El Patio

S2E9: Loss, Grief, and Moving Forward

In this episode, Ismelka makes a comeback and shares what she's been up to the last few months, why the podcast took such a long break, and what it's like dealing with an ill parent & their sudden death. She also speaks on her process of moving forward and how it can relate to others in similar situations. As always, continue keeping up with Ismelka and El Patio ⁠@Ismelka⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/ismelka/] on IG and ⁠@IsmelkaGomez⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/404?fromUrl=/ismelkagomez] on TikTok. If you've been enjoying El Patio and this episode, please leave a review on your preferred platform.

S2E8: Dating in the Wild (NYC) with AA

In this episode, Ismelka has a special guest and hopeless romantic Alixandria (AA) discussing the intricacies of dating in New York City. They explore why dating in the city is distinct from other places and how some people may come off as “odd” during dates. They talk about some of their craziest dates and some of the fun and good ones too. AA highlights the importance of understanding oneself in order to navigate the dating scene successfully. In a city as crazy, vibrant, and fast-paced as NYC, self-reflection and self-awareness are crucial for finding a compatible partner amidst the chaos. Join them as they delve into the unique aspects of dating in the city and the significance of inner self-discovery on the path to finding love. Keep up with AA via her Instagram @alixxania [https://www.instagram.com/alixxania/] and her TikTok @alixandriaaa [https://www.tiktok.com/@alixandriaaa?lang=en]. As always, continue keeping up with Ismelka and El Patio @Ismelka [https://www.instagram.com/ismelka/] on IG and @IsmelkaGomez [https://www.tiktok.com/404?fromUrl=/ismelkagomez] on TikTok. If you've been enjoying El Patio, this episode, and the whole thing, please leave a review on your preferred platform!

S2E7: Screenwriting, Storytelling, and Diversity with Ciku Wathika

In this podcast episode, Ismelka invites Ciku Wathika, a pop culture and screenwriting enthusiast. They discuss the current state of screenwriting and storytelling and what true diversity representation can be on TV.  With the rise of streaming platforms, they’re seeing a wider variety of reboots and interesting shows aimed at very specific audiences. They also talk about the significant strides in terms of diversity on TV (being a black woman or PoC woman on TV is the ultimate double-edged sword for representation), while acknowledging there is a long way to go.  Finally, they end up discussing that in order to create authentic and engaging content, writers and producers must continue to push for diverse perspectives in the writers' room and on-screen representation. However, we must also avoid forced narratives. Screenwriting is evolving, and there's a growing demand for shows that reflect our current cultural climate, but it's important to remember that what's being produced may not necessarily be what different audiences want. Keep up with Ciku via her Twitter @cikuwathika [https://twitter.com/cikuwathika]. As always, continue keeping up with Ismelka and El Patio @Ismelka [https://www.instagram.com/ismelka/] on IG and @IsmelkaGomez [https://www.tiktok.com/404?fromUrl=/ismelkagomez] on TikTok. Continue leaving those wonderful reviews on all platforms, kids!

S2E6: We All Need Therapy with Alyssa Kushner

In this episode, Ismelka welcomes Alyssa Kushner, LCSW, to the show, her friend, who is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker at Bhava Therapy Group (Therapist and Supervisor) in NYC. They discuss topics, such as, why we need to de-stigmatize therapy for both men and women, mental health awareness, and why this practice can benefit us all in the long run as a society.  Keep up with Alyssa on her Instagram @alyssaktherapy [https://www.instagram.com/alyssaktherapy/] and find her via Psychology Today here [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/alyssa-kushner-new-york-ny/494791] for your mental health needs. As always, continue keeping up with Ismelka and El Patio @Ismelka [https://www.instagram.com/ismelka/] on IG and @IsmelkaGomez [https://www.tiktok.com/404?fromUrl=/ismelkagomez] on TikTok. Continue leaving those reviews on all platforms, babes.

S2E5: NYC Real Estate - Yes, In This Economy - with Evelyn Robleto

In this episode, Ismelka welcomes to the show Realtor and social media queen, Evelyn Robleto! They talk about all things real estate in NYC — from being a realtor in a different state and focusing on rentals, to moving on up in the NYC market and working with buyers through the world-famous brokerage, Serhant.  Evelyn discusses what it means to be a realtor, best practices for people wanting to dive into the industry, and some real estate projections in the current market.  Keep up with Evelyn on her Instagram @evelynnrobleto [https://www.instagram.com/evelynnrobleto/] and find her via the Serhant website here [https://www.serhant.com/people] for your real estate needs. As always, continue keeping up with Ismelka and El Patio @Ismelka [https://www.instagram.com/ismelka/] on IG and @IsmelkaGomez [https://www.tiktok.com/404?fromUrl=/ismelkagomez] on TikTok. Continue leaving those reviews on all platforms, babes.