Disrupt & Discuss Podcast

How the Words You Heard as a Kid Are Still Running You

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2430415/fan_mail/new] You might not remember every detail from childhood. But you probably remember exactly what somebody said to you that hurt. That's not a coincidence. E and KayCee get personal in this one. They talk about the words that shaped them growing up, how they've tried to do it differently with their own kids and grandkids, and why the next generation hears and carries language in ways Gen X never had to think about. What we got into: * Why kids remember the negative things said to them faster and longer than the positive * How verbal discipline from older generations planted seeds that some of us are still digging up * E's experience raising a son on the autism spectrum and how it completely rewired her understanding of word choice * KayCee being one of two Black kids in her elementary school and the lasting weight of that * The difference between preparing your kids for a hard world versus wounding them in the process * How workplace words travel and why documentation is a non-negotiable * What it looks like when kids grow up and actually learn to use those word lessons at work Sit with this one: Think back to one thing a parent, teacher, or adult said to you that you still carry. Now think about whether that thing is actually true. That's the work. Subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or iHeart so you don't miss a single episode. And if this hit home, send it to someone in your circle. ⚠️ DISCLAIMER ⚠️ The views and opinions expressed on Disrupt & Discuss are solely those of the hosts and guests and do not represent any affiliated organizations, employers, or brands. 🙅🏽‍♀️ The content shared is for informational and entertainment purposes only 🎧. Nothing discussed should be taken as professional medical, legal, financial, or therapeutic advice ⚕️⚖️💰. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions related to your health, finances, or legal matters. We do our best to ensure accuracy, but we make no guarantees 🤝. Links, products, or services mentioned are not endorsements unless explicitly stated 🔗. By listening, you agree that Disrupt & Discuss and its hosts are not liable for any outcomes resulting from information shared on this podcast. ✅ Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2430415/support] DnD YouTube: https://shorturl.at/vXTke [https://youtube.com/@disruptndiscusspodcast?si=9u2pdt4kl5X1xkXe] DnD Instagram: https://shorturl.at/IxIH4 [https://www.instagram.com/disruptndiscuss?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==] DnD TikTok: https://shorturl.at/WH2YP [https://www.tiktok.com/@disruptndiscuss?_t=8s53F6L3M4c&_r=1] REFERRAL LINKS -   🎙️ Edit Faster, Sound Better, Create Smarter! 🎬 I use Descript for seamless podcast & video editing—auto-transcription, AI tools, and pro-quality sound in minutes! Try it FREE today: 👉 https://get.descript.com/tn15bft44m9f [https://get.descript.com/tn15bft44m9f] 🎙️ Launch & Grow Your Podcast with Ease! 🚀 I use Buzzsprout to host and distribute my podcast—it’s simple, reliable, and packed with great tools! Start your podcast today! 👉 https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=2375227 [https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=2375227] 📩 FREE DOWNLOADS - https://stan.store/BesheaVenturesOps  2026 Misogi Goal Reset Guide & The Hiring Brief

Why What You Say Every Morning Sets Your Whole Day

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2430415/fan_mail/new] Y'all ever notice how one bad comment can tank your whole morning? Or how saying "I'm going to the gym" hits different than "I'll try to go"? That's not a coincidence. That's your brain listening. In this mini episode, E and KayCee dig into something most people overlook: the words coming out of your mouth every day are literally setting the tone for your life. What we got into: * Why Proverbs 18:21 was the first thing E thought of when this topic came up * KayCee's take on words as "spells" and how fast your mood can flip in traffic * The science experiment where two batches of water were spoken to differently, and what showed up under a microscope * Why "try" and "should" are quietly giving you a way out before you even start * How your brain responds to certainty vs. possibility in completely different ways * KayCee's practice with her grandkids and teaching them identity through affirmation Try this today: Watch what comes out of your mouth for one full day. Just notice. Don't judge. Then flip one negative statement into something grounded and certain. See what shifts. Subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or iHeart so you catch every episode. And if this one hit home, share it with somebody who needs a reminder that their words matter. ⚠️ DISCLAIMER ⚠️ The views and opinions expressed on Disrupt & Discuss are solely those of the hosts and guests and do not represent any affiliated organizations, employers, or brands. 🙅🏽‍♀️ The content shared is for informational and entertainment purposes only 🎧. Nothing discussed should be taken as professional medical, legal, financial, or therapeutic advice ⚕️⚖️💰. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions related to your health, finances, or legal matters. We do our best to ensure accuracy, but we make no guarantees 🤝. Links, products, or services mentioned are not endorsements unless explicitly stated 🔗. By listening, you agree that Disrupt & Discuss and its hosts are not liable for any outcomes resulting from information shared on this podcast. ✅ Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2430415/support] DnD YouTube: https://shorturl.at/vXTke [https://youtube.com/@disruptndiscusspodcast?si=9u2pdt4kl5X1xkXe] DnD Instagram: https://shorturl.at/IxIH4 [https://www.instagram.com/disruptndiscuss?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==] DnD TikTok: https://shorturl.at/WH2YP [https://www.tiktok.com/@disruptndiscuss?_t=8s53F6L3M4c&_r=1] REFERRAL LINKS -   🎙️ Edit Faster, Sound Better, Create Smarter! 🎬 I use Descript for seamless podcast & video editing—auto-transcription, AI tools, and pro-quality sound in minutes! Try it FREE today: 👉 https://get.descript.com/tn15bft44m9f [https://get.descript.com/tn15bft44m9f] 🎙️ Launch & Grow Your Podcast with Ease! 🚀 I use Buzzsprout to host and distribute my podcast—it’s simple, reliable, and packed with great tools! Start your podcast today! 👉 https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=2375227 [https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=2375227] 📩 FREE DOWNLOADS - https://stan.store/BesheaVenturesOps  2026 Misogi Goal Reset Guide & The Hiring Brief

Your Words Are Running Your Life (Here's Proof)

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2430415/fan_mail/new] Hey, welcome back. This one hit different. E and KayCee sat down to talk about something most people overlook every single day: the words coming out of their mouths. Turns out, those words are running the show whether you realize it or not. What you'll hear in this episode: * Why saying "I'll try" is literally giving your brain an exit ramp before you even start * The water and plant experiments that prove words change things at a molecular level * How verbal whoopings from childhood can outlast physical ones by decades * E's deeply personal story about raising a son on the spectrum and learning to rethink language entirely * KayCee on affirmations, gratitude, and why she still has them taped to her mirror * When your job title stops being what you do and starts being who you think you are * How AI, layoffs, and major life disruptions are forcing people to find their identity outside of their work This episode goes from Proverbs to plant science to LinkedIn layoffs. You'll laugh. You might get a little uncomfortable. And you'll probably think twice before you say "I'm just a ..." Episode CTA: After you listen, drop a comment and tell us: do you tie your identity to your job title? And do you believe your words are shaping your reality? We want to hear from you. Find D&D on: Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. ⚠️ DISCLAIMER ⚠️ The views and opinions expressed on Disrupt & Discuss are solely those of the hosts and guests and do not represent any affiliated organizations, employers, or brands. 🙅🏽‍♀️ The content shared is for informational and entertainment purposes only 🎧. Nothing discussed should be taken as professional medical, legal, financial, or therapeutic advice ⚕️⚖️💰. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions related to your health, finances, or legal matters. We do our best to ensure accuracy, but we make no guarantees 🤝. Links, products, or services mentioned are not endorsements unless explicitly stated 🔗. By listening, you agree that Disrupt & Discuss and its hosts are not liable for any outcomes resulting from information shared on this podcast. ✅ The Disrupt and Discuss podcast is offering a free Misogi goal-setting template to help you prepare for 2026. This resource identifies your specific goal-setting style and provides a structure that works for your brain. Whether you are building a business or improving health, the framework turns ideas into challenging but doable goals. You can access this free offer by clicking the link in the description. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2430415/support] DnD YouTube: https://shorturl.at/vXTke [https://youtube.com/@disruptndiscusspodcast?si=9u2pdt4kl5X1xkXe] DnD Instagram: https://shorturl.at/IxIH4 [https://www.instagram.com/disruptndiscuss?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==] DnD TikTok: https://shorturl.at/WH2YP [https://www.tiktok.com/@disruptndiscuss?_t=8s53F6L3M4c&_r=1] REFERRAL LINKS -   🎙️ Edit Faster, Sound Better, Create Smarter! 🎬 I use Descript for seamless podcast & video editing—auto-transcription, AI tools, and pro-quality sound in minutes! Try it FREE today: 👉 https://get.descript.com/tn15bft44m9f [https://get.descript.com/tn15bft44m9f] 🎙️ Launch & Grow Your Podcast with Ease! 🚀 I use Buzzsprout to host and distribute my podcast—it’s simple, reliable, and packed with great tools! Start your podcast today! 👉 https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=2375227 [https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=2375227] 📩 FREE DOWNLOADS - https://stan.store/BesheaVenturesOps  2026 Misogi Goal Reset Guide & The Hiring Brief

Why Older Black Generations Reject Therapy and Mental Health

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2430415/fan_mail/new] You guys, this clip is for every family that grew up hearing "what happens in this house stays in this house." Ashleigh is a licensed social worker who sees the impact of that mentality every single day inside hospitals, crisis units, and psychiatric facilities and she does not hold back. Key topics covered in this clip: * Why the 50 and older generation is the hardest population to reach when it comes to mental health referrals and how social workers navigate that resistance without pushing people further away * The generational substitution of church for therapy, why that has real limits, and how Ashleigh approaches the conversation without dismissing faith as a resource * What Black men and mental health actually looks like from inside the system on the West Coast versus what social media says is happening nationally * Why representation inside the mental health field matters and how having a social worker who looks like the patient changes the entire dynamic of care * The growing awareness of mental health in communities of color and why a yearly mental health check-in matters just as much as an annual physical * How your mental health directly impacts your physical health and why the two cannot keep being treated as separate conversations * What the holiday season and grief anniversaries actually look like inside a psychiatric facility and why anniversaries hit just as hard as Christmas and Thanksgiving About Ashleigh: Ashleigh holds a Master's in Social Work earned during the pandemic while raising two kids. She has served on the 988 crisis response team at the county level, conducted 5150 psychiatric evaluations, and now works as a medical social worker helping patients and families navigate some of the hardest moments of their lives. This clip is one piece of a much bigger conversation. The full episode covers 988 vs 911, the 3 criteria for a psychiatric hold, caregiver burnout, and the moment involving a 6-year-old that nobody in the room was prepared for. Do not miss it. 👉 Listen to the full episode here: https://youtu.be/QjeitEmQtbM [https://youtu.be/QjeitEmQtbM] ⚠️ DISCLAIMER ⚠️ The views and opinions expressed on Disrupt & Discuss are solely those of the hosts and guests and do not represent any affiliated organizations, employers, or brands. 🙅🏽‍♀️ The content shared is for informational and entertainment purposes only 🎧. Nothing discussed should be taken as professional medical, legal, financial, or therapeutic advice ⚕️⚖️💰. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions related to your health, finances, or legal matters. We do our best to ensure accuracy, but we make no guarantees 🤝. Links, products, or services mentioned are not endorsements unless explicitly stated 🔗. By listening, you agree that Disrupt & Discuss and its hosts are not liable for any outcomes resulting from information shared on this podcast. ✅ Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2430415/support] DnD YouTube: https://shorturl.at/vXTke [https://youtube.com/@disruptndiscusspodcast?si=9u2pdt4kl5X1xkXe] DnD Instagram: https://shorturl.at/IxIH4 [https://www.instagram.com/disruptndiscuss?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==] DnD TikTok: https://shorturl.at/WH2YP [https://www.tiktok.com/@disruptndiscuss?_t=8s53F6L3M4c&_r=1] REFERRAL LINKS -   🎙️ Edit Faster, Sound Better, Create Smarter! 🎬 I use Descript for seamless podcast & video editing—auto-transcription, AI tools, and pro-quality sound in minutes! Try it FREE today: 👉 https://get.descript.com/tn15bft44m9f [https://get.descript.com/tn15bft44m9f] 🎙️ Launch & Grow Your Podcast with Ease! 🚀 I use Buzzsprout to host and distribute my podcast—it’s simple, reliable, and packed with great tools! Start your podcast today! 👉 https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=2375227 [https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=2375227] 📩 FREE DOWNLOADS - https://stan.store/BesheaVenturesOps  2026 Misogi Goal Reset Guide & The Hiring Brief

5150 Psychiatric Hold Explained: Can They Force You?

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2430415/fan_mail/new] You guys, did you know there are exactly 3 reasons the system can force you into a psychiatric hold and most of us have never heard any of them? In this clip Ashleigh, a licensed social worker and former 988 crisis responder, breaks it all the way down in language that actually makes sense. Key topics covered in this clip: * The 3 legal criteria that give the system authority to hold someone against their will: danger to self, danger to others, and gravely disabled, and what each one actually looks like in real life * When a voluntary 988 call can flip into a forced psychiatric hold and what that process looks like from the inside * What gravely disabled really means including severe substance use, inability to secure food and shelter, and delusional thinking that prevents someone from caring for themselves * How some homeless individuals have learned to use the psychiatric system as a survival tool during harsh weather when shelters are full * The truth about caregiver burnout and why some families are dropping off autistic adults and children at the ER just to get a break from a situation they have no support for * Why marijuana can trigger a full psychosis episode depending on the strain and what that looks like when crisis workers show up * How social workers protect their own mental health after delivering death notifications, sitting with grieving families, and absorbing some of the heaviest moments a person can witness About Ashleigh: Ashleigh holds a Master's in Social Work earned during the pandemic while raising two kids. She has served on the 988 crisis response team at the county level, conducted 5150 psychiatric evaluations, and now works as a medical social worker helping patients and families navigate some of the hardest moments of their lives. This clip is just the start. The full episode covers 988 vs 911, what really happens when a family calls the wrong number in a crisis, and the moment involving a 6-year-old on a psychiatric hold that brought a coworker to tears. Do not miss it. 👉 Listen to the full episode here: https://youtu.be/QjeitEmQtbM [https://youtu.be/QjeitEmQtbM] ⚠️ DISCLAIMER ⚠️ The views and opinions expressed on Disrupt & Discuss are solely those of the hosts and guests and do not represent any affiliated organizations, employers, or brands. 🙅🏽‍♀️ The content shared is for informational and entertainment purposes only 🎧. Nothing discussed should be taken as professional medical, legal, financial, or therapeutic advice ⚕️⚖️💰. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions related to your health, finances, or legal matters. We do our best to ensure accuracy, but we make no guarantees 🤝. Links, products, or services mentioned are not endorsements unless explicitly stated 🔗. By listening, you agree that Disrupt & Discuss and its hosts are not liable for any outcomes resulting from information shared on this podcast. ✅ Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2430415/support] DnD YouTube: https://shorturl.at/vXTke [https://youtube.com/@disruptndiscusspodcast?si=9u2pdt4kl5X1xkXe] DnD Instagram: https://shorturl.at/IxIH4 [https://www.instagram.com/disruptndiscuss?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==] DnD TikTok: https://shorturl.at/WH2YP [https://www.tiktok.com/@disruptndiscuss?_t=8s53F6L3M4c&_r=1] REFERRAL LINKS -   🎙️ Edit Faster, Sound Better, Create Smarter! 🎬 I use Descript for seamless podcast & video editing—auto-transcription, AI tools, and pro-quality sound in minutes! Try it FREE today: 👉 https://get.descript.com/tn15bft44m9f [https://get.descript.com/tn15bft44m9f] 🎙️ Launch & Grow Your Podcast with Ease! 🚀 I use Buzzsprout to host and distribute my podcast—it’s simple, reliable, and packed with great tools! Start your podcast today! 👉 https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=2375227 [https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=2375227] 📩 FREE DOWNLOADS - https://stan.store/BesheaVenturesOps  2026 Misogi Goal Reset Guide & The Hiring Brief