HerCanary

Ready Player Two?

A Tinder date once agreed to solve riddles across multiple bars to find me… which means ; player two accepted a side quest. 🎮🧩 There were bartenders 🍻 A required rock 🪨 Girls’ night 💅 A cow costume 🐄✨ This episode kind of wandered into: dating, confidence, awkwardness, friendships, maps 🌻character building 🌻 and whether some of us got so focused on reaching the next level… that we forgot to enjoy the game. Anyway… choose your players carefully. 🐤 Got a weird date story? A side quest? A friendship that started as attraction? A scavenger hunt I’d approve of? Send your stories (anonymous or not): 📩 ⁠hercanarypodcast@hercanary.com⁠ [hercanarypodcast@hercanary.com] I read them.They become thoughts.Sometimes episodes.. 🧩

The Elk-Hunting Delusion🎣

EPISODE 3:🎣 ..... was supposed to be about where to meet people… …but somehow turned into nervous systems, emotional grocery shopping, object constancy, red flags, green flags, relationship ecosystems, elk hunting, and asking ourselves a much bigger question: “What do I actually want?” This episode dives into familiar patterns, boundaries, why some relationships feel peaceful while others feel like survival mode, and how sometimes we keep dating the same person in different skin suits. Also: Im starting to think... relationships now require a food pyramid. 😉Welcome back to the dating series. 🐤 hercanary.com Share your stories with me: hercanarypodcast@hercanary.com [hercanarypodcast@hercanary.com] 😉

Your Landing System

EPISODE 2: PHASE TWO — YOUR LANDING SYSTEM Phase Two is about your landing system—the people in your life who hold you steady when dating (or life) doesn’t go the way you hoped. Because it’s not just what happens to you…it’s what you land on after that shapes you. In this episode: * Why friendships are the foundation, not the side story * How support systems protect your sense of self * What happens when you expect one person to be everythingAnd how real connection changes what you tolerate You’re not just building relationships—you’re building a life that can hold them. 🐤 🌻 💛 🟣 Take what resonates. Leave what doesn’t. 📩 Send your stories: hercanarypodcast@hercanary.com

Not Yet Tarzan

Mini Series: Dating Episode 1: Not Yet Tarzan Tarzan energy is a maybe. Trust first is a requirement. Dating right now? Confusing. Exhausting. Slightly unhinged. Same people. Same apps. Completely different experiences. So before we fix dating… We start with you. 📩 Want the values tool? Message me 💌 hercanarypodcast@hercanary.com — send me your dating stories

You Asked for More… | Mini-Series Intro

You’ve been asking for more—more depth, longer episodes, more time in each topic… and I really do hear you 🤍 So I sat with it for a minute. And I realized something… my brain doesn’t really work in long, linear conversations. It jumps. It wanders. It connects things quickly… and sometimes forgets where it was going in the first place. And instead of forcing that into something it’s not— I want to build this in a way that’s actually real and consistent. So we’re trying something new. Mini-series. Same conversations, same honesty, same depth… just structured differently. And we’re starting with dating. Because after hearing your stories… there’s a lot to unpack. This is just an intro— a little reset, a little shift, and the start of something I think you’re really going to like. As always— I’m not a doctor, therapist, or expert. Just someone sharing real-life experiences. Take what resonates, leave what doesn’t. 🐤 Share your stories with me at: hercanarypodcast@hercanary.com