and Denise explore the complexities of navigating relationships, the importance of setting boundaries, and the impact of personal growth on connections. They discuss the cyclical nature of life and how attuning to these cycles can enhance self-awareness and well-being. The discussion delves into the significance of understanding inner seasons, celebrating new beginnings, and fostering community connections as essential elements of personal and spiritual growth. Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Boredom and Unproductive Time 13:31 Navigating Screen Time and Creativity 20:08 The Comparison Trap in the Digital Age 26:14 Navigating Creativity and Comparison 29:42 The Importance of Unproductive Time 32:35 Self-Worth and Productivity 36:03 Burnout and Health Challenges 40:50 The Urgency Trap 45:24 Community and Hyper-Independence 51:08 The Martyr Archetype and Emotional Labor 53:03 Navigating Relationships and Boundaries 55:08 The Journey of Personal Growth and Isolation 59:04 Attuning to Cyclical Nature and Seasons 01:00:30 The Importance of Rest and Reflection 01:18:07 Understanding Inner Seasons and Their Significance 01:24:14 Embracing Seasonal Transitions 01:33:52 The Energies of Spring and Summer 01:42:40 Autumn's Reflection and Community 01:50:40 The Importance of Community and Connection 01:54:00 Closing Thoughts and Future Endeavors 01:54:09 Closing Connect with Denise: IG, FB, BlueSky, YouTube, TikTok, Threads: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://deniseelysa.com/link-tree/⁠ [https://deniseelysa.com/link-tree/] ⁠⁠⁠Enter to win: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://deniseelysa.com/newsletter/⁠ [https://deniseelysa.com/newsletter/]⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.deniseelysa.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.deniseelysa.com/⁠⁠⁠] Blog: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://deniseelysa.com/blog/⁠⁠⁠⁠ [⁠⁠⁠https://deniseelysa.com/blog/⁠⁠⁠] Groups: ⁠www.deniseelysa.com/groups⁠ [www.deniseelysa.com/groups] 1:1 Intuitive Work: ⁠https://deniseelysa.com/11-intuitive-energy-balancing/ ⁠ [https://deniseelysa.com/11-intuitive-energy-balancing/ ] 1:1 Past Life Regressions: ⁠https://deniseelysa.com/11-past-life-regressions/ ⁠ [https://deniseelysa.com/11-past-life-regressions/ ]Meditations, Workshops, Ceremonies and more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://deniseelysa.com/shop/⁠ ⁠ [https://deniseelysa.com/shop/⁠ ] Connect with Eileen: FREE E-Book: ⁠https://www.myluminouslife.ca/awaken-to-the-magic-within⁠ [https://www.myluminouslife.ca/awaken-to-the-magic-within] Website: ⁠https://www.myluminouslife.ca⁠ [https://www.myluminouslife.ca] IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/iameileenmarch⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/iameileenmarch] FB: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/myluminouslifecoaching⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/myluminouslifecoaching] LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/eileenmarch⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/eileenmarch] YT: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@TheWooCuriousPodcast⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@TheWooCuriousPodcast] Insight Timer: ⁠https://www.insighttimer.com/iameileenmarch [https://www.insighttimer.com/iameileenmarch] [boredom, unproductive time, creativity, self-worth, hyper-independence, emotional labor, parenting, community, boundaries, mental health, relationships, boundaries, personal growth, cyclical nature, inner seasons, community, self-awareness, spiritual growth, mentorship, wellness]