Unspoken Grief

Ep. 5 Unspoken Roundtable - What if?

In this heartfelt episode of the Unspoken Grief podcast, hosts Tina Chevalier, Kristina Faulkner, and Michael Venton dive deep into their personal stories as survivors of murder-suicides and wonder what life might be like if they had never had to face such tragedies. They go on to explore some of the positive and strange outcomes that have occurred since their loses as well. They also share updates from recent conferences, exciting developments in their nonprofit work, and the new grief course designed for children. Join them for a poignant discussion on turning tragedy into purposeful living, and discover how love, community, and being present in the moment have been crucial in their healing journeys. This episode is an invaluable resource for anyone affected by trauma and looking for support and understanding. 988 Lifeline number: https://988lifeline.org/ [https://988lifeline.org/]  At the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, we understand that life's challenges can sometimes be complex. Whether you're facing mental health struggles, emotional distress, alcohol or drug use concerns, or just need someone to talk to, our caring counselors are here for you. You are not alone.   Didi Hirsch Mental Services: didihirsch.org [http://didihirsch.org]   Crisis Text Line Text HOME to 741741 Free, 24/7 Mental Health Support    Michael Vinton Email: info@impactedsurvivors.com  Website: www.michaelvinton.com [http://www.michaelvinton.com]                  http://www.impactedsurvivors.org [http://www.impactedsurvivors.org]  IG: @therealmichaelvinton [https://www.instagram.com/therealmichaelvinton/] FB: Michael Vinton [http://www.facebook.com/michael.vinton.3/] Linkedin: m/ichael-vinton-6702a373 [http://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-vinton-6702a373] IDMB: Michael Vinton (III) [https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4105277/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0_tt_0_nm_8_in_0_q_Michael%2520Vinton]   Tina Chevalier Email: Tina@impactedsurvivors.com  Website: www.impactedsurvivors.org  [http://www.impactedsurvivors.org] IG: @impactedsurvivorsofms [https://www.instagram.com/impactedsurvivorsofms?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==] Kristina Faulkner Email: kbellatino@gmail.com Website: www.getinspiredtherapy.com [http://www.getinspiredtherapy.com]                 www.impactedsurvivors.org  [http://www.impactedsurvivors.org]  CHAPTERS: 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 02:03 Honoring Lost Loved Ones 04:32 Conference Highlights and Updates 10:50 Children's Grief Course Announcement 13:02 Reflecting on Personal Loss and Growth 27:40 Struggles of Stepping into New Roles 30:05 The Importance of Community for Survivors 39:48 Fears of Future Losses 47:13 Coping Mechanisms and Personal Growth 55:43 Closing Thoughts and Resources ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Ep. 4 - Sara Cobb

Join hosts Tina Chevalier, Kristina Faulkner, and Michael Vinton on Unspoken Grief as they dive deep into the complexities of murder-suicide loss with special guest Sara Cobb, a licensed professional counselor and founder of My Grief Connection. Sarah bravely shares her personal journey of losing her brother in a murder-suicide and how this tragedy has fueled her passion for grief and mental health advocacy. Together, they explore the importance of finding support, coping with trauma, and providing resources for survivors. This emotional and insightful episode aims to break the silence surrounding grief and help others navigate their own paths to healing.  988 Lifeline number: https://988lifeline.org/ [https://988lifeline.org/]  At the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, we understand that life's challenges can sometimes be complex. Whether you're facing mental health struggles, emotional distress, alcohol or drug use concerns, or just need someone to talk to, our caring counselors are here for you. You are not alone.   Didi Hirsch Mental Services: didihirsch.org [http://didihirsch.org]   Crisis Text Line Text HOME to 741741 Free, 24/7 Mental Health Support    Sara Cobb Email_mygriefconnection@outlook.com Website www.mygriefconnection.org [http://www.mygriefconnection.org/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarajcobb/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarajcobb/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mygriefconnection [https://www.facebook.com/mygriefconnection] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/my_grief_connection/ [https://www.instagram.com/my_grief_connection/] Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/mygriefconnection/boards/ [https://www.pinterest.com/mygriefconnection/boards/] YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@mygriefconnection [https://www.youtube.com/@mygriefconnection]   Michael Vinton Email: info@impactedsurvivors.com  Website: www.michaelvinton.com [http://www.michaelvinton.com]                  http://www.impactedsurvivors.org [http://www.impactedsurvivors.org]  IG: @therealmichaelvinton [https://www.instagram.com/therealmichaelvinton/] FB: Michael Vinton [http://www.facebook.com/michael.vinton.3/] Linkedin: m/ichael-vinton-6702a373 [http://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-vinton-6702a373] IDMB: Michael Vinton (III) [https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4105277/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0_tt_0_nm_8_in_0_q_Michael%2520Vinton]   Tina Chevalier Email: Tina@impactedsurvivors.com  Website: www.impactedsurvivors.org  [http://www.impactedsurvivors.org] IG: @impactedsurvivorsofms [https://www.instagram.com/impactedsurvivorsofms?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==] Kristina Faulkner Email: kbellatino@gmail.com Website: www.getinspiredtherapy.com [http://www.getinspiredtherapy.com]                 www.impactedsurvivors.org  [http://www.impactedsurvivors.org]  CHAPTERS: 00:00 Welcome and Introductions 01:12 Sharing Personal Losses 03:11 Introducing Special Guest Sarah Cobb 05:29 Sarah Cobb's Grief Journey 13:51 Impact of Childhood Trauma 23:47 Family Conversations on Grief 30:35 Navigating Conversations About Loss 33:52 Sharing Grief in Public Spaces 40:11 Understanding Murder-Suicide 45:04 Advice for New Grievers 49:59 The Ongoing Process of Healing 50:22 Closing Remarks and Resources ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Ep 3. Bevin

In this episode of 'Unspoken Grief,' hosts Michael Vinton, Tina Chevalier, and Kristina Faulkner engage in a powerful conversation with Bevin Vinton about her experience of losing both her husband and mother in a murder suicide. Bevin discusses the complexities of grieving for both the perpetrator and the victim, recounting the harrowing details of that tragic day and her journey toward healing. The episode emphasizes the importance of mental health awareness and forgiveness, while offering support and understanding to those navigating similar paths of loss. Listeners are advised about the sensitive content and are encouraged to seek help if needed. The conversation serves as a vital reminder that no one is alone in their grief, and that healing, though challenging, is possible.   00:00 Introduction to Unspoken Grief Podcast 01:16 Meet the Hosts 03:01 Introducing Special Guest: Bevin Vinton 03:37 Sharing Personal Loss Stories 06:30 Bevin's Background and Life Before the Tragedy 20:26 The Day of the Tragedy 30:25 Receiving the Suicide Note 32:13 Understanding Over Controllers 35:12 Jimmy's Apology and Family Dynamics 37:38 Support Systems and Relationships 42:05 Grieving Both the Perpetrator and the Victim 47:42 Witnessing the Tragedy 53:05 Coping with Trauma and Triggers 54:47 Unique Relationships in Murder-Suicide Cases 01:01:46 Final Thoughts and Advice 01:04:21 Conclusion and Resources 988 Lifeline number: https://988lifeline.org/ [https://988lifeline.org/]  At the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, we understand that life's challenges can sometimes be complex. Whether you're facing mental health struggles, emotional distress, alcohol or drug use concerns, or just need someone to talk to, our caring counselors are here for you. You are not alone.   Didi Hirsch Mental Services: didihirsch.org [http://didihirsch.org]   Crisis Text Line Text HOME to 741741 Free, 24/7 Mental Health Support    Michael Vinton Email: info@impactedsurvivors.com  Website: www.michaelvinton.com [http://www.michaelvinton.com]                  http://www.impactedsurvivors.org [http://www.impactedsurvivors.org] Podcast: Unspoken Grief  [https://open.spotify.com/show/7dtCi6SDQaKLD6HYbfxqBw?si=b68a1cfcee3640bf]  IG: @therealmichaelvinton [https://www.instagram.com/therealmichaelvinton/] FB: Michael Vinton [http://www.facebook.com/michael.vinton.3/]  Linkedin: m/ichael-vinton-6702a373 [http://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-vinton-6702a373]  IDMB: Michael Vinton (III) [https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4105277/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0_tt_0_nm_8_in_0_q_Michael%2520Vinton]   Tina Chevalier Email: Tina@impactedsurvivors.com  Website: www.impactedsurvivors.org  [http://www.impactedsurvivors.org] Podcast: Unspoken Grief [https://open.spotify.com/show/7dtCi6SDQaKLD6HYbfxqBw?si=b68a1cfcee3640bf] IG: @impactedsurvivorsofms [https://www.instagram.com/impactedsurvivorsofms?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==] FB: Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61570649398107]   Kristina Faulkner Email: kbellatino@gmail.com Website: www.getinspiredtherapy.com [http://www.getinspiredtherapy.com]                 www.impactedsurvivors.org  [http://www.impactedsurvivors.org] Podcast: Unspoken Grief [https://open.spotify.com/show/7dtCi6SDQaKLD6HYbfxqBw?si=b68a1cfcee3640bf] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Ep 2. Cori

In this episode of the Unspoken Grief podcast, hosts Michael Vinton, Tina Chevalier, and Christina Faulkner engage in a profound conversation with Cori Newhouse, a survivor of murder-suicide. Dedicated to those who have lost loved ones under tragic circumstances, the podcast delves into the intricate facets of grief, healing, and resilience. Cori shares her personal journey of losing her father and stepmother to a murder-suicide 15 years ago, exploring themes of support, societal perceptions, and the struggles of family dynamics in the aftermath. The hosts and Cori discuss the importance of community, the challenges of processing such a deep loss, and the valuable insights gained from professional therapy and personal introspection. Listener discretion is advised due to the sensitive nature of the content, and resources for support are provided in the show notes.   00:00 Introduction to Unspoken Grief Podcast 01:17 Meet the Hosts 02:56 Sharing Personal Loss Stories 04:16 Introducing the Special Guest 04:55 Guest's Background and Personal Story 08:21 The Day of the Tragedy 12:23 Processing the Aftermath 22:29 Therapist's Perspective on Grief 30:55 Family Dynamics and Complicated Relationships 32:31 Struggles with Grief and Guilt 35:11 The Impact of Trauma on Daily Life 45:46 Cultural and Religious Differences in Mourning 48:28 Navigating Media and Public Perception 49:28 The Healing Power of Writing 52:44 Helpful and Unhelpful Support 57:01 Conclusion and Final Thoughts 988 Lifeline number: https://988lifeline.org/ [https://988lifeline.org/]  At the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, we understand that life's challenges can sometimes be complex. Whether you're facing mental health struggles, emotional distress, alcohol or drug use concerns, or just need someone to talk to, our caring counselors are here for you. You are not alone.   Didi Hirsch Mental Services: didihirsch.org [http://didihirsch.org]   Crisis Text Line Text HOME to 741741 Free, 24/7 Mental Health Support    Michael Vinton Email: info@impactedsurvivors.com  Website: www.michaelvinton.com [http://www.michaelvinton.com]                  http://www.impactedsurvivors.org [http://www.impactedsurvivors.org] Podcast: Unspoken Grief  [https://open.spotify.com/show/7dtCi6SDQaKLD6HYbfxqBw?si=b68a1cfcee3640bf]  IG: @therealmichaelvinton [https://www.instagram.com/therealmichaelvinton/] FB: Michael Vinton [http://www.facebook.com/michael.vinton.3/]  Linkedin: m/ichael-vinton-6702a373 [http://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-vinton-6702a373]  IDMB: Michael Vinton (III) [https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4105277/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0_tt_0_nm_8_in_0_q_Michael%2520Vinton]   Tina Chevalier Email: Tina@impactedsurvivors.com  Website: www.impactedsurvivors.org  [http://www.impactedsurvivors.org] Podcast: Unspoken Grief [https://open.spotify.com/show/7dtCi6SDQaKLD6HYbfxqBw?si=b68a1cfcee3640bf] IG: @impactedsurvivorsofms [https://www.instagram.com/impactedsurvivorsofms?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==] FB: Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61570649398107]   Kristina Faulkner Email: kbellatino@gmail.com Website: www.getinspiredtherapy.com [http://www.getinspiredtherapy.com]                 www.impactedsurvivors.org [http://www.impactedsurvivors.org] Podcast: Unspoken Grief [https://open.spotify.com/show/7dtCi6SDQaKLD6HYbfxqBw?si=b68a1cfcee3640bf] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Ep 1. Unspoken Grief - Michael , Kristina, and Tina

In the pilot episode of 'Unspoken Grief,' hosts Michael Vinton, Kristina Faulkner, and Tina Chevalier open a heartfelt dialogue about the unique challenges of losing loved ones to murder suicide. They share their personal journeys of loss, the impact on their mental health, and the stigmas they face. The trio also discusses the formation of their support group, 'Impacted Survivors of Murder Suicide,' and their mission to foster understanding, provide resources, and offer a sense of community for those affected by similar tragedies. Listener discretion is advised due to the sensitive nature of the content.   00:00 Introduction to Unspoken Grief Podcast 01:16 Pilot Episode: Initial Reactions and Emotions 01:50 Personal Stories of Loss 06:23 Forming a Support Group and Advocacy 12:18 Life Before the Tragedy 20:26 Immediate Aftermath and Emotions 23:31 Understanding the Misconceptions of Domestic Violence 24:25 Personal Reflections on a Father's Actions 25:27 The Struggle with Shame and Guilt 27:04 Media's Role in Shaping Perceptions 30:32 Processing Loss and Finding Support 32:00 Healing Through Traditions and Self-Care 34:58 The Importance of Community and Therapy 37:35 Adapting and Shifting Life After Tragedy 40:22 Ongoing Grief and the Path to Healing 42:54 Podcast Direction and Future Guests 43:55 Closing Remarks and Support Resources                   988 Lifeline number: https://988lifeline.org/ [https://988lifeline.org/]  At the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, we understand that life's challenges can sometimes be complex. Whether you're facing mental health struggles, emotional distress, alcohol or drug use concerns, or just need someone to talk to, our caring counselors are here for you. You are not alone.   Didi Hirsch Mental Services: didihirsch.org [http://didihirsch.org]   Crisis Text Line Text HOME to 741741 Free, 24/7 Mental Health Support    Michael Vinton Email: info@impactedsurvivors.com  Website: www.michaelvinton.com [http://www.michaelvinton.com]                  http://www.impactedsurvivors.org [http://www.impactedsurvivors.org] Podcast: Unspoken Grief  [https://open.spotify.com/show/7dtCi6SDQaKLD6HYbfxqBw?si=b68a1cfcee3640bf]  IG: @therealmichaelvinton [https://www.instagram.com/therealmichaelvinton/] FB: Michael Vinton [http://www.facebook.com/michael.vinton.3/]  Linkedin: m/ichael-vinton-6702a373 [http://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-vinton-6702a373]  IDMB: Michael Vinton (III) [https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4105277/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0_tt_0_nm_8_in_0_q_Michael%2520Vinton]   Tina Chevalier Email: Tina@impactedsurvivors.com  Website: www.impactedsurvivors.org  [http://www.impactedsurvivors.org] Podcast: Unspoken Grief [https://open.spotify.com/show/7dtCi6SDQaKLD6HYbfxqBw?si=b68a1cfcee3640bf] IG: @impactedsurvivorsofms [https://www.instagram.com/impactedsurvivorsofms?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==] FB: Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61570649398107]   Kristina Faulkner Email: kbellatino@gmail.com Website: www.getinspiredtherapy.com [http://www.getinspiredtherapy.com]                 www.impactedsurvivors.org  [http://www.impactedsurvivors.org] Podcast: Unspoken Grief [https://open.spotify.com/show/7dtCi6SDQaKLD6HYbfxqBw?si=b68a1cfcee3640bf] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.