Outgrow The Grind

Have you felt the excitement (and terror!) that comes along with pursuing your passion? If you have, you’ll love this episode featuring Bryan Pangilinan, composer, artist, singer, producer, CEO, husband and bird dad. In this episode, Bryan shares his journey of outgrowing the grind and pursuing his passion for music, leading to the creation of the musical Larry the Musical: An American Journey about Filipino American labor leader Larry Itliong. 🌱 In this episode, you’ll learn: * About a pivotal, permission-giving conversation Bryan and I had in a pool in Las Vegas five years ago. * How different parts of Bryan’s identity as a gay, cisgender, Filipino American male from an immigrant family inform his life and work. * Different steps along Bryan’s career journey - from moving to San Francisco in the late 90s to serve the Filipino American community during the HIV and AIDS epidemic to his 25+ years of experience as a professional fundraiser.  * How performing in a play highlighted the dissonance between how things looked on the outside and how they felt on the inside for Bryan. * How overcoming shame and guilt is often a large part of outgrowing the grind. * What composing and producing a full-length musical with a 100% Filipino American creative time, cast, and crew that reached 8,000+ people in 23 sold out shows has been like for Bryan and his team. * The vivid challenge of the Larry the Musical creative team choosing to continue to pursue their passion amidst steep upfront payroll and production costs and uncertainty. * How this experience has taught Bryan and his creative team the importance of dreaming big and how “a dream is not impossible.” * How Bryan continues to give himself permission on a regular basis. * A little bit about the musical that Bryan’s creating now. * The “intoxicating, calming, and joyful” national flower of the Philippines that brings Bryan back to growing up in San Diego. * Your reflection questions: 1) What percentage of your life (your time, energy, and attention) goes towards what matters most to you? 2) How can you infuse more of what matters most into your life? 🌱 Seeds planted in this episode: * Visit Bryan’s website [https://www.bryanpangilinan.com/]. * Connect with Bryan on Instagram here (@composerbryan [https://www.instagram.com/composerbryan] or @larrythemusical [https://www.instagram.com/larrythemusical]). * Learn more about Larry the Musical here [https://www.larrythemusical.com/] and donate to keep the story going here [https://www.larrythemusical.com/donate-to-larry-the-musical]. 🫘🌱🌿🌷 Are you a high-achieving people-pleaser who wants to weed out the energy-draining bullshit and cultivate your courage? Book a complimentary, no-strings-attached chemistry session with me here [https://calendly.com/compassrosecoach/30-min-coaching-sample-session]. Visit my website: https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/ [https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/] Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outgrowthegrind/ [https://www.instagram.com/outgrowthegrind/] 🫘🌱🌿🌷 Does what you're hearing on Outgrow the Grind resonate with you? I’d love it if you’d share the podcast! And, if you’re feeling extra generous, leave us a five-star review wherever you listen to your podcasts. Let’s grow!

Today’s episode features Kellita Maloof, a trauma-informed, award-winning Performing and Teaching Artist and Conscious Burlesque Mentor, lovingly known as the Showgirl Shaman. Join us on this journey of joy, embodiment, creative expression and community! 🌱 In this episode, you’ll learn: * Kellita’s perspective on “the grind” and its systemic nature. * How the grind had its grips on her even as a little kid with a worry list. * How change requires feeling, which requires more time and space. * How our feelings are our most current data and information in our lives. * What sensations Kellita notices in her body when she’s excited about something. * The offering Kellita allowed herself to change her mind about. * Kellita’s journey towards dance and her shift in focus from her weaknesses to her joy. * How joy and pleasure is a practice and can be easier to practice when in community with others. * Kellita’s “gateway drug” that led her to a career in creative and healing arts. * Why Kellita believes in prioritizing relationality over instrumentality like production and output leads to a more fulfilling and sustainable creative practice. * Stacy shares her experience of dancing in San Francisco’s Carnaval parade last year and how the joy and connection far outweighed her initial fears and doubts. * What orchids and highly sensitive people have in common. * Your reflection questions: 1) Where do you notice feeling joyful? 2) What does it feel like in your body? 3) How can you infuse more of that into your life? 🌱 Seeds planted in this episode: * Visit Kellita’s website here [https://www.showgirlawakening.com/]. * Learn more [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1wrsJkXgzVsbpQaBLOUyTUqwsXzTNu4bCxF6iwTsWiJM/edit] about dancing in this year's San Francisco Carnaval Parade with Kellita and the Hot Pink Feathers dance troupe. * Find out what your Showgirl Archetype is by taking this quiz [https://www.showgirlawakening.com/quiz]. * Join Kellita’s watch party intro events on Thursday, March 21st: register for her “From the Inside Out” documentary watch party [https://www.showgirlawakening.com/intro-doc] or her TEDx watch party [https://www.showgirlawakening.com/intro-tedx] (or both!) * Connect with Kellita on Instagram here [https://www.instagram.com/kellitatheshowgirlshaman] (@kellitatheshowgirlshaman). * Watch Kellita’s TEDx [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gz1-_Y0L4GM&t=5s] or her short documentary [https://www.showgirlawakening.com/doc]. * Read my blog [https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/blog/im-about-to-do-something-outrageous] about getting ready to dance with Kellita in the San Francisco Carnaval parade last year! * Read my blog [https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/blog/whats-the-difference-between-being-burned-out-lit-up-] about how dancing in the parade honored my value of delight. 🫘🌱🌿🌷 Are you a high-achieving people-pleaser who wants to weed out the energy-draining bullshit and cultivate your courage? Book a complimentary, no-strings-attached chemistry session with me here [https://calendly.com/compassrosecoach/30-min-coaching-sample-session]. Visit my website: https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/ [https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/] Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outgrowthegrind/ [https://www.instagram.com/outgrowthegrind/] 🫘🌱🌿🌷 Does what you're hearing on Outgrow the Grind resonate with you? I’d love it if you’d share the podcast! And, if you’re feeling extra generous, leave us a five-star review wherever you listen to your podcasts. Let’s grow!

In today’s episode, you’ll meet Amber Dugger, the Founder of Profit for Keeps. Amber helps entrepreneurs outgrow the grind of financial confusion, disempowerment, and isolation and grow towards more clarity, empowerment and community. If you’re an entrepreneur who’s been longing for a more simple, creative, and joyful approach to cash flow, then this episode is for you. 🌱 In this episode, you’ll learn: * How a cold piece of pizza at Amber’s cubicle desk was a moment of clarity. * About how a  life-altering bike accident completely shifted Amber’s perspective on gratitude. * What twists and turns Amber’s career took before she started leading the Profit for Joy movement. * How Amber went from floundering after leaving her corporate finance job to being part of a community of entrepreneurs in Bali. * Amber’s unique approach to money that doesn’t ignore our behaviors or emotions [that we all wish would’ve been taught in school!] * The inspirational phrase that was written on a card Amber carried with her everywhere the first five years of her business. * What I learned from Amber’s Profit for Keeps approach and how it’s positively impacted both my life and business. * Amber’s approach to giving and service that also includes you as the owner of the business, not just your clients and the causes you care about. * How to create financial goals that incorporate you, your business, and your big dreams. * How profit for joy is about fulfilling our own desires AND putting money in the places where we want to see impact. * How becoming more empowered around your finances can be creative and joyful! * How being a 7th generation New Mexican influences which trees and flowers Amber most loves. * Your reflection question: What would be possible if you proceeded as if success was inevitable?  🌱 Seeds planted in this episode: * Join Amber’s upcoming live [and free!] Masterclass “5 Key Strategies to Permanent Profitability” here [https://amberdugger.mykajabi.com/a/2147622505/ooAnYk3L] on September 12th, 14th or 16th. In this masterclass, you’ll lay the roadmap to a profitable and sustainable business while uncovering how to start healing your relationship with money. * Connect with Amber on Facebook [https://web.facebook.com/amberndugger/]. 🫘🌱🌿🌷 Are you a high-achieving people-pleaser who wants to weed out the energy-draining bullshit and cultivate your courage? Book a complimentary, no-strings-attached chemistry session with me here [https://calendly.com/compassrosecoach/30-min-coaching-sample-session]. Visit my website: https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/ [https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/] Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outgrowthegrind/ [https://www.instagram.com/outgrowthegrind/] 🫘🌱🌿🌷 Does what you're hearing on Outgrow the Grind resonate with you? I’d love it if you’d share the podcast! And, if you’re feeling extra generous, leave us a five-star review wherever you listen to your podcasts. Let’s grow!

I'm so excited to introduce you to Seema Sodha, Canadian Indian leadership and executive coach, heart centered facilitator, women's circle holder, and writer. In this conversation, Seema shares about how easily creative endeavors can turn into the grind, especially when we’re looking for answers outside of ourselves. 🌱 In this episode, you’ll learn: * The story of how I first met Seema and what an honor and delight it is to co-create with her. * What household object the texture of “the grind” reminds Seema of. * How Seema’s rigid writing regimen got her more words on the page but missed the heart and soul.  * The messages we receive about productivity and action that can get especially loud when we create something new. * How Seema shifted her approach to bring more of herself and her unique taste into her writing. * The beautiful way Seema engages her senses and self-trust when she writes. * How trusting ourselves is an important part of taking our power back, and how it’s a nonlinear process. * What external forces make it easy for us to hand our power over to someone else and not trust ourselves. * How Seema sees the moments we realize we’re in the grind as an invitation. * How sharing your truth and connecting with others is an antidote to the sneakiness of the grind that wears us down. * About our upcoming women’s circle where we’ll help you explore and befriend your inner good girl / people pleaser. * The two herbs from Seema’s garden that transform her week. * Reflection question: Bring to your heart or mind the thing that you're creating right now. How can you bring more of you [and your own unique flavor] into it? 🌱 Seeds planted in this episode: * Reach out to Seema here [https://seemasodha.com/]. You can also find her on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/seema_sodha/], Substack [https://substack.com/@seemasodha], or LinkedIn [http://www.linkedin.com/in/seemasodha]. * Learn about and join our women’s circle [https://drive.google.com/file/d/1LkNmCXGinTbicwthBReel0nzt2njPxGV/view?usp=sharing] (co-led by Seema and me!) on September 10th: Befriend You Inner Girl. * Learn more about our Justice Equity Diversity and Inclusion (JEDI) Leadership programs at The Roundtable Institute [https://www.theroundtableinstitute.com/]. Does your company need this too? Email me [stacy@stacyrayekellogg.com]. 🫘🌱🌿🌷 Are you a high-achieving people-pleaser who wants to weed out the energy-draining bullshit and cultivate your courage? Book a complimentary, no-strings-attached chemistry session with me here [https://calendly.com/compassrosecoach/30-min-coaching-sample-session]. Visit my website: https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/ [https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/] Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outgrowthegrind/ [https://www.instagram.com/outgrowthegrind/] 🫘🌱🌿🌷 Does what you're hearing on Outgrow the Grind resonate with you? I’d love it if you’d share the podcast! And, if you’re feeling extra generous, leave us a five-star review wherever you listen to your podcasts. Let’s grow!

What if feeling like a “failure” is just a natural part of growth?  It’s been more than six months since the last episode of Outgrow the Grind! In this courageous and honest episode, I share with you where I’ve been, what I’ve learned, and where I’m going. 🌱 In this episode, you’ll learn: The three things I’ve learned about growth in the last six months: 1) You can’t rush growth; 2) Growth is both seen and unseen; and 3) Everything that grows has different growing conditions and a different pace of growth What I was making “lack of growth” in 2022 mean for me personally and professionally Why I took a 6+ month long “holiday break” from this podcast How creativity calls forward our courage and invites us to break some rules The impact that unshaming has had on me + my life  + my work About my co-creative collaboration with Seema Sodha and what we’re planting and tending to that we’ll share with you! My realization about how much I love and missed in person connection How I went for exactly what I wanted to celebrate my 40th birthday An update about my current Outgrow the Grind Women’s Circle What I’ve been dreaming of offering you is finally going to happen this Fall! And spoiler alert, it’s in person!! 🌱 Seeds planted in this episode: Kris Zarnoch [https://kmzencreative.com/] is my amazing podcast producer, editor and creative director Join my mailing list [https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/] Galway Kinnell’s poem, Saint Francis and the Sow [https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/42683/saint-francis-and-the-sow] More about UnShaming with David Bedrick [https://www.davidbedrick.com/about] Meet Seema Sodha [https://seemasodha.com/], Priestess, Writer, Heart Centered and Inclusive Leadership Coach and JEDI Facilitator Learn more about our Justice Equity Diversity and Inclusion Leadership programs at The Roundtable Institute [https://www.theroundtableinstitute.com/] Danielle LaPorte’s Heart Centered Leadership Program [https://daniellelaporte.mykajabi.com/a/2147500000/ZTLmoq9k] Join my Ease + Enchantment Retreat interest list [http://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/yes-to-more-ease-and-enchantment] Are you feeling more burned out than lit up? Join my “Venture into Your Values [https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/join-a-workshop]” workshop on Sunday, June 11th and it’s $37. You’ll get 20% off if you bring a friend with the discount code BRINGABUDDY. 🫘🌱🌿🌷 Are you a high-achieving people-pleaser who wants to weed out the energy-draining bullshit and cultivate your courage? Book a complimentary, no-strings-attached chemistry session with me here [https://calendly.com/compassrosecoach/30-min-coaching-sample-session]. Visit my website: https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/ [https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/] Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outgrowthegrind/ [https://www.instagram.com/outgrowthegrind/] 🫘🌱🌿🌷 Does what you're hearing on Outgrow the Grind resonate with you? I’d love it if you’d share the podcast! And, if you’re feeling extra generous, leave us a five-star review wherever you listen to your podcasts. Let’s grow!