Money Matrimony

Episode 34 - What Do We Owe Our Children .. and Our Parents?

EPISODE 34 — WHAT DO WE OWE OUR CHILDREN — AND OUR PARENTS? Inheritance. Ageing parents. Entitlement. Responsibility. Few family conversations carry more emotion — or more unspoken expectation — than money across generations. * Should parents leave an inheritance? * Should children expect one? * And what happens when ageing parents need financial support later in life? Most families never clearly talk about these questions. But silence doesn’t remove expectations.It just hides them. And hidden expectations around money eventually become pressure, resentment and conflict. In this episode, we unpack the tension between honour and obligation, provision and entitlement, wisdom and guilt — and what Scripture actually says about legacy, responsibility and family. Because legacy isn’t just about what money you leave behind. It’s about the maturity, values and clarity you pass on. IN THIS EPISODE We discuss questions like: * Should parents leave inheritance to their children? * Why inheritance should never become an expectation? * The danger of entitlement across generations? * What the Bible says about honouring parents financially? * Supporting ageing parents without destroying your own family stability? * Why silent expectations fracture marriages and siblings? * How to have these conversations before crisis forces them KEY TAKEAWAY * Don’t build your life assuming money is coming. * If inheritance comes, receive it with gratitude — not entitlement. * Raise children who are capable before they are comfortable. * And honour parents with wisdom, not guilt. * Because maybe legacy isn’t about how much money moves between generations… * But about the kind of people we become along the way. *****Make sure to hit the subscribe button and join the conversation!***** Follow our socials Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the.moneymatrimony/ [https://www.instagram.com/the.moneymatrimony/] Facebook https://www.facebook.com/themoneymatrimony [https://www.facebook.com/themoneymatrimony] Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-money-matrimony [https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-money-matrimony] Disclaimer Please note that nothing in this podcast should ever be considered personal financial advice. For advice specific to your situation & needs, we encourage you to speak to a finance professional.  The information provided in this podcast, Money Matrimony, is for entertainment and informational purposes only. Whilst we are passionate about personal finance and share our experiences, opinions, and insights, it should not be construed as financial advice. Listeners are encouraged to seek the advice of a qualified financial advisor or professional before making any financial decision. Every individual and couple's financial situation is unique, and what works for one may not be suitable for another. The opinions expressed by the hosts and any guests on the show are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions they may be affiliated with. Money Matrimony does not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or reliability of any information shared on the podcast. Listeners should conduct their own research and exercise their own judgment when making financial decisions. By listening to Money Matrimony, you agree that the hosts, guests, and producers of the podcast are not liable for any financial losses or damages that may result from actions taken based on the information provided in the podcast. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Episode 33 - Financial security: when enough is enough

EPISODE 33 - FINANCIAL SECURITY: WHEN ENOUGH, IS ENOUGH In this episode, we explore financial security not necessarily through the lens of a monetary amount, but rather through ‘feelings’. We discuss how ‘enough’ is not an end goal that one achieves to reach but a state of emotional confidence and peace that is supported by preparedness and aligns with your financial reality and the importance navigating that as a couple. Some key ideas we explore: * How financial security and what is enough changes depending on the season of life you’re in * How lifestyle creep quietly undermines security, even as income increases * Why shared “no’s” are just as important as shared goals * Practical, real-life examples of what “enough” can look like * How couples can get on the same page with each other, not against each other * Guardrails that help protect security and enough over time At the end of the day, security grows when couples are more aligned emotionally and practically, so here are some conversation starters to help you both if you want to keep the conversation going or started, try asking each other: * What does financial security mean to you? * What helps you feel safe and what triggers anxiety around money? * What does “enough” look like for this season of our lives? * What financial situations do we never want to repeat? * Does this expense move us closer to security or just comfort? You don’t need perfect answers, just shared language and be a good and active listener! *****Make sure to hit the subscribe button and join the conversation!***** Follow our socials Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the.moneymatrimony/ [https://www.instagram.com/the.moneymatrimony/] Facebook https://www.facebook.com/themoneymatrimony [https://www.facebook.com/themoneymatrimony] Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-money-matrimony [https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-money-matrimony] Disclaimer Please note that nothing in this podcast should ever be considered personal financial advice. For advice specific to your situation & needs, we encourage you to speak to a finance professional.  The information provided in this podcast, Money Matrimony, is for entertainment and informational purposes only. Whilst we are passionate about personal finance and share our experiences, opinions, and insights, it should not be construed as financial advice. Listeners are encouraged to seek the advice of a qualified financial advisor or professional before making any financial decision. Every individual and couple's financial situation is unique, and what works for one may not be suitable for another. The opinions expressed by the hosts and any guests on the show are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions they may be affiliated with. Money Matrimony does not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or reliability of any information shared on the podcast. Listeners should conduct their own research and exercise their own judgment when making financial decisions. By listening to Money Matrimony, you agree that the hosts, guests, and producers of the podcast are not liable for any financial losses or damages that may result from actions taken based on the information provided in the podcast. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Episode 32 - Money Boundaries: Why and how it creates freedom in a relationship

EPISODE 32 - MONEY BOUNDARIES: WHY AND HOW IT CREATES FREEDOM IN A RELATIONSHIP Money boundaries can sound burdensome. Like rules, we immediately think of restriction. Less freedom. But in our experience, the opposite is true. When money boundaries are unclear, tension quietly builds; guilt around spending, surprise purchases, avoiding conversations, and resentment that’s hard to name. Not because couples don’t care, but because expectations were never clearly defined. In this episode, we unpack what money boundaries really are, why they matter in a relationship, and how… when built together with respect; it doesn’t restrict your life but can actually give you room to breathe. We talk about: * What money boundaries are (and what they’re not) * Why most money conflict isn’t about numbers, but about differing expectations and emotional safety * What happens in relationships when boundaries don’t exist * Why boundaries are often misunderstood as control instead of protection * How healthy boundaries reduce anxiety, resentment, and distrust * The key categories of money boundaries every couple should consider Whether you’re just starting to talk about money or trying to untangle ongoing tension, this episode is about creating clarity that protects both your finances and your relationship. *****Make sure to hit the subscribe button and join the conversation!***** Follow our socials Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the.moneymatrimony/ [https://www.instagram.com/the.moneymatrimony/] Facebook https://www.facebook.com/themoneymatrimony [https://www.facebook.com/themoneymatrimony] Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-money-matrimony [https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-money-matrimony] Disclaimer Please note that nothing in this podcast should ever be considered personal financial advice. For advice specific to your situation & needs, we encourage you to speak to a finance professional.  The information provided in this podcast, Money Matrimony, is for entertainment and informational purposes only. Whilst we are passionate about personal finance and share our experiences, opinions, and insights, it should not be construed as financial advice. Listeners are encouraged to seek the advice of a qualified financial advisor or professional before making any financial decision. Every individual and couple's financial situation is unique, and what works for one may not be suitable for another. The opinions expressed by the hosts and any guests on the show are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions they may be affiliated with. Money Matrimony does not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or reliability of any information shared on the podcast. Listeners should conduct their own research and exercise their own judgment when making financial decisions. By listening to Money Matrimony, you agree that the hosts, guests, and producers of the podcast are not liable for any financial losses or damages that may result from actions taken based on the information provided in the podcast. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Re-release | Must-Listen: Budgeting 101 – The What, Why & How (Part 1 of 4)

RE-RELEASE | MUST-LISTEN: BUDGETING 101 – THE WHAT, WHY & HOW (PART 1 OF 4) As the new year approaches, many couples resolve to “be better with money.” And yet, year after year, one reality remains: many people still don’t have a budget. This is one of our most popular episodes, and for good reason. In this first part of our Budgeting 101 series, we break down what a budget actually is, why it’s essential, and how to start one in a way that’s realistic, flexible, and life-giving — not restrictive or overwhelming. If 2026 is the year you want clarity, confidence, and intentionality with your money, this episode is where we recommend starting. In this episode, we cover: * What a budget really is (and what it’s not) * Why budgeting matters for individuals and couples * Common myths and fears around budgeting * Practical steps to start your first budget *****Make sure to hit the subscribe button and join the conversation!***** Follow our socials Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the.moneymatrimony/ [https://www.instagram.com/the.moneymatrimony/] Facebook https://www.facebook.com/themoneymatrimony [https://www.facebook.com/themoneymatrimony] Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-money-matrimony [https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-money-matrimony] Disclaimer Please note that nothing in this podcast should ever be considered personal financial advice. For advice specific to your situation & needs, we encourage you to speak to a finance professional. The information provided in this podcast, Money Matrimony, is for entertainment and informational purposes only. Whilst we are passionate about personal finance and share our experiences, opinions, and insights, it should not be construed as financial advice. Listeners are encouraged to seek the advice of a qualified financial advisor or professional before making any financial decision. Every individual and couple's financial situation is unique, and what works for one may not be suitable for another. The opinions expressed by the hosts and any guests on the show are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions they may be affiliated with. Money Matrimony does not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or reliability of any information shared on the podcast. Listeners should conduct their own research and exercise their own judgment when making financial decisions. By listening to Money Matrimony, you agree that the hosts, guests, and producers of the podcast are not liable for any financial losses or damages that may result from actions taken based on the information provided in the podcast. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Re-release | Must-Listen: Budgeting 101 – Obstacles to Budgeting With Your Spouse (Part 2 of 4)

RE-RELEASE | MUST-LISTEN: BUDGETING 101 – OBSTACLES TO BUDGETING WITH YOUR SPOUSE (PART 2 OF 4) Once you’re convinced you need a budget, the next challenge is doing it together. As we head into the new year, we’re re-releasing this episode because budgeting as a couple is rarely just about numbers — it’s about communication, expectations, control, and shared responsibility. In this episode, we talk honestly about the common obstacles couples face when budgeting together and provide practical tools to navigate those challenges. Our goal isn’t perfection — it’s partnership. Because the healthiest budgets are the ones both spouses understand, contribute to, and own together. In this episode, we discuss: * Why budgeting together can feel difficult * Common conflict points between spouses * How to move from “my money” to “our money” * Tools to build shared ownership of the budget *****Make sure to hit the subscribe button and join the conversation!***** Follow our socials Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the.moneymatrimony/ [https://www.instagram.com/the.moneymatrimony/] Facebook https://www.facebook.com/themoneymatrimony [https://www.facebook.com/themoneymatrimony] Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-money-matrimony [https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-money-matrimony] Disclaimer Please note that nothing in this podcast should ever be considered personal financial advice. For advice specific to your situation & needs, we encourage you to speak to a finance professional. The information provided in this podcast, Money Matrimony, is for entertainment and informational purposes only. Whilst we are passionate about personal finance and share our experiences, opinions, and insights, it should not be construed as financial advice. Listeners are encouraged to seek the advice of a qualified financial advisor or professional before making any financial decision. Every individual and couple's financial situation is unique, and what works for one may not be suitable for another. The opinions expressed by the hosts and any guests on the show are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions they may be affiliated with. Money Matrimony does not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or reliability of any information shared on the podcast. Listeners should conduct their own research and exercise their own judgment when making financial decisions. By listening to Money Matrimony, you agree that the hosts, guests, and producers of the podcast are not liable for any financial losses or damages that may result from actions taken based on the information provided in the podcast. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.