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Should You Control Who Your Kids Hang With? Unpacking Parenting, Wealth & Limiting Beliefs

In this thought-provoking clip from "Black Out with Ian & Rashad," Rashad Bilal and Ian Dunlap tackle one of parenting's most controversial debates: Should you control who your kids spend time with, especially when it comes to economic backgrounds and limiting beliefs? The discussion starts with a viral video, where a parent insists on barring his kids from making friends with children from "broke families," not just because of finances, but due to the risk of inheriting limiting mindsets. This bold statement ignites a nuanced conversation. Rashad reflects on his own upbringing in a working-class neighborhood, noting most folks he grew up with weren’t wealthy but managed to build something meaningful, referencing how he and his friends created a successful business from humble beginnings. He shares personal stories about how friends dramatically influence life choices and aspirations—sometimes limiting them, sometimes lifting them up. Ian offers his take, agreeing that environment deeply shapes a child’s ambitions but pointing out that character and habits matter even more than income. He recalls real-life scenarios where he exercised gatekeeping for his child, focusing on positive influences rather than wealth. Together, Rashad and Ian dive into the impact of strong-mindedness, the value of resilience, and the responsibility of parents to position their kids for a successful future. They also discuss whether being a “loner” can be a protective strategy against negative influences. If you care about kids’ futures, or if you’re navigating the complexities of raising ambitious children in a world full of mixed messages, this clip is a must-watch. Is it truly beneficial—or even possible—to shield your kids from the influence of friends with different backgrounds? Can limiting beliefs really stunt potential, or are there ways to overcome them regardless of your circle? Share your thoughts below! Would you choose your kids' friends based on mindset or circumstances? Let’s get the conversation going. #Parenting #MindsetMatters #ChildhoodInfluence #BlackOutPodcast #IanDunlap #RashadBilal #LimitingBeliefs #WealthMindset #Success #Community #ParentTips #Ambition #KidsAndFriends #Upbringing #SocialInfluence #Motivation Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

Who Comes First: Wife, Mother, or Daughter?

On this powerful clip from "Black Out with Ian & Rashad," Ian Dunlap, Rashad Bilal, talk about a debate: Who is the most important woman in a married man's life—his wife, his mother, or his daughter? The conversation kicks off with Max B’s candid take: If you’re married, your wife comes first. He highlights the responsibilities that shift from parent to spouse and emphasizes the importance of respecting the marital hierarchy. Ian Dunlap pushes back, opening up about his relationship with his own parents and questioning whether wife should always take priority. The hosts break down cultural expectations, family respect, and real-life scenarios—like what happens in emergencies, or if your spouse doesn’t get along with your parents. The discussion explores: - Why your spouse is the only family member you choose - The role of parents and the transfer of responsibility in marriage - How child-parent dynamics shift after marriage - When the needs of children or parents temporarily take precedence - The impact of family alignment on long-term relationship success The group doesn’t shy away from tough questions: Is it toxic to put your partner above your parents or kids? What happens when your spouse isn’t a good match with your family? And does importance always mean responsibility? If you've ever wondered about family hierarchy or debated who should come first in your life, this clip gives you multiple perspectives rooted in experience, culture, and honest conversation. Drop your thoughts in the comments and let us know: Who do YOU think should come first in a married man’s life? **Hashtags:** #BlackOutPodcast #MaxB #IanDunlap #RashadBilal #FamilyFirst #MarriageDebate #Relationships #MarriageAdvice #Parenting #FamilyDynamics #PodcastClip #RealTalk Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

"Family Estrangement & No Contact: Rashad Bilal and Ian Dunlap Weigh In"

On this powerful clip from Black Out with Ian & Rashad, Rashad Bilal and Ian Dunlap dive deep into the growing trend of younger generations choosing to go no contact with their families. Kicking off with an impactful Oprah Winfrey segment, the conversation explores real-life stories of people who have cut off communication with parents, siblings, and even children—sometimes for years at a time. Rashad Bilal brings context to this movement, recalling when child actors in the '90s began "divorcing" their parents legally. He acknowledges that while family estrangement isn’t a new phenomenon, social media has brought more awareness, turning private decisions into public conversations. Both Rashad and Ian reflect on their own families and express gratitude for their positive relationships, balancing empathy and understanding for those who don’t share the same fortune. Ian Dunlap voices empathy for people who’ve had to make the tough decision to go no contact, recognizing that deep-rooted trauma can make maintaining family ties impossible. He shares insight from conversations with adults estranged from their children—and questions the lack of accountability some parents show. For Ian, the trauma caused by family can be so profound that cutting contact may be the only way to heal. Rashad Bilal thoughtfully navigates the delicate subject, acknowledging he can’t advise someone on what to do if they've experienced betrayal or abuse. He stresses the importance of having these discussions with professionals, noting that every situation is unique and often shaped by unresolved trauma and hurt that rarely gets discussed. Both hosts agree that wealth isn’t just about money—it’s about having loving family, good friends, and community. Yet, they express heartbreak for those whose family relationships bring pain instead of peace. The clip ends with a call to bring a therapist onto the podcast, highlighting the need for expert perspectives on navigating difficult family dynamics and the emotional impact of estrangement. If you or someone you know is struggling with family relationships, you’ll find resonance and realness in this honest conversation with Rashad Bilal and Ian Dunlap. **Hashtags:** #FamilyEstrangement #NoContact #BlackOutPodcast #RashadBilal #IanDunlap #OprahWinfrey #MentalHealth #Trauma #Therapy #FamilyDynamics #Healing #Community #ParentChildRelationships #PodcastClip #BreakTheSilence Let us know your thoughts below—have you experienced family estrangement, or do you know someone who has? Would you want more expert advice on this topic? Drop your comments and join the conversation! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

Wife vs Mother Debate, Blowing $100 Million, Is Marriage the New Luxury?, & The Diddy Documentary

On this episode of Black Out, we tapped into the real conversations most people are scared to have. We broke down the age-old debate: Who comes first in a man’s life — his wife or his mother? Then we dove into parenting in 2025 and whether you should keep your kids away from “broke mind-set” households. We also discussed why so many young people are going no contact with their parents, Odell’s viral take on why $100 million might not last a lifetime, and when it’s time to officially “dress your age.” From LeBron, Mav, and the NYC subway story… to whether marriage has become the newest luxury purchase… to raw reactions to the Diddy doc… to Joe Budden predicting that 40% of podcasts will fail… and even the wild moment when a man lost his girl at Tonight’s Conversation — this episode is full of unfiltered perspectives, culture talk, and the honest truth most people won’t say out loud. Market Mondays Cyber Monday Deal (Extended for 24 Hours): https://marketmondaysdeal.com #BlackOut #EarnYourLeisure #Relationships #Parenting #MarriageDebate #LeBronJames #OdellBeckhamJr #Diddy #JoeBudden #PodcastTalk #CultureConversation #MensTalk #WomensTalk #RealTalk #TonightConversation Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

Thanksgiving Drama: Who REALLY Gets Invited?

In this hilarious and insightful clip from "Black Out with Ian & Rashad," Rashad Bilal and Ian Dunlap dive deep into the messy politics of Thanksgiving invitations. From baby mama drama at the dinner table to family wildcards and even the tough realities of racist relatives, both hosts unpack every uncomfortable scenario that comes with deciding who gets a seat at the holiday feast. Rashad Bilal kicks things off by asking the tough question: Who *actually* gets an invite to Thanksgiving dinner? Ian Dunlap suggests it's those you love, but Rashad Bilal quickly points out that love isn’t always the deciding factor. They walk through common situations, like the awkwardness of having both the mother of your child and your current partner at dinner—especially when family relationships add more layers to the drama. The conversation covers legitimate reasons why someone might not get invited, like avoiding toxic family members or keeping a partner away from a racist household. The hosts emphasize that sometimes not getting an invite isn’t personal—it’s about protection or family dynamics. Rashad Bilal even reassures listeners, "If you don't get invited to Thanksgiving, ladies, don't take it personal. It could be a good reason why." Adding humor to the mix, Ian Dunlap and Rashad Bilal joke about performance-based invites and the importance of contributing to holiday meals. If you show up empty-handed, expect to be judged! They also debate whether it's better to be invited to the main dinner or just the chill hangout after, concluding that being invited only to the "let out" is wild. The duo rounds off the discussion by stressing the significance of Thanksgiving introductions, suggesting that what you bring to dinner speaks volumes about how much you value the relationship. Whether it’s dodging family feuds, juggling old flames, or ensuring you bring a pie with you, Rashad Bilal and Ian Dunlap keep it real about the do’s and don’ts of Thanksgiving with family—and why sometimes exclusion is the kinder choice. If you’ve ever found yourself stressing about holiday invites, swapping stories, or just need a good laugh about family drama, this clip delivers the truth and comedy you need. Don't forget to bring a gift! **Hashtags:** #ThanksgivingDrama #FamilyPolitics #HolidayInvites #BlackOutPodcast #RashadBilal #IanDunlap #BabyMamaDrama #PodcastClip #FamilyTruths #FunnyPodcast #RelationshipTalk #HolidaySeason #RealTalk #DinnerTableDiscussions Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]