What that drink cost me

You Don’t Need Permission to Change Your Life

Too often, we find ourselves waiting for a catastrophe to happen before we make a change. We get fired. We get a DUI. Our spouse serves us with divorce papers. But what if we didn’t wait until we hit rock bottom? What if we just decided to look for subtler signs that it is time to make a change? In this week’s episode, I unpack what happens when we decide to not wait for permission to change our lives. I examine the emotions involved in it and give you actionable tips. So if you’ve been waiting because your life hasn’t hit rock bottom yet, let this episode serve as your motivation that you don’t have to wait until then. Hi, I’m Tad a reinvention and transitional coach. I help people figure out what’s next after the major life change. Book a call with me to talk about how I can help make this next chapter your best one yet: https://calendly.com/thopp84/30min

You Came Out. Now What?

You finally did the thing you’ve been putting off. You told friends and family that you’re queer. And… now what? What do you do after the coming out? In this episode, I help you sort through the emotions you might be feeling in the immediate aftermath of coming out. And I give you some actionable, practical steps that you can use in your new life as a queer person. If you’ve recently come out, gotten a divorce, experienced a job change or a move and you’re wondering, what’s next, this is the work I do with clients everyday. I’ve recently opened up a few spots in The “What’s Next?” Reinvention Intensive. Here’s what’s included in that: 4 Weeks of Transition Coaching for People Navigating Major Life Changes Includes: * 4 private 60-minute sessions * personalized transition roadmap * voice note support between sessions * reflection exercises/journal prompts * action steps after each session Ideal for: * newly sober people * career pivots * relocation * divorce/breakups * identity shifts * burnout recovery * post-coming-out reinvention Investment: $397 If you want in, book a clarity call with me here: https://calendly.com/thopp84/30min Follow me on Instagram and TikTok: magicaltadrigal

You’re Not Starting Over - You’re Starting from Experience

Making a major life change can feel terrifying because it often feels like starting over from scratch. Leaving a career. Getting sober. Moving to a new city. Starting over after divorce. It’s easy to look at your life and think: “I’ve wasted too much time.” “I’m too far behind” “Everyone else already has it figured out.” But what if you’re not actually starting over? In this episode, I’m talking about why the skills, experiences, and lessons from your old life still matter - and how to stop seeing reinvention as failure. I also share some of my own experiences with sobriety, career shifts, and the shame of feeling “behind” in life. Because you’re not starting from scratch. You’re starting from experience. I’m tad Hopp, a reinvention and transition coach who helps queer people figure out what comes next after major life changes. If you’re navigating a transition and feeling stuck, you can book a call with me here: https://calendly.com/thopp84/30min Follow me on Instagram and TikTok: magicaltadrigal

The Hidden Cost of Not Changing Your Life

Feeling stuck in your life but afraid to make a change? In this episode, we’re talking about the hidden cost of staying the same - and why avoiding change might be costing you more than you realize. You’ll learn: * why staying in the same job, relationship, or environment isn’t as “safe” as it feels * The emotional and long term cost of avoiding change * How to start thinking differently about risk and decision-making If you’ve been putting off a big life decision, this episode will help you see things from a new perspective. I’m Tad Hopp of A Tad Better Coaching. I’m a life coach who helps queer people navigate major life transitions and get unstuck. To book a call with me, click here: https://calendly.com/thopp84/30min Follow me on Instagram and TikTok @magicaltadrigal

I Thought This Would Fix Everything… It Didn’t

We’ve all had this thought: if I just change this one thing, everything in my life will finally fall into place. A new job. A new city. Getting sober. Starting over. And while those changes can improve parts of your life, they don’t fix everything—and they’re not supposed to. In this episode, I’m breaking down why big life changes often expose deeper issues instead of solving them, and why that’s actually a good thing. I also share my own experiences with sobriety and moving abroad, and what those changes really taught me about growth, identity, and starting over. If you’ve ever made a big change and still felt stuck, this episode is for you. — I’m Tad Hopp, a life coach who helps queer people navigate life transitions without spiraling, stalling, or self-sabotaging. If you’re in the middle of a major life change and don’t know what to do next, you can book a call with me here: https://calendly.com/thopp84/30min