Hope Beyond Betrayal: Healing from Porn Addiction & Infidelity

#51 - Can You Motivate a Porn and Sex Addict to Change? - Listener Questions

Ask Us a Question! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2440648/fan_mail/new] In this episode, David and Eileen take a couple listener questions regarding porn addiction recovery and use examples in their own journey how this can be progressed: 1. Should I set a time limit on him to make progress when he is unwilling? 2. How can I encourage him in recovery to motivate him?   Whether you're the one struggling with porn or sex addiction, the betrayed partner carrying your own pain, or a couple trying to find your footing in recovery together, this episode has elements that can help each of you find your way towards expression and healing. ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ [https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/] Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen] 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david] ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call] GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un] ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group] Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal [https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal] Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal [https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal] Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching [https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayal] Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal [https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2440648/support]

#50 - "Prove That You Will Fight For Us" - A Delegation from the Betrayed to the Porn Addict that Can Change Everything - with Guest Zack

Ask Us a Question! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2440648/fan_mail/new] In this episode, David speaks with Zack, who recently had a discovery day event and is working to get into recovery. Zack brings some questions to the podcast along with his story which presents a powerful request from his partner: prove that you will fight for us. David and Zack then work through how something this direct can become a powerful tool in recovery understanding that an addict mindset needs to shift to be on guard for his loved ones over his own pain or insecurities. Together, they talk through several ways this can happen. Whether you're the one struggling with porn or sex addiction, the betrayed partner carrying your own pain, or a couple trying to find your footing in recovery together, this episode has elements that can help each of you find your way towards expression and healing. ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ [https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/] Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen] 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david] ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call] GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un] ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group] Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal [https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal] Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal [https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal] Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching [https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayal] Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal [https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2440648/support]

#49 - Meet Me in the Valley: Porn Addiction, Triggers & Empathy

Ask Us a Question! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2440648/fan_mail/new] In this raw and honest episode, David and Eileen both open up about what it looks like to hit rock bottom in the same season — drowning in triggers, wrestling with hopelessness, and feeling the weight of porn and sex addiction up close.  Rather than trying to fix each other, they share how they chose to simply show up — stepping down into the valley together instead of going into old patterns that didn't result in connection or honesty. Together, they explain the effects of these approaches. Whether you're the one struggling with porn or sex addiction, the betrayed partner carrying your own pain, or a couple trying to find your footing in recovery together, this episode has elements that can help each of you find your way towards expression and healing. ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ [https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/] Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen] 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david] ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call] GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un] ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group] Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal [https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal] Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal [https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal] Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching [https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayal] Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal [https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2440648/support]

#48 - Savior Complex and Sex Addiction: Why the Desire to "Fix" Hurts the Betrayed - with Guest Matt and Michelle - Part 2

Ask Us a Question! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2440648/fan_mail/new] In this episode, Eileen and David continue their discussion with guests Matt and Michelle. This week, they focus on Michelle and her healing needs after years of pain. They are at the starting point of recovery after 17 years of infidelity and porn addiction, but the effects of the infidelity and lies have had a physical and mental affect on Michelle's body. Eileen spends time working with Michelle on ways that her desire to sacrifice herself for the people around her is harming her body. The conversation then focuses on ways to use that desire to do good in order to work towards her goals and how to separate anxiety from gut instincts that serve her well. On this path to healing, Michelle is then given an opportunity to change her life, regardless of Matt's choices. This is part 2 of a two part discussion.  ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ [https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/] Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen] 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david] ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call] GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un] ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group] Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal [https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal] Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal [https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal] Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching [https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayal] Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal [https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2440648/support]

#47 - The Madonna/Whore Complex and How it Leads to Infidelity - with Guest Matt and Michelle - Part 1

Ask Us a Question! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2440648/fan_mail/new] In this episode, Eileen and David walk their guests Matt and Michelle through several questions in their relationship history. They are at the starting point of recovery after 17 years of infidelity and porn addiction. Now that Matt has his eyes open to the fact that he has a problem, how is he going to navigate knowing that this is his last chance in the relationship? David and Eileen walk them through several thoughts about the patterns in the relationship and how hope and change are possible in spite of the deep hurt and wounds. Their focus turns to the Madonna/Whore Complex initiated by Sigmund Freud and how Matt's dependence and reverence of Michelle fails to produce love for her and instead leads to actions that harm her. This is part 1 of a two part discussion. Next episode will be focused on Michelle and her healing needs after years of pain. ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ [https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/] Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen] 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david] ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call] GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un] ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group [https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group] Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal [https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal] Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal [https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal] Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching [https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayal] Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal [https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2440648/support]