The Bumble Blab

What Do You Want? Why It’s Not That Simple

In this episode, we’re unpacking one of the most deceptively simple questions: “What do you want?” Inspired by The Notebook scene where Noah asks Allie this question and she says, “It’s not that simple,” we explore why wanting can feel so complicated, especially when different parts of us want different things. One part may want the person, another wants peace. One part wants to stay, another wants to leave. One part wants the old version of the relationship back, while another knows you can’t unknow what you now know. We’ll talk about the Want Audit, how to declutter your desires, and why self-trust is not about doing whatever you want in the moment. It’s about learning which want deserves to lead. This episode is for anyone who has ever wondered, “Do I actually want this, or am I just afraid to let it go?” If this episode made you realize your dating life might be cluttered with old beliefs, fear-based wants, or patterns you inherited instead of chose, come to Dating Mind Detox on May 28th at 5:30 PM Eastern. We’re going to clear out the mental clutter shaping the way you date, choose, attach, stay, leave, and second-guess yourself, so you can move forward with more clarity, self-trust, and intention. Be there or be square. Click HERE [https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/gxP459tFSWKylE215fku3g#/registration] to register Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2295463/fan_mail/new]

What You Haven’t Learned From Betrayal Yet: A Case Study on Samson and Delilah

If you are interested in learning more about how to heal from betrayal and the sneaky ways you might be sabotaging your future with your dream person, book a call with me HERE [https://coachingcompany161814.hbportal.co/schedule/672af25b913ef500258efc8a]. No pressure. I’m nice. And even if we do not end up working together, you will absolutely walk away with some amazing takeaways. I only offer 3 spots each week, so grab one before they are gone. In this episode, we are doing a deep dive on betrayal through one of the messiest, most dramatic betrayal stories ever told: Samson and Delilah. And before you turn this off because you are not religious, hear me out. I am not here to tell you what to believe. I am here to look at this as a story. Because sometimes it is easier to see betrayal clearly when it is not our own. Samson and Delilah has everything: Love. Secrets. Money. Manipulation. Pressure. Vetting. Access. Fantasy. And a man who had three very clear signs that this woman was not safe with his vulnerability… And he still stayed. In this episode, I walk you through the story in plain English and pull out the gold nuggets on betrayal, intimacy, privacy, hookup culture, vetting, and why love does not mean unlimited access. Because one of the biggest lessons from this story is: You are denied access until proven trustworthy. Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2295463/fan_mail/new]

The Mother’s Day Episode You Didn’t Know You Needed

Mother’s Day is beautiful… and for some of us, it’s complicated. In this episode, I’m talking about the part of motherhood we don’t always say out loud: the grief, the guilt, the resentment, the longing, and the little girl inside of us who still wants to be seen by her own mother. I share why Mother’s Day can feel tender when you grew up feeling like love came with an invoice, and how I’m learning to honor my mom, my own motherhood, and myself without turning sacrifice into martyrdom. This episode is for the woman who loves her mom and still feels hurt. For the mom who wants to break cycles without pretending she wasn’t shaped by them. And for anyone who needs permission to let Mother’s Day be honest, not perfect. Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2295463/fan_mail/new]

The Story You Inherited About Men: What It’s Actually Shaping

In this episode, I’m introducing The Dating Mind Detox by exploring how the stories we inherited about men may still be shaping the way we date today. Before we ever experienced heartbreak, betrayal, ghosting, or dating apps, many of us were already absorbing beliefs about men from our parents, caregivers, culture, media, and early experiences. We’ll talk about how those beliefs shape what we notice, what we ignore, what we tolerate, and who we become in dating. If you’re ready to stop letting old stories pick your future, join me for my free workshop, The Dating Mind Detox, on May 28th at 5:30 PM EST.  Register HERE [https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/gxP459tFSWKylE215fku3g#/registration] Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2295463/fan_mail/new]

The Courtroom, The Betrayal, and Why I Became A Dating Coach

This episode is a little bit of everything… the courtroom, the betrayal, and the lessons that came through it. I share what happened with my pendente lite case, how I almost didn’t file, and what shifted when I finally decided to take action. But more than that, this episode is about a relationship I was in… and how the people who loved me could see things I wasn’t ready to see yet. The truth is—I had incredible friends. Ride or dies. Women who loved me deeply, supported me, and told me the truth. I didn’t need different friends… I needed to become someone who could actually hear them. This episode is about that shift. The moment where things start to click, where awareness deepens, and you begin to trust what’s been in front of you the whole time. If you’ve ever felt torn between what you feel, what you hope, and what the people around you are seeing… this one will land. Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2295463/fan_mail/new]