The Myth of Bouncing Back w/ Charaia Rush
In this episode, I had the joy of sitting down with Charaia Rush [https://www.instagram.com/charaiarush/], a writer and speaker based in Colorado and the author of Courageously Soft and her newest book, The Myth of Bouncing Back. Charaia carries such a rare and needed voice for this generation. She speaks with tenderness, grit, honesty, and deep spiritual wisdom for those of us who are learning how to stay soft without pretending life has not been hard.
In this conversation, we unpack the lies we often believe about resilience, especially the idea that strength means quickly getting over what hurt us. Charaia speaks so beautifully to the slow, sacred work of grief and the importance of lament as part of healing. We talk about what it means to bring our honest sorrow before God, how to stop rushing our own recovery, and why true resilience is not pretending we are fine, but allowing God to meet us in the places where we are most undone.
In her newest book, The Myth of Bouncing Back [https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Bouncing-Back-Ditching-Resilience/dp/B0GWFX5LVX/ref=sr_1_1?crid=21Q7WT078T2BG&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.UKtmwDSGttAi4H5zYSAenXjyqesMiB7GOsfIq6-jsmPGjHj071QN20LucGBJIEps._tD9qNo8VZt1hKpIH545bC1R70NmMArgMmEjz0MYRws&dib_tag=se&keywords=the+myth+of+bouncing+back&qid=1778710373&sprefix=the+myth+of+bouncing+bac%2Caps%2C215&sr=8-1], Charaia offers a much-needed reframe around resilience. Instead of treating resilience like the ability to snap back into who we were before the heartbreak, before the failure, before the grief, before the loss, she invites us to consider something far more honest and far more holy: maybe healing is not about bouncing back at all. Maybe it is about learning how to rise for real. Her book walks readers through the process of lamenting, learning to stand again, rebuilding a beautiful life, and discovering who we are becoming on the other side of life’s hardest falls.
I pray this conversation gives you permission to stop rushing your process, to bring your lament honestly before God, and to believe that even here, even now, even slowly, you can rise again.
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