Ep. 102: Motherhood Without Regret: Trusting God with Your Children
What if your success as a mom was never measured by how your kids turn out?
In this Mother's Day week episode of Echos of Impact, Briana and Cherise sit down with Rhonda Stoppe, Christian humorist, popular speaker, bestselling author of seven books, and host of the award-winning podcast Old Ladies Know Stuff.
With 40 years of experience helping women build no-regret lives, Rhonda brings wisdom, humor, and biblical encouragement to a conversation about motherhood, faith, and trusting God with the next generation.
Rhonda is also a regular contributor for Crosswalk and Focus on the Family, a pastor's wife, mother of four, and grandmother of 15. Her newest book, Moms of the Bible: Life-Changing Lessons from the Fearless, Flawed, and Faithful, explores what today's mothers can learn from the women in Scripture — not perfect women, but real women whose stories reveal faith, failure, surrender, courage, and the faithfulness of God.
In this conversation, Rhonda shares the heart behind Moms of the Bible and why these stories matter so deeply for moms today. From Jochebed placing Moses in the basket, to Rebekah trying to control God's promise, to Esther's influence as a stepmom, to the painful warning found in Herodias' bitterness, Rhonda helps us see Scripture through the lens of motherhood in a fresh and powerful way.
Together, Briana, Cherise, and Rhonda talk about releasing control, trusting God with our children's stories, breaking unhealthy patterns, resisting people-pleasing, and remembering that motherhood is not about perfection — it's about faithfulness.
Rhonda also shares personal stories from her own motherhood journey, including walking through her son's epilepsy, learning to surrender the future she imagined for him, and watching God use that very season to shape him into the worship pastor he is today.
This episode is for the mom who has whispered, I'll be a better mom tomorrow. For the mom who wonders if she is doing enough. For the mom who is learning to let go. And for the mom who needs to be reminded that God has always used fearless, flawed, and faithful women to impact generations.
What We Cover:
* The heart behind Rhonda's newest book, Moms of the Bible
* Why the stories of biblical mothers still matter for moms today
* What Jochebed teaches us about trusting God when we have to let go
* How Rebekah's story reveals the danger of trying to control God's promises
* Why Esther's influence matters deeply for stepmoms and blended families
* What Herodias' story teaches about bitterness and generational pain
* How motherhood can reveal our struggle with fear, control, and people-pleasing
* Why a mom's success is not measured by how perfectly her children turn out
* How God can use our hardest trials to shape our children's faith
* Breaking unhealthy generational patterns through the wisdom of Christ
* Encouragement for moms who feel like they are living in survival mode
* Remembering that the "mundane" moments of motherhood are still deeply valuable
Key Quotes:
"Success does not lie in how well your kids turn out. Your success is found in how well you loved and followed Christ."
"Your trial's not always about you. Your trial validates your testimony to your watching children."
"People pleasing isn't pleasing. Don't raise your kids for what people think of you."
"You are God's appointed person in history to influence this generation."
"In the seemingly mundane-ness of motherhood, please don't lose sight of the valuable investment you will make in your children, your grandchildren, and future generations."
Connect with Rhonda Stoppe:
Visit Rhonda's Website: https://www.rhondastoppe.com/ [https://www.rhondastoppe.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com]
Learn more about Moms of the Bible: https://www.rhondastoppe.com/moms-of-the-bible-book/ [https://www.rhondastoppe.com/moms-of-the-bible-book/?utm_source=chatgpt.com]
Explore Rhonda's free resources: https://www.rhondastoppe.com/free-resources/ [https://www.rhondastoppe.com/free-resources/?utm_source=chatgpt.com]
Listen to Rhonda's podcast, Old Ladies Know Stuff: https://www.rhondastoppe.com/old-ladies-know-stuff/ [https://www.rhondastoppe.com/old-ladies-know-stuff/]
Follow Rhonda on Instagram: @rhondastoppe
Join the Conversation:
For the moms listening — what part of motherhood has required you to trust God in a deeper way?
Maybe it's releasing control. Maybe it's breaking patterns you grew up with. Maybe it's watching your child walk through something painful. Maybe it's learning that God never asked you to be a perfect mom — just a faithful one.
Come share your thoughts with us on Instagram or inside our Facebook community. We'd love to hear what this episode stirred in you.
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Final Notes:
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And to every mom listening this week — we hope this episode reminds you that you are not alone. God has always worked through imperfect mothers, ordinary moments, painful seasons, and surrendered hearts. Your motherhood matters, even in the moments that feel unseen.
Until next week, friends! 💛