The Single Mama Club Podcast

The Social Aftershock After You Leave

When a relationship ends, people often talk about the breakup, the court process, and the healing that follows. But there is a quieter phase that almost nobody prepares you for. The moment you begin returning to places where you were once known as a couple, and something about the energy feels different. Shared spaces, local communities, school gates, gyms, pubs, friend groups. Environments that still remember the relationship, even though your life has moved forward. In this episode, Katie explores what she calls the social aftershock after leaving a relationship, the subtle shifts that can happen in communities and shared spaces after separation. She reflects on why the person who is simply trying to rebuild their life can sometimes feel like the one who should step back, and why reclaiming your life often means continuing to show up in the places that matter to you. This episode also explores the experience of the emotionally steady parent after separation, the unseen efforts many people make to keep things amicable, and the difference between the stories people hear and the behaviours that led to a relationship ending. Because sometimes the strongest thing you can do after leaving a difficult relationship is not explaining your story to the world. It is quietly reclaiming your life. ____________________________________________________________ Want the SHORTCUTS & FASTTRACKED access to my strategies, coaching & support? Here’s how: 🎓 ⁠Join the Single Mama Academy ⁠ [https://www.singlemamaclub.com/sma]– Get full support to become Emotionally Bulletproof & legally empowered against post-separation abuse. 👩‍🏫 Join my Mini Membership on IG, Facebook & TikTok – Get exclusive locked content + private live coaching. ⁠TikTok:⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@thesinglemamaclub]⁠Facebook:⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/TheSingleMamaClub/]⁠Instagram:⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/the_single_mama_club/] 📕 ⁠Grab my Complete Parenting Plan Template for just £9.99⁠ [https://www.singlemamaclub.com/product-page/parenting-plan-template] 📞 ⁠Book a Strategy Call ⁠ [https://www.singlemamaclub.com/book-online]– Get instant, personalised guidance for whatever you’re facing RIGHT NOW HERE IS ALL THE FREE SUPPORT YOU CAN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF! 🗺️ ⁠Free Calm Comeback Kit ⁠ [https://www.singlemamaclub.com/courtsafescripts]– Copy-and-paste responses to toxic texts safely. 👩🏽‍💻 ⁠Free Single Mama Support⁠ [https://www.singlemamaclub.com/single-mama-club-help] – Resources on my website covering abuse, finances and rebuilding after separation.

Grief VS Anger - The Emotion You’re Actually Feeling Might Surprise You

In this episode, we unpack something many single mothers navigating separation, conflict, and court battles experience… but rarely recognise in the moment. Anger. It can feel overwhelming. It can feel constant. And sometimes it can feel like it’s consuming everything. But what if anger isn’t the real emotion at the centre of it all? What if underneath that anger is grief? Grief for the relationship you thought you had. Grief for the future you imagined for your family. Grief for the version of someone you believed existed. In this episode, we explore the powerful relationship between grief and anger, and why recognising the difference can completely change how you respond to conflict, triggers, and toxic dynamics. We’ll talk about: • Why anger often feels easier than grief • How grief shows up during high-conflict co-parenting • Why emotional regulation becomes your greatest protection • How understanding this shift helps you become Emotionally Bulletproof If you’ve ever felt like your reactions don’t match the calm, grounded parent you’re trying to be… this episode will help you understand why. And more importantly, how to start responding differently. Want the SHORTCUTS & FASTTRACKED access to my strategies, coaching & support? Here’s how: 🎓 Join the Single Mama Academy [https://www.singlemamaclub.com/sma]– Get full support to become Emotionally Bulletproof & legally empowered against post-separation abuse. 👩‍🏫 Join my Mini Membership on IG, Facebook & TikTok – Get exclusive locked content + private live coaching. TikTok: [https://www.tiktok.com/@thesinglemamaclub] Facebook: [https://www.facebook.com/TheSingleMamaClub/]Instagram: [https://www.instagram.com/the_single_mama_club/] 📕 Grab my Complete Parenting Plan Template for just £9.99 [https://www.singlemamaclub.com/product-page/parenting-plan-template] 📞 Book a Strategy Call [https://www.singlemamaclub.com/book-online]– Get instant, personalised guidance for whatever you’re facing RIGHT NOW HERE IS ALL THE FREE SUPPORT YOU CAN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF! 🗺️ Free Calm Comeback Kit [https://www.singlemamaclub.com/courtsafescripts]– Copy-and-paste responses to toxic texts safely. 👩🏽‍💻 Free Single Mama Support [https://www.singlemamaclub.com/single-mama-club-help] – Resources on my website covering abuse, finances and rebuilding after separation.

Christmas Conflict - How to Keep Your Calm in the Chaos

Christmas. The one time of year that should feel magical, but if you’re co-parenting with someone toxic, it can feel like emotional warfare wrapped in tinsel. You’re juggling the kids’ excitement, court orders, and messages that somehow always land just before dinner. You’re biting your tongue, trying not to break the peace while they’re still finding new ways to twist the knife. This episode is for the single mums holding it together when it feels like everyone else gets a “normal” Christmas. We talk boundaries, emotional regulation, and the brutal reality of trying to protect your kids and your peace in a system that doesn’t see the half of it. You’re not overreacting. You’re surviving a situation that would crush most people, and you deserve tools that help you breathe again. 🎁 Get your calm back: 🧘‍♀️ The Calm ComeBack Kit (Free) [https://www.singlemamaclub.com/courtsafescripts] – grounding audios + comeback scripts to keep you centred when messages start flying. 💼 The Safe Parent Vault [https://www.singlemamaclub.com/challenge-page/48c2c538-d0cc-494c-9a22-053d0e3f899e] – your starter kit for post-separation abuse recovery and emotional regulation. (USE CODE: VAULT5) 🛡️ SafeSend.AI [https://www.singlemamaclub.com/safesendinfo] – the tool that crafts calm, court-safe replies when your ex tries to drag you back into chaos. You don’t have to walk on eggshells this Christmas. You can hold your peace, and still hold your power but only when you learn the skills necessary to do so.

When Staying Silent ISN'T Part of the Plan

In this episode, we get real about the invisible battles single mamas fight every damn day, the silent struggles, the constant second-guessing, and that draining emotional labour behind every text and message. Sometimes staying silent feels like the safest move, but honestly? It can do way more harm than good. Here’s the thing: you don’t have to lose sleep anymore, wondering if your messages are “right” or if you said too much. With SafeSend, you can finally protect your peace, shut down the overthinking, and handle your communication like a boss. Tune in to find out how to reclaim your calm, take back control of your convos, and say goodbye to the stress and doubt once and for all. Get SafeSend.AI Access Here [https://www.singlemamaclub.com/coming-soon]

The Power of Saying Less

There’s a difference between being silent and being strategic. In this episode, we dive into the emotional and tactical power of saying less—especially when you’re co-parenting with someone who thrives on chaos, baiting, or control. Whether it’s a text designed to provoke, a backhanded dig masked as “concern,” or a school gate moment that makes your skin crawl—this episode is about reclaiming your power without ever raising your voice. You’ll learn: * Why over-explaining never works with toxic exes * What ‘controlled communication’ really looks like * How silence can actually say everything you need it to * The psychological edge of emotional detachment (without being cold) Because sometimes the most powerful move you can make… is none at all. 🛑 Ready to respond with calm, court-safe clarity? Explore the tools inside the Single Mama Academy & SHUT. IT. DOWN. deck via the link below ↓ TAP HERE [https://stan.store/TheSMC]