OPTIMISING YOUR DATING EXPERIENCE

THE PERFORMATIVE MAN

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OPTIMISING YOUR DATING EXPERIENCE

Let's talk about making dating work for you in an already terrible dating pool! Are you utilising the men in your life properly? Are you open to the idea of a roster and if so, are you diversifying these men's roles to their full potential? Join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/81a8496c-a46f-11ec-9c25-e367ce834a47/podcasts/396c4010-e962-11ee-a204-17c275425c9a/episodes/patreon.com/theslumflower] for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://geni.us/pocketpower]  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

THE ALPHA WOMAN

Do you fear your own power? Do you 'naturally' feel inclined to defer to men? Does the idea of a powerful woman who makes men question themselves entice you or does it make you uncomfortable? In this episode, we talk all things power and fearlessness as The Slumflower talks about the importance of women not being scared to hold their power in the presence of the beings we birthed. Join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/81a8496c-a46f-11ec-9c25-e367ce834a47/podcasts/396c4010-e962-11ee-a204-17c275425c9a/episodes/patreon.com/theslumflower] for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://geni.us/pocketpower]  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

BECAUSE OF A MAN

The things women do for men...are they even worth it? Of course not but alas, here we are! In this episode, join Chidera as we talk about the sacrifices and leaps women take all because of men... Join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/81a8496c-a46f-11ec-9c25-e367ce834a47/podcasts/396c4010-e962-11ee-a204-17c275425c9a/episodes/patreon.com/theslumflower] for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://geni.us/pocketpower]  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

YOU ARE IN DENIAL

How long will you keep lying to yourself? Is it finally time to interfere with the story you've been telling yourself? Are there certain delusions keeping you bound to that man? In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the ways we all deny reality to protect our delusions. Join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/81a8496c-a46f-11ec-9c25-e367ce834a47/podcasts/396c4010-e962-11ee-a204-17c275425c9a/episodes/patreon.com/theslumflower] for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://geni.us/pocketpower]  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]