The Slumflower Hour

Are you too easily attached to men? Are we 'manifesting' bad treatment from men by expecting it of them? Is your rejection sensitivity making you unnecessarily empathetic to men? In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses why healthy detachment from men will save your life. Join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/81a8496c-a46f-11ec-9c25-e367ce834a47/podcasts/396c4010-e962-11ee-a204-17c275425c9a/episodes/patreon.com/theslumflower] for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://geni.us/pocketpower]  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Is there really such thing as 'terrible husband but a good father'? Should we starve men of sex to solve their entitlement issues? Will men ever become the 'good people' we fantasise about them becoming? In this episode, join Chidera as she normalises hating men back. TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses male sexual violence against women Join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/81a8496c-a46f-11ec-9c25-e367ce834a47/podcasts/396c4010-e962-11ee-a204-17c275425c9a/episodes/patreon.com/theslumflower] for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://geni.us/pocketpower]  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Should we be less approving of men's flirty advances, even if they are being cute? Are we making the male loneliness epidemic harder on men by being less understanding of their sexual needs? And have we explored what might actually happen if we raise the bar for men to meet us? In this episode, join The Slumflower as she justifies why she believes we need to make ourselves more romantically scarce - after all, men are not entitled to our love. Join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/81a8496c-a46f-11ec-9c25-e367ce834a47/podcasts/396c4010-e962-11ee-a204-17c275425c9a/episodes/patreon.com/theslumflower] for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://geni.us/pocketpower]  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

What do you stand to lose by being the woman he can afford? Do men appreciate women more when our standards are lower? Or are we just overthinking this whole thing?! In this episode, join Chidera for a rather hilarious and spicy chat. ;) Join my ⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠ [https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/81a8496c-a46f-11ec-9c25-e367ce834a47/podcasts/396c4010-e962-11ee-a204-17c275425c9a/episodes/patreon.com/theslumflower] for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠ [https://geni.us/pocketpower]  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Are attractive men worth all the hassle? Do good-looking men deserve to be humbled? Is it a safer bet to date an 'ugly' man? In this episode, join Chidera for a rather juicy chat! Join my ⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠ [https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/81a8496c-a46f-11ec-9c25-e367ce834a47/podcasts/396c4010-e962-11ee-a204-17c275425c9a/episodes/patreon.com/theslumflower] for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠ [https://geni.us/pocketpower]  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]