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The Hidden Link Between Money Mindset, Self Worth, and Financial Confidence with Sam Ebblewhite

Your relationship with money starts with your relationship with yourself. In this episode of iDateMoney, we explore how your money mindset, financial confidence, and emotional patterns shape your ability to create financial stability. If you've ever wondered why you keep repeating the same financial patterns, struggle to trust yourself with money decisions, or feel stuck despite working hard, this conversation will help you rewrite your money story and rebuild your financial confidence from the inside out. ---------------------------------------- EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS * Why your relationship with yourself determines your relationship with money * The hidden emotional stories that shape your money mindset * How unresolved shame and self judgment impact your financial confidence ---------------------------------------- KEY TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – Introduction Lisa introduces guest Sam Ebbelwhite and the connection between sex, money, relationships, and personal alignment. 02:00 – Sam’s personal healing journey From counseling and support groups to energy work and personal transformation. 03:30 – What alignment really means Understanding the connection between mind, body, emotions, and money. 05:00 – Why personal growth takes time How small steps create long term transformation. 07:00 – The importance of your relationship with yourself How self worth impacts relationships, career choices, and income. 09:00 – The stories we carry about money How childhood, culture, and past experiences shape financial behavior. 10:00 – Rewriting your money story Why awareness is the first step to financial change. 12:00 – Facing past mistakes without shame A powerful reflection exercise that can transform your identity. 15:00 – Breaking the cycle of self judgment How negative self talk sabotages financial confidence. 18:00 – Why support systems matter for entrepreneurs 20:00 – Challenging the stories you tell yourself 22:00 – How to choose the right mentor or coach 25:00 – Why emotional decisions lead to financial mistakes 27:00 – Knowing when someone is not the right client or coach 29:30 – How to connect with Sam ---------------------------------------- GUEST BIO Sam Ebbelwhite is a somatic sexologist, kinesiologist, and relationship coach who helps individuals and couples reconnect with their bodies, rebuild trust, and rediscover intimacy and authentic self expression. Her work focuses on emotional healing, nervous system safety, and helping people release the stories that keep them stuck in unhealthy patterns in relationships, sexuality, and personal growth. Through her programs and coaching, Sam helps clients rebuild their relationship with themselves so they can create healthier relationships with others. Connect with Sam: www.samebblewhite.com.au [http://www.samebblewhite.com.au] Instagram: @@samebblewhitess Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money? Inside The Smell of Money [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/plans], you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO [https://onboarding.novo.co/signup?referral_code=LisaDrennon&first_name=Lisa] Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 ----------------------------------------

How to Build a Retirement Account With No Money with David Nassief

What if losing your job at 63 became the moment that changed your financial future forever? In this episode of the iDateMoney podcast, Lisa Drennon sits down with David Nassif, who went from nearly broke at 63 to achieving financial freedom and a seven-figure portfolio by age 69 using a simple one-page wealth strategy. ---------------------------------------- WHAT YOU WILL LEARN * Why making good money does not automatically create wealth * The danger of living at your full means even without debt * How shiny objects derail your financial plan and investment strategy * The simple diversification strategy that protects your retirement account * Why financial freedom comes from systems, not income * How a one page wealth compass creates clarity and confidence with money * Why it is never too late to start building wealth ---------------------------------------- KEY TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Introduction to the One Page Wealth Compass 01:15 David’s story: fired at 63 after 18 years 02:15 Facing the fear of telling his wife they might be broke by 65 03:00 Starting over with a commission based business 04:20 The rejection phase and building resilience 05:00 Why making more money does not solve the wealth problem 06:20 The turning point that led David to study investing 07:30 Distilling 21 books and financial podcasts into a simple plan 08:30 Becoming financially independent by age 69 09:30 Why it is never too late to start building wealth 11:00 The danger of shiny objects and financial distractions 12:40 The power of having a financial plan and money system 14:30 Building income through sales and mastering communication 16:00 Creating a one page wealth compass for investing and business 18:00 The diversification strategy that protects your investments 19:00 David’s new book and how the compass works 20:00 How to download the free One Page Wealth Compass ---------------------------------------- GUEST BIO David Nassif is an author, entrepreneur, and financial educator who achieved financial independence after being fired at age 63. After studying investing and personal finance intensely, he created the One Page Wealth Compass, a simple system designed to help people build financial freedom through diversification and disciplined investing. ---------------------------------------- RESOURCES AND LINKS Get Your Free Wealth Compass [https://onepagewealthcompass.com] Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about], you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Join The Smell of Money [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about] today. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO [https://onboarding.novo.co/signup?referral_code=LisaDrennon&first_name=Lisa] today Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

The Weekly Money Habit That Changes Everything

Most people work hard and still feel broke. The problem is not income. It is the lack of a clear money system. In this episode, Lisa Drennon shares how “dating your money” each week can transform your finances, eliminate debt, and build true wealth. She also explains why financial literacy must start with children through her book LionPhin’s Money Adventure: Discover The Magic Of Saving, Spending, & Sharing EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS * Why most entrepreneurs make money but still feel broke * The concept of “dating your money” every week * Why paying yourself first must be non-negotiable * The Save, Spend, Share framework for kids and adults * How Lisa paid off $100,000 in debt in six months * The money mindset blocks that keep entrepreneurs stuck * Why financial systems matter more than hustle * How mompreneurs can separate business and personal finances KEY TAKEAWAYS * Wealth starts with clarity about where your money goes * Your income needs a map and a system * Paying yourself first changes everything * Financial education should begin in childhood THANK YOU FOR TUNING INTO THIS WEEK’S EPISODE OF IDATEMONEY!® 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money, [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about] you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Join The Smell of Money [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about] today. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO [https://onboarding.novo.co/signup?referral_code=LisaDrennon&first_name=Lisa]today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

"I CAN'T AFFORD THAT."

Have you ever been on a sales call, felt completely aligned with the person or program, and then the moment the price was revealed, your stomach tightened, and the words came out automatically: “I can’t afford it.” It’s one of the most common phrases people say when faced with investing in themselves. But what if that statement isn’t actually about money at all? In this episode, Lisa Drennon unpacks a powerful realization she had after four recent sales calls where every potential client said the exact same thing: they couldn’t afford the investment. But instead of taking that statement at face value, Lisa began asking a deeper question. What if “I can’t afford it” is actually a protective response from the nervous system rather than a true reflection of someone’s financial situation? When we’re faced with a big decision, especially one involving money, our brain and body can react with fear, stress, and uncertainty. That response can make us shut down opportunities that might actually help us grow. In this episode, Lisa breaks down the three hidden lies behind the phrase “I can’t afford it” and explains why people often find ways to pay for things when the need feels urgent, aligned, or certain. You’ll learn why the real objection is rarely money — it’s usually a lack of certainty, discomfort around making the decision, or a nervous system that feels overwhelmed by the possibility of change. Lisa also shares the powerful lesson she learned from these sales conversations: when people don’t fully acknowledge the pain of their current situation, they often can’t see the true value of the solution in front of them. If you’re a divorced or single mompreneur who feels like money keeps slipping through your fingers no matter how hard you work, Lisa also shares how her 90-day Wealth Accelerator program [https://calendly.com/lisa-drennon/laser-money-coaching-session]helps women install a simple financial system that reduces stress, builds savings, and creates real financial confidence. Explore whether this program is a good fit for you: Wealth Accelerator [https://calendly.com/lisa-drennon/laser-money-coaching-session] Because true financial freedom isn’t about how much money you make, It’s about understanding how to make your money work for you. Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/plans], you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Open your Business Checking with NOVO [https://onboarding.novo.co/signup?referral_code=LisaDrennon&first_name=Lisa] today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

STOP AVOIDING YOUR MONEY PAIN

What if the reason you’re stuck financially isn’t about math but about avoidance? In this episode, Lisa shares a powerful personal story about hip pain and how it revealed a deeper truth about the way we treat money. If you’ve been avoiding your bank account, living on credit cards, or feeling anxious every time you think about your finances, this episode will help you lean in instead of pulling away. ---------------------------------------- ⏱ TIMESTAMPS 00:09 – The Theragun Story: Avoiding the Pain Hip pain revealed a powerful lesson about control, discomfort, and healing. 01:00 – The Money Parallel Why we avoid looking at our finances when they feel overwhelming, and how that avoidance keeps us stuck. 02:00 – The Credit Card Cycle Living on credit, not knowing your numbers, and playing the “where did my money go?” game. 02:18 – The Smell of Money & Money Awareness Challenge How weekly reset calls and daily “cash flow quickies” help you rebuild your relationship with money. 04:13 – Step 1: Daily Money Gratitude Why gratitude shifts you from fear to awareness. 05:00 – Step 2: Create a Money Map Track income, expenses, debt, assets, and net worth. Why knowing your numbers turns fear into neutral data. 06:44 – Step 3: Pay Yourself First Stop saving “what’s left.” Build your emergency fund and create intentional money buckets. 07:30 – Money Buckets & High-Yield Savings Using designated accounts to reduce emotional spending. 08:30 – Rewrite Your Money Story How your past beliefs shape your current financial reality and how to change them. 09:05 – The Psychology of Wealth Why mindset, not income, determines whether you keep money. Worthiness, healing, and breaking the debt cycle. 09:50 – Final Message: Lean In On the other side of financial discomfort is peace, clarity, overflow, and true wealth. ---------------------------------------- KEY TAKEAWAYS * Avoidance keeps you stuck financially. * Gratitude reduces money anxiety. * Clarity creates confidence. * Paying yourself first builds safety and stability. * Wealth is mindset + math. * You are capable, and deserving of financial peace. ---------------------------------------- Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of iDateMoney®! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2], you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO [https://onboarding.novo.co/signup?referral_code=LisaDrennon&first_name=Lisa] Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it🗝️🌬️💖💸 ⚠️ Results Disclaimer: Results and examples shared in this video are based on specific experiences and are for educational purposes only. Achieving similar outcomes requires time, effort, and consistency. Individual results will vary depending on your niche, dedication, and external factors. This content does not constitute professional, financial, or legal advice.