Below The Circle

Podcast af Dr. Phyllis Hayes-Reams

engelsk

Historie & religion

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Are you tired of circling on autopilot? Below the Circle with Dr. Phyllis is the podcast for women ready to stop circling and start landing. You've been flying for years. Maybe decades. Hands gripped on the controls. Autopilot engaged. Circling the same patterns, the same way of doing life — over and over again. You're the high-achieving professional who never drops a ball. The ministry leader who pours out but never refuels. The mom running on fumes. The strong friend who holds everything together so seamlessly that no one thinks to ask if you're okay. You call it resilience. You call it strength. You call it love. But somewhere underneath all of it — underneath the doing and the fixing and the holding — there's a whisper you've been trying to ignore: "This isn't working anymore." Your plate is full. Your soul is empty. You're not broken. You're not weak. You've just been flying so high for so long that you've been flying right over your own life. And everything you've been searching for — your joy, your peace, your identity, your dreams, your purpose — has been below the circle the entire time. Below the Circle with Dr. Phyllis is the landing plan for the woman who is ready to come down. Dr. Phyllis is a Life Landing Coach, physician, author, and ordained minister. She spent years circling — gripping the controls, chasing shiny objects, running on autopilot, performing strength while running on fumes. She landed. And the ground held. Now she's on the ground — guiding women in. Not above you. Not in the cockpit with you. On the ground — already landed, already stable — talking you through the descent, signaling you in, and making sure everything is ready for you when you arrive. Through The Below the Circle Landing Plan, a transformative coaching methodology, she guides you through: ✈️ The Circling — naming where you are and what autopilot has cost you 🔔 The Recognition — hearing God's voice and accepting that change is needed 💡 The Decision — surrendering control and trusting what you can't see 🛬 The Approach — gaining clarity and aligning with where God is guiding you 💧 The Release — pouring out the emotional weight you've been carrying 🤍 The Grace — giving yourself compassion through the process 👣 The Landing — touching ground and coming home to yourself 🏠 The Arrival — adjusting to stillness and showing up daily ⛽ The Groundwork — refueling with presence, purpose, and joy Because life is a series of landings and takeoffs. And every woman deserves a landing plan. Each episode is a ground crew talk — bold, permission-giving, poetic, real, and warm. Whether it's a solo conversation, a guest story, or a guided reflection, every episode is designed to help you disengage autopilot and reclaim your life. God is in the tower. He cleared you to land. Dr. Phyllis is on the ground — guiding you in. This is for the woman who is done circling. Who is ready — even if ready feels more like terrified. Who is brave enough to begin the descent. You've circled long enough. And you don't have to land alone. Full plate. Empty soul. It's not too late to land. Stop circling. Start landing.

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147. What’s Yours to Carry and What Isn’t

What if the weight wearing you out was never yours to carry? You can carry all of it. You’ve proven that. But in this episode, Dr. Phyllis invites you to pause and ask a deeper question: how much of what is on your plate was ever truly yours? She speaks to the big-hearted woman with a full schedule, a tired soul, and a quiet fear that she has been so busy carrying everyone else’s life that she is flying right over her own. Through personal story, scripture, and gentle truth, this episode helps you see why carrying everything is not the same as being faithful, and why you were never the glue holding it all together. God is. This week’s reflection: What is one thing I have been carrying that God may be asking me to set down? In this episode: (0:00) Asking what is actually yours to carry (2:43) Dr. Phyllis shares how she learned this lesson (7:20) Lesson 1: You stopped being able to tell what is yours (9:59) Lesson 2: Carrying everything started looking like virtue (13:00) Lesson 3: The “glue lie” and the truth that God holds it all (17:30) Free resource: What’s Yours to Carry? (19:05) Final encouragement to land whole, aligned, and free Your next step is already waiting: a guide called What’s Yours to Carry — and What Isn’t, made to walk you through your own plate and help you start sorting this is mine from this was never mine. Go get it at thebelowthecircle.com [https://thebelowthecircle.com/]. Nothing has been wasted. It’s not too late to land — whole, aligned, free. ——— Get your guide → thebelowthecircle.com Below the Circle with Dr. Phyllis · Stop circling. Start landing. 🕊️ Scripture: Matthew 11:28–30 · Psalm 46:5 · Colossians 1:17

8. juli 2026 - 19 min

146. What Would Fall Apart If You Stopped Holding It

What are you afraid would fall apart if you stopped holding it all together? You have been the one who remembers, covers, fixes, plans, and carries what everyone else forgets. You call it responsibility, strength, love, and loyalty. But underneath all that holding may be a quiet fear that if you let go, everything will crash. In this episode, Dr. Phyllis gently speaks to the woman who feels like the glue in everyone’s life and reminds her of this truth: it was never all hers to hold. Through Colossians 1:17 and Psalm 46:5, this episode points you back to the God who has been holding you, and everything you fear dropping, all along. This week’s reflection: What is one small thing I can set down for one hour, and what might God show me when I do? In this episode: (0:00) The fear beneath holding it all together (1:37) The woman everyone calls when things need fixing (3:45) How you learned to carry so much (5:33) When being able became feeling obligated (6:53) The role of “glue” was learned, not given by God (8:28) The belief that everything depends on you (9:18) Colossians 1:17 and who truly holds all things (10:32) Psalm 46:5 and being steady because God is with you (11:46) The fear that everything falls if you stop (13:22) One small practice for setting something down (14:28) What happens when the world keeps turning (15:31) God is calling you to land (17:02) Nothing you carried has been wasted (18:19) Introducing the guide, “What’s Yours to Carry” (19:49) Stop circling and start landing Get Dr. Phyllis’s free guide, “What’s Yours to Carry, and What Isn’t,” for the woman who holds everyone together at thebelowthecircle.com.

1. juli 2026 - 20 min

145. When Was The Last Time You Felt The Ground?

Have you been holding everyone else together so long that you fear you’ve missed your own life? You’ve cared deeply, said yes from love, and kept going even when your own heart needed room to breathe. Maybe your full plate is not what is breaking your heart. Maybe it is the quiet fear that while you were taking care of everyone else, you lost touch with yourself. In this episode, Dr. Phyllis shares the night she stood in her backyard, felt the wind on her face, and realized the life she loved had been waiting for her all along. This is a gentle reminder that you have not missed your life. The ground is still there. The wind is still blowing. It is not too late to come down, get aligned, and take off whole and free. This week’s reflection: What part of my life have I stopped feeling, and what ordinary moment can help me come back to it? In this episode: (0:00) The fear beneath the full plate (1:50) When did you last feel present in your life? (3:38) You have not missed your life (4:27) Dr. Phyllis shares her role as an alignment coach (6:18) You did not check out, you cared too much (10:17) The night she felt the ground again (14:58) What did high-altitude living take from you? (17:47) Naming the grief under the busy life (19:49) It is not too late to realign (22:14) Introducing Align, the coaching community (25:47) One simple landing moment to try today (30:25) Share this with a woman who needs hope Get Dr. Phyllis's Free Answer Guide, “What’s Yours to Carry — and What Isn’t — ten honest answers for the woman who holds everyone together.” Ten questions. Ten honest answers at thebelowthecircle.com.

24. juni 2026 - 31 min

144. What Are You Still Holding That He Has Been Asking You to Release

What weight are you still holding that God has been asking you to release? You’ve been capable, responsible, prepared, and strong for so long that putting something down may feel like failure. Maybe it’s a role, a title, a seat at the table, or the quiet need to keep proving yourself. In this episode, Dr. Phyllis shares a personal story from 2020, when she was transitioning out of a leadership role and trying to hold on to another one. What felt like rejection became mercy. God’s “no” became the release she could not choose for herself. This is a gentle reminder that surrender is not losing your grip. It is placing the weight in the hands that have been open all along. You are allowed to set it down. This week’s reflection: What am I still holding that God has been asking me to release? In this episode: (0:29) The question God may be asking you (2:57) Dr. Phyllis shares her 2020 leadership story (5:04) Asking God for strength to carry what He was asking her to release (7:52) The cost of proving yourself (9:02) When God’s “no” becomes mercy (12:02) Surrender is placing the weight in God’s hands (13:16) The Landing Lounge waitlist: thebelowthecircle.com Get Dr. Phyllis's Free Answer Guide, “What’s Yours to Carry — and What Isn’t — ten honest answers for the woman who holds everyone together.” Ten questions. Ten honest answers at thebelowthecircle.com.

17. juni 2026 - 17 min

143. What Grief Have You Been Carrying That’s Been Disguised as Strength?

What grief have you been carrying that you’ve been calling strength? You’ve been busy, capable, dependable, and strong for so long that no one may have noticed how heavy it has become. Maybe even you forgot to ask what pain has been hiding underneath every yes, every role, every title, and every “I’m fine.” In this episode, Dr. Phyllis shares a tender story of disappointment, loss, and the moment she realized she was not simply being strong. She was grieving. Through Psalm 23 and 1 Peter 5:7, she invites you to stop performing strength, bring your grief into the light, and ask God for the next step, not the whole plan. You are allowed to set it down. Get Dr. Phyllis's Free Answer Guide, “What’s Yours to Carry — and What Isn’t — ten honest answers for the woman who holds everyone together.” Ten questions. Ten honest answers at thebelowthecircle.com. Connect with Dr. Phyllis: Instagram/Facebook/Tik Tok: @drphyllishayesreams LinkedIn: @drphyllishayesreams

10. juni 2026 - 32 min

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