The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

They say you either have charisma or you don’t, but Charlie Houpert proves charisma can be built, and reveals the secret code to mastering it for success in love, work, and friendship   Charlie Houpert is the co-founder of the confidence-building online platform, ‘Charisma on Command’. He is the author of books such as, ‘The Anti Pick Up Line: Real Habits To Naturally Attract Stunning Women’ and ‘Charisma On Command: Inspire, Impress, and Energize Everyone You Meet’.  In this conversation, Charlie and Steven discuss topics such as, how to stop feeling awkward in social situations, the ultimate body language hack to build trust, how to become instantly likeable, and how to master the art of persuasion.  00:00 Intro 02:25 What Is It You Do? 04:39 How Much Will These Skills Shift Someone’s Life? 06:35 Is It Something You Can Learn? 07:15 Your YouTube Channel 09:37 I Was Shy and Introverted—How I Changed 12:47 What Did You Think of Yourself in the Early Years? 15:22 What Was the Biggest Difference in You? 17:32 First Impressions 21:07 Engineer the Conversation You Want to Have 24:38 How to Get Out of Small Talk 26:05 Flirt With the World 27:55 Prey vs. Predator Movements 35:02 The Confidence Trick Before Talking to a Big Crowd 37:02 Do We Underestimate the Ways We Communicate? 41:11 Is Talking About Yourself a Bad Thing? 43:22 How to Connect With Someone in a Normal Interaction 47:40 How to Figure Out if an Interaction Is Real 50:19 People Controlling the Narratives That Reach You 52:18 Narcissists and Sociopaths 55:28 What Billion-Dollar Business Would You Build and Not Sell? 01:01:20 Six Charismatic Mindsets 01:03:16 Elon Musk Salute 01:06:13 The Media Has Made Saying Sorry the Wrong Thing to Do 01:08:26 Ads 01:09:24 Is Trump Charismatic? 01:14:22 Impeccable Honesty and Integrity 01:18:06 I Don’t Need to Convince Anyone of Anything 01:20:43 I Proactively Share My Purpose 01:23:46 Be the First to Humanize the Interaction 01:26:13 Charismatic Types of People 01:31:23 Obama’s Charisma 01:32:26 The Importance of Charisma 01:33:43 Ads 01:35:40 How to Use These Skills to Get a Job or Promotion 01:41:07 What Are Women Attracted to in Your Opinion? 01:45:08 Are People Testing to See if You Have Standards? 01:49:21 Five Habits That Make People Instantly Dislike You 01:53:56 Speaking Like a Leader 01:54:46 Pausing Instead of Using Filler Words 01:56:12 Does Body Language Matter When Speaking? 01:57:35 The Fundamentals of Being Confident 01:59:19 What’s the Most Important Thing You’re Doing to Increase Your Well-Being? 02:02:53 What Are the Mixture of Emotions You Feel? 02:08:19 Is There Anything You Wish You Could Have Said to That Boy? Follow Charlie: Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/sX0XNx4tBQb [https://g2ul0.app.link/sX0XNx4tBQb]  Charisma on Command - https://g2ul0.app.link/Bo2XEO2tBQb [https://g2ul0.app.link/Bo2XEO2tBQb]  You can purchase Charlie’s book, ‘Charisma On Command: Inspire, Impress, and Energize Everyone You Meet’, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/DoIMBn9tBQb [https://g2ul0.app.link/DoIMBn9tBQb]  Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACEpisodes [https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACEpisodes]  My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook [https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook]  You can purchase the The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards: Second Edition, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb [https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb]  Follow me: https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb [https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb] Sponsors: Linkedin Ads - https://www.linkedin.com/DIARY NordVPN - https://NORDVPN.COM/DOAC ZOE - http://joinzoe.com with code BARTLETT10 for 10% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

In this moment, Daniel Lieberman, evolutionary biologist and author, reveals how staying active is key to aging well. He explains why resistance training can slow muscle loss, how physical activity impacts mental health, and the surprising evolutionary reason humans are built to stay active—even as we age. Lieberman also shares practical insights on breaking the cycle of inactivity and making movement rewarding. Listen to the full episode here - Spotify- https://g2ul0.app.link//ngm4GYxIAQb [https://g2ul0.app.link//ngm4GYxIAQb] Apple -  https://g2ul0.app.link//jgJ5RiBIAQb [https://g2ul0.app.link//jgJ5RiBIAQb] Watch the Episodes On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/c/%20TheDiaryOfACEO/videos [https://www.youtube.com/c/%20TheDiaryOfACEO/videos] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

From dating disaster to 'I do', Paul Brunson cracks the rules of love and reveals the do’s and don’ts for an unbreakable relationship  Paul Brunson is a world-renowned relationship expert, entrepreneur, and host of the number 1 dating and relationships advice show, ‘We Need To Talk’. He is the author of books such as, ‘Find Love: How to navigate modern love and discover the right partner for you’ and ‘Keep Love: 21 Truths for a Long-Lasting Relationship’.  In this conversation, Paul and Steven discuss topics such as, the top 3 signs of a successful relationship, the dangers of serial dating, why women are attracted to taller men, and the hidden benefits of doubting your relationship.  00:00 Intro 02:25 Who Is Paul C Brunson? 04:44 How Has Love Evolved Since You Started This? 07:47 Why Are People Struggling to Find Love? 11:46 The Danger of Comparison 16:26 Racism Within Dating 20:29 Are Arranged Marriages More Successful? 24:26 Your Friends Usually Know If You're With the Right Person 27:05 We Have to Lower Our Expectations of Our Partners 29:58 We Have Countless Options in Today’s Society 33:54 The Difference Between Men & Women When the Other Gets Sick 39:36 Satisfaction in Marriage Is the Most Important Thing 43:06 Should We Be Talking About Our Relationships? 46:06 We Will Be Attracted to Other People, and That’s OK 51:46 Women Are Better at Maintaining Their Connections Than Men 55:15 Should We Be Getting Married? 58:45 Marriages Should Be Harder to Get Into 01:09:19 What Predicts a Successful Marriage? 01:10:21 What Qualities Should I Look for in a Partner? 01:13:50 The Demand Doesn’t Reflect What’s in the Dating Market 01:28:21 Are People With Symmetrical Features More Attractive? 01:30:03 How Self-Esteem Plays a Huge Role in Partner Choices 01:34:28 Advice for People With Low Self-Esteem Who Base Relationships on Superficial Traits 01:36:57 Paul Brunson’s Experience With IVF 01:41:35 Infertility Issues & Relationship Problems 01:44:41 What Can a Man Do to Find and Keep a Partner? 01:47:12 Relationship Myths 01:52:22 Desire Management 01:56:31 Anxious Attachment Style Going for Avoidant Partners 02:06:43 The Importance of Conflict Resolution 02:10:29 You Should Say Sorry More Often 02:19:03 Should You Go to Bed Angry at Your Partner? 02:22:29 Is Cheating the End of the Relationship? 02:29:09 Discipline in Relationships 02:31:12 When Did You Discover Your Own Power? The 1% Diary is back! and it won’t be around for long, so act fast! https://bit.ly/1-Diary-Megaphone-ad-reads Follow Paul:  Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/eurBFxKryQb [https://g2ul0.app.link/eurBFxKryQb]  Twitter - https://g2ul0.app.link/tubp7wMryQb [https://g2ul0.app.link/tubp7wMryQb]  We Need To Talk - https://g2ul0.app.link/lZTgjNOryQb [https://g2ul0.app.link/lZTgjNOryQb]  You can pre-order Paul’s book ‘Keep Love: 21 Truths for a Long-Lasting Relationship (The Fundamentals of Love, 2), here: https://g2ul0.app.link/l5JUBlTryQb [https://g2ul0.app.link/l5JUBlTryQb]  My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook [https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook]  You can purchase the The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards: Second Edition, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb [https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb]  Follow me: https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb [https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb] Sponsors: WHOOP - JOIN.WHOOP.COM/CEO ZOE - http://joinzoe.com with code BARTLETT10 for 10% off PerfectTed - https://www.perfectted.com with code DIARY40 for 40% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Are seed oils dangerous? Is fasting the only way to lose weight? Is the carnivore diet the best way to eat? When health and diet advice has become a minefield, Dr Sarah Berry cuts through noise   Dr Sarah Berry is a Professor in the Department of Nutritional Sciences at King's College London and Chief Scientist at ZOE. She is also the lead nutritional scientist on the PREDICT program, the world’s largest in-depth nutritional research programme.  In this conversation, Dr Sarah and Steven discuss topics such as, the dangers of late night snacking, the link between chewing and belly fat, how menopause affects your diet, and the truth about seed oils.  00:00 Intro 02:04 Two Decades Studying the Impact of Food on Our Health 04:52 What Is the Food Matrix and How Does It Affect Our Health? 07:03 Why Do We Need Processed Food? 08:15 When Is Processed Food Bad? 11:09 How Long Does It Take for My Brain to Realize I’m Eating? 11:54 Does the Food Industry Engineer Food to Be Highly Palatable? 14:04 The Importance of Eating Slowly 19:43 Research on Almonds and Why They Don’t Fully Break Down 26:15 The Role of Fiber in Diet and Health 29:00 Cardiovascular Disease and the Link to Unhealthy Snacks 32:51 Is There a Knock-On Effect From Having One Snack? 36:55 Does It Matter How Often We Eat? 39:05 Is Eating at Night Bad for You? 43:45 Sleep Is the Pinnacle 48:01 How to Handle Sleep When You’re a Parent 50:13 Stress and Its Effect on Eating 52:44 Sarah Still Makes Bad Choices 54:21 What Does Sarah Think of Diets? 57:52 Sarah’s Thoughts on Fasting and Calorie Restriction 1:00:44 What Is Social Jet Lag? 1:01:52 The Seed Oils Debate 1:17:53 Ads 1:18:46 The Lies About Dairy 1:21:10 Myths About Nuts 1:22:28 Other Lies We Are Told 1:22:40 What Is Cholesterol? 1:27:46 What Is a Saturated Fat? 1:32:26 What Foods Contain Saturated Fats? 1:33:32 Sarah’s Principles for Eating 1:34:53 Why Does Chewing More Have an Impact? 1:37:52 Menopause and Diet 1:42:29 When Do Perimenopausal Symptoms Occur? 1:45:48 The Confusion and Gaslighting Around Menopause 1:51:05 Advice for Women Going Through Menopause 1:55:21 Does Health Affect the Level of Symptoms in Menopause? 1:56:03 Ads 1:57:49 What Haven’t We Talked About? 2:00:32 How Can We Make the World Better? 2:04:41 Guest’s Last Question Follow Dr Sarah:  Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/QfpwquIcqQb [https://g2ul0.app.link/QfpwquIcqQb]  Twitter -  https://g2ul0.app.link/A2oDxYJcqQb [https://g2ul0.app.link/A2oDxYJcqQb]  🚀The 1% Diary is back - and it won’t be around for long, so act fast! https://bit.ly/1-Diary-Megaphone-ad-reads [https://bit.ly/1-Diary-Megaphone-ad-reads] My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook [https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook]  You can purchase the The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards: Second Edition, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb [https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb]  Follow me: https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb [https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb] Sponsors: Shopify - https://shopify.com/bartlett [https://shopify.com/bartlett] ZOE - http://joinzoe.com [http://joinzoe.com/] with code BARTLETT10 for 10% off Linkedin Jobs - https://www.linkedin.com/doac [https://www.linkedin.com/doac] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

In this episode we discover the science behind habits, how they're formed, how they can be broken, and the fascinating role self-perception plays in the process. We explore the power of reframing uncomfortable tasks, how habits are influenced by our self-image, and why pushing yourself too hard can backfire. You'll also learn why willpower is a limited resource, how to use discomfort as a tool for growth, and why small, achievable goals are the key to lasting change. Professor Steve Peters Episode - https://bit.ly/4jqZSGK Nir Eyal's Episode - https://bit.ly/3WuY05U Follow Professor Steve Peters: Instagram - https://bit.ly/3D5YBBA [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbW5UcDRyNmZUaW80bF82eUlhdWY2d3VidTJDQXxBQ3Jtc0trMHZ3cnpuYjgtODVOcjRFcVJIMFdKd1pBT1piSkstMXktUEdWOXVaeXZCV0o0enZib1ZTYlVVR0dZdHA2S0ZlR0FUS0Rza0VUdHBlVHR2Tm1oaXFhamxSSVFqZUg0MkNYRHFFMHh4Q2V1RGQ5V1hQaw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fbit.ly%2F3D5YBBA&v=G1hqsr5mkzA] Website - https://bit.ly/3iZtr84 [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa1NHRWg0Sm5KWWhnWkxhMThzUEFreDRNVndTd3xBQ3Jtc0trdTkyblpvT2VMUldFa3ZnWkE3ZEdQdm9QeGN0U09KLUFVcVFmckd2dENoWHdyNF8yV2ltN0JxQ2lwdU83LUlPV0k0Z2JSTkd2Zzg5enpoYXpoRWdtekVORVQxVGhtc1lQWU9mbUFzZVJ3Nm9ZV05Ddw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fbit.ly%2F3iZtr84&v=G1hqsr5mkzA] Follow Nir Eyal: Twitter: https://bit.ly/3BJR9uv Instagram: https://bit.ly/43dDHuL Watch the Episodes On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/c/%20TheDiaryOfACEO/videos [https://www.youtube.com/c/%20TheDiaryOfACEO/videos] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]