He Says She Says God Says

This episode is Part 2 of our series on Long Distance Relationships. Even if distance doesn't separate you from your loved one, this is a great episode to listen to. We interview two couples, Kyal & Jess, and Byron & Tegan, who share their charming, funny and heartfelt stories with you. Until next time, God bless. Link to the Vancouver Camp Highlights Video: ps://youtu.be/9jgoAEKHoZo?si=dvY7o349FRLxSCCa See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

This is Part 2 of our episode on Money and how it relates to our Marriages. Pr Chris Allen, a Pastor and a registered accountant, has a lot of experience helping couples before & after they're married.  He takes us through some of the challenges couples face including: * Budgeting * How our personality impacts our view on money * Good debt & bad debt * Money & kids * And many other topics A scripture Pr Chris references - PROVERBS 13:4 KJV "The soul of the sluggard desireth, and hath nothing: but the soul of the diligent shall be made fat." [https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-13-4/] Please note - this is general information only, and shouldn't be taken as advice that relates to your specific circumstances. Reach out if you have any comments (podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com) [podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com], or follow us on Social Media.  Until next time, God bless.   See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Dating is a fun, and exciting start of your relationship journey. But what is it like if you are many miles apart from each other?   How do you navigate a long distance relationship? In this episode we interview 2 couples, Will & Hannah, and Carlton & Lee, who share their stories with you. They're wonderful stories, and even if distance doesn't separate you from your loved one, this is a great episode to listen to. Link to the Vancouver Camp Highlights Video: ps://youtu.be/9jgoAEKHoZo?si=dvY7o349FRLxSCCa  hesaysshesaysgodsays.com  See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Danny and Mandi talk in this episode about Money - an important subject that impacts every marriage. Some of the topics they cover include: * The importance of communication * Budgets * The "right" level of debt * Keeping up with the Jones' Some scriptures they share: * Luke 14:28-30 https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Luke-14-28_14-30/ [https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Luke-14-28_14-30/]  * Luke 12:34 https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Luke-12-34/ [https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Luke-12-34/]  * 2 Thessalonians 3:10-12 https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/2-Thessalonians-3-10_3-12/ [https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/2-Thessalonians-3-10_3-12/]  * 2 Corinthians 9:7-8 https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/2-Corinthians-9-7_9-8/ [https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/2-Corinthians-9-7_9-8/]  Until next time, God bless. P.S. Feel free to connect on social media, or email us podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com [podcast@hesaysshesaysgodsays.com]      See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

If you're a parent, then this is a must-listen episode.  We discuss with Ged & Briar, qualified school counsellors, the challenges of parenting in the digital age. We cover how to keep your kids safe, the amount of time your kids should use devices & be online, what happens when things go wrong, It's a challenging, thought-provoking, and even scary episode....that's why it's so important to listen to it. Please also share with other parents you know - whether they be Christian or not.  Until next time, He Says, She Says, God Says.   Helpful Sites The Carly Ryan Foundation (AMAZING resources) [https://www.carlyryanfoundation.com/] Contract for Internet Usage & Safety [https://www.carlyryanfoundation.com/resources/online-safety-contract] The Social Dilemma documentary [https://www.netflix.com/title/81254224] eSafety Government Resources [https://www.esafety.gov.au/] Fighting Pornography [https://fightthenewdrug.org/] Internet Filters Family Zone [https://www.familyzone.com/anz/families?gclid=EAIaIQobChMIhufRu86Q5AIVGA4rCh2ntAGpEAAYASAAEgKomfD_BwE] Canopy [https://canopy.us/] Bark [https://www.bark.us/] Covenant Eyes [https://www.covenanteyes.com/] Scriptures https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-22-6/ [https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-22-6/] https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-1-8_1-9/ [https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Proverbs-1-8_1-9/] https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Ephesians-6-4/ [https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Ephesians-6-4/] 10 Strategies to help kids develop resilience. Resilience is the ability to ‘bounce back’ from life’s difficulties. For many young people it is vital to help them develop resilience strategies that promote well-being and develop coping mechanisms. Many resilient teenagers are seen as resourceful and are emotionally and mentally balanced. Andrew Fuller [http://www.andrewfuller.com.au/index.php?Do=ContentView&pageno=100] is a clinical psychologist and Generation Next [https://www.generationnext.com.au/]speaker, he describes resilience as “the happy knack of being able to bungy jump through the pitfalls of life – to rise above adversity and obstacles.” Tips for building resilience in children* 1. Make connections Teach children how to make friends and develop empathy. Encourage them to be a friend in order to get friends. At school, watch to make sure that one child is not being isolated. Connecting with people provides social support and strengthens resilience. 2. Teach children to help others Children who may feel helpless can be empowered by helping others. Ask for help with a task they can master. At school, brainstorm with children about ways they can help others. 3. Daily routine Following a routine can be comforting to children, especially younger children who crave structure in their lives. Encourage children to develop their own routines. 4. Take a break Although it is important to stick to routines, endlessly worrying can be counter-productive. Show children how to focus on something besides what’s worrying them. 5. Self-care for children Teach child the importance of making time to eat properly, groom themselves, exercise and rest. Children need ‘down time’ to relax, so make sure that not all free time is filled with a scheduled activity. 6. Goals Teach children to set reasonable goals and move toward them one step at a time. Moving toward that goal and receiving praise for doing so will focus children on what they have accomplished. 7. Nurture a positive self-view Help children remember ways that they have successfully handled hardships in the past and how this can help them handle future challenges. Help children learn to trust themselves to solve problems and make appropriate decisions. 8. Be optimistic Even when children are facing very painful events, help them look at the situation in a broader context. A positive outlook enables children to see the good things in life and keep going even in the hardest times. 9. Self-discovery Change and tough times are often when children learn the most about themselves. Help children to see that this is a good time to find out “what they are made of.”  Change can be scary for young people, help them to see that change is part of life. 10. Make home a safe haven In high school, taunting and bullying can intensify – home should be a haven, especially as your teen encounters more freedom and choices and looks to home to be a constant, safe and emotionally secure place in his or her life. The Resilience Doughnut Developed in Australia, The Resilience Doughnut [http://www.theresiliencedoughnut.com.au/] builds resilience by considering both the internal qualities of a resilient person as well as the factors in the person’s environment which support and interact with those internal qualities. It is simple and practical and can be taught in a workshop format to school students. SAY HI! Let us know any questions you might have, and we will try and answer them in a future episode (we won’t identify you personally on-air). 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