Cultivate By Bec

S3 E1 Motherload and Mental Agility

Being a mother and the mental agility required. Switching from thing to thing, seeing and doing multiple mental agility tasks in any given moment.

S2 E3 “Nesting” - a different opinion

Pregnant women often get labeled as “nesting” when they are trying to get their family home ready for the new baby. I find this utterly offensive, and a perpetuate of ingrained language used to belittle and shame women. What if a woman trying to prepare her home was an innate divine act of brilliance she should actually be praised for?

S2 E2 Pregnancy & Social Expectations

Ever felt like you’re suddenly public property just because your pregnant? Or that people think they can give you any opinion they want and shame you into agreeing just because you’re pregnant? NO MORE MAAM, NOT TODAY. Let’s chat about societal expectations and how to politely tell others to f*ck off. And at the same time, letting our own story of being pregnant and motherhood be ever unfolding and learn as we go, with humility.

S2 E1 Growing Up With Hell As The Backdrop

Why I am so passionate about women being educated about themselves - their womanly anatomy and how to take care of it, their anatomy and neurology as it relates to sexuality. My childhood conditioning growing up in Christianity. How growing up being taught this belief scaffolding eroded my confidence, worthiness and self belief. How growing up in this context completely under-educated me about my womanly body, and my sexuality. And set the tone for the relationship (or lack there of) to my physical body.

Ep7. Judgement - The Uncomfortable Truth

When we judge another, what is the implication for how we judge ourselves? Could practising neutrality be the gateway to unconditional self love?