AuDHD Flourishing

136 Financial Therapy with Christine Hargrove

Thanks again to Hyperfocus with Rae Jacobson [https://lnk.to/hyperfocusFD!audhdflourishing] for sharing this interview with financial therapist Christine Hargrove. She shares ADHD-focused advice that is useful for AuDHD folks as well! And the next two weeks will touch on other financial topics from this foundation. I especially love the line, "The best budget is one you can follow on your worst day" Learn more about Hyperfocus with Rae Jacobson here [https://lnk.to/hyperfocusFD!audhdflourishing]! AUDHD FLOURISHING RESOURCES: 1. Transcript Doc [https://docs.google.com/document/d/13cWttVht-bxKyxc6nCJq4-0SL5zoQVvDIM22RFnaBP0/edit?usp=sharing] (often a few weeks behind, but we do catch up!) 2. Mattia's Newsletter [https://mattia.ck.page/a6b7c9bf09] 3. Like Your Brain [https://www.patreon.com/mattia/about] community space (Patreon/Discord) ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Paper Planners & Tasks Feeling Real

I just started using a paper planner again for the first time in many years, and the coolest thing is noticing that calendared blocks of time feel more "real" to my brain when I've written them by hand. That tangibility in turn seems to be making it easier to stick with things. Caveat that it can always be the initial dopamine surge of any new system! That said, if it's working, I say try new tools anyway, even if they only work for a few months ;) AUDHD FLOURISHING RESOURCES: 1. Transcript Doc [https://docs.google.com/document/d/13cWttVht-bxKyxc6nCJq4-0SL5zoQVvDIM22RFnaBP0/edit?usp=sharing] (often a few weeks behind, but we do catch up!) 2. Mattia's Newsletter [https://mattia.ck.page/a6b7c9bf09] 3. Like Your Brain [https://www.patreon.com/mattia/about] community space (Patreon/Discord) ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

135 Slow Processes are Frustrating

Sometimes... a process is happening, internally. It can be integration, change, growth, positive disintegration... and sometimes it's unclear. Either way, the uncertainty can be disconcerting and frustrating! AUDHD FLOURISHING RESOURCES: 1. Transcript Doc [https://docs.google.com/document/d/13cWttVht-bxKyxc6nCJq4-0SL5zoQVvDIM22RFnaBP0/edit?usp=sharing] (often a few weeks behind, but we do catch up!) 2. Mattia's Newsletter [https://mattia.ck.page/a6b7c9bf09] 3. Like Your Brain [https://www.patreon.com/mattia/about] community space (Patreon/Discord) ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

134 Worst Tasks for AuDHDers

With an interest-based nervous system + AuDHD cyclical energy, the hardest tasks for us are Boring Annoying High Stakes and/or Difficult The episode covers how and why they're difficult, and some starting points for each one. The steps from later in the episode: 1. If you're struggling to start something, identify if it's Boring, Annoying, High Stakes, or Difficult. 2. Give yourself compassion for why that makes this task hard to do right now, and tell yourself that you don't actually have to do it right now (this eases up some demand avoidance potentially) 3. If your mind-body system offers a suggestion or solution, feel free to go for it! Otherwise, it's okay to set this aside for now and let your unconscious mind chew it over. 4. If this is a time-sensitive or urgent task, do what you need to do to remind yourself to check back in in time: a timer, a calendar reminder, a prominent post it note etc. 5. Now let your unconscious and your weird and creative brain work on this in the background while you rest or work on something easier. I love keeping a list of actually easy tasks for this purpose (which for me means the thing is straightforward and physically easy to do with a clear done point). AUDHD FLOURISHING RESOURCES: 1. Transcript Doc [https://docs.google.com/document/d/13cWttVht-bxKyxc6nCJq4-0SL5zoQVvDIM22RFnaBP0/edit?usp=sharing] (often a few weeks behind, but we do catch up!) 2. Mattia's Newsletter [https://mattia.ck.page/a6b7c9bf09] 3. Like Your Brain [https://www.patreon.com/mattia/about] community space (Patreon/Discord) ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

133 Anger and Aloneness

If you're feeling angry lately, that makes a lot of sense! It's not a bad emotion. In fact, it can feel quite motivating to create change. But what if you are feeling isolated and/or don't have capacity to directly create that change right now? That's where nourishing and care work come in, even if they're only for you (for now). While I don't use the word self-care in the episode, that's in part the kind of nourishing I mean. Once your capacity is higher, you'll be able to build more. And the people doing the literal feeding and care work are just as much a part of the movement! AUDHD FLOURISHING RESOURCES: 1. Transcript Doc [https://docs.google.com/document/d/13cWttVht-bxKyxc6nCJq4-0SL5zoQVvDIM22RFnaBP0/edit?usp=sharing] (often a few weeks behind, but we do catch up!) 2. Mattia's Newsletter [https://mattia.ck.page/a6b7c9bf09] 3. Like Your Brain [https://www.patreon.com/mattia/about] community space (Patreon/Discord) ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.