Mature Allure

Dana Faith on Handcrafted Jewelry, Creative Reinvention & Ageless Style After 40 (Rerun)

In this special rerun episode of Mature Allure, Sherri O. revisits an inspiring conversation with Dana Faith, a New York City jewelry designer and founder of Dana Faith Jewelry. Dana shares how her journey into jewelry design began unexpectedly while she was working in fashion and exploring her Buddhist practice. What started as a creative spark grew into a meaningful jewelry brand rooted in connection, individuality, and self-expression. Throughout the conversation, Dana opens up about her design process, her love of nature, color, gemstones, and handcrafted details, and why every piece she creates carries a personal story. From her signature handmade heart necklaces to custom “breathe” pieces and jewelry inspired by ancient female warriors, Dana’s work celebrates strength, femininity, and authenticity, creating ageless style after 40. This episode is especially powerful for women over 40 who are embracing reinvention, creativity, personal style, and the freedom to express themselves without limits. We talk about: * Dana’s unexpected transition from fashion to jewelry design * How nature, color, customers, and New York City inspire her work * The meaning behind her signature handmade heart jewelry * Why no two handcrafted pieces are ever exactly alike * The difference between costume, demi-fine, gold-filled, and fine jewelry * How jewelry can hold memory, healing, identity, and emotional meaning * Why women should wear what they love at every age * Advice for anyone considering jewelry design as a second career * Dana also shares her thoughts on ageless style after 40 and why women should stop following outdated rules about what they “should” wear as they mature. Her message is clear: if a piece makes you feel beautiful, powerful, or connected to yourself—wear it. Listen to this rerun episode for an inspiring conversation about handmade jewelry, creative reinvention, meaningful design, ageless style, and the power of wearing pieces that tell your story. About Dana Faith Dana Faith is a New York City–based jewelry designer and founder of Dana Faith Jewelry. Her handmade collections include fine jewelry, demi-fine jewelry, custom pieces, signature heart necklaces, meaningful word necklaces, and designs inspired by nature, spirituality, femininity, and personal connection. Connect with Dana Faith Website: danafaith.com [http://danafaith.com] Instagram: @danafaithjewelry Learn more about Sherri O.: Website: https://matureallure.net/ [https://matureallure.net/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/ [https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure [https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure] Instagram: @mature.allure [https://www.instagram.com/mature.allure/] Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you! Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy [https://ausha.co/privacy-policy] for more information.

Understanding Attachment Styles After 40: Healing Anxiety, Loneliness & Emotional Trauma with Chris Rackliffe (Rerun)

Understanding Attachment Styles - What if many of the emotional struggles we experience in midlife — anxiety in relationships, fear of abandonment, loneliness, people-pleasing, or difficulty letting go of past hurts — are connected to patterns we learned long ago? In this deeply insightful rerun episode of Mature Allure, Sherri O. sits down with attachment coach and author Chris Rackliffe to explore anxious attachment styles, emotional healing, forgiveness, inner child work, and nervous system regulation. Chris shares his own healing journey and explains how childhood experiences, trauma, and emotional invalidation can shape adult relationships and self-worth. Together, Sherri and Chris discuss why so many women in midlife feel emotionally overwhelmed, disconnected, lonely, or stuck in survival mode — and most importantly, how to begin healing. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating divorce, grief, relationship challenges, emotional burnout, loneliness, or a desire to reconnect with themselves after years of putting everyone else first. Key Takeaways from This Conversation: ✔️ Feelings are directional — not facts ✔️ Forgiveness does not mean forgetting or excusing hurtful behavior ✔️ Many emotional patterns are survival responses, not personality flaws ✔️ Healing starts by changing the way we speak to ourselves ✔️ Midlife is an opportunity for emotional healing and self-discovery ✔️ Loneliness often begins with disconnection from self ✔️ It’s never too late to rewire emotional patterns and build healthier relationships About Chris Rackliffe Chris Rackliffe is an anxious attachment coach, speaker, and author who helps people heal relationship anxiety, emotional wounds, and patterns rooted in childhood trauma by understanding attachment styles. His work focuses on emotional regulation, self-awareness, attachment theory, forgiveness, and inner child healing. He is the author of It’s Good to See Me Again: How to Find Your Way When You Feel Lost. Connect with Chris Rackliffe Website: Chris Rackliffe Official Website [https://www.crackliffe.com?utm_source=chatgpt.com] Attachment Healing Resources: Chris Rackliffe Secure Resources Page Learn more about Sherri O.: Website: https://matureallure.net/ [https://matureallure.net/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/ [https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure [https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure] Instagram: @mature.allure [https://www.instagram.com/mature.allure/] Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you! Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy [https://ausha.co/privacy-policy] for more information.

Achieving Financial Freedom After 40: Debt Payoff, Budgeting & Credit Tips with Lisa Rogers Cherry (Rerun)

If you’re navigating midlife and thinking more intentionally about your finances and achieving financial freedom after 40, this episode of Mature Allure is a must-listen. In this insightful conversation, we revisit financial advisor, author, and financial literacy coach Lisa Rogers Cherry, who shares practical, real-world strategies for achieving financial freedom after 40—no matter where you’re starting from. Whether you’re working to get out of debt, rebuild your credit, plan for retirement, or simply gain control of your finances, Lisa offers actionable advice that empowers you to make smarter money decisions with confidence. From helping first-time homebuyers secure loans to guiding families through budgeting and saving, Lisa brings over 25 years of experience in financial literacy and community development. Her approach is clear, accessible, and rooted in real-life solutions that work. ✨ In this episode, you’ll learn: * What financial freedom really means—and how to define it for your life * How to create a realistic plan to become debt-free * Smart strategies for paying off credit cards and managing interest rates * Why budgeting is essential (no matter your income level) * How much savings you really need for emergencies and major life events * Financial tips for women over 40, single parents, and midlife families * When to start planning for retirement—and what to do if you’re starting late * How to prepare financially for big purchases like a home or car * The importance of credit—and how it impacts your financial future * How to find and apply for scholarships (for your kids—or even yourself) Lisa also shares insights from her book, Lifting the Burdens of Debt, a practical guide designed to help individuals take control of their finances, eliminate debt, and build a more secure future. This episode is a reminder that it’s never too late to take charge of your financial life—and that small, intentional steps can lead to lasting freedom. 🔗 Connect with Lisa Rogers Cherry * 🌐 Website: http://www.lisarogerscherry.com [http://www.lisarogerscherry.com] * 📘 Facebook: Lisa Rogers Cherry Writes * 📸 Instagram: @lisarogerscherry 📚 Get the Book Lifting the Burdens of Debt: A Helpful Guide to Getting Your Debt Paid and Your Life Back on Track Available via her website and major book retailers. Learn more about Sherri O.: Website: https://matureallure.net/ [https://matureallure.net/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/ [https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure [https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure] Instagram: @mature.allure [https://www.instagram.com/mature.allure/] Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you! Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy [https://ausha.co/privacy-policy] for more information.

What Nobody Tells You About Getting Older: Honest Truths Every Woman Over 40 Needs to Hear

Aging isn’t just about growing older—it’s about navigating changes no one really prepares you for. In this powerful and refreshingly honest episode of Mature Allure, host Sherri O. sits down with Mary Westheimer, author of What Nobody Tells You About Getting Older, to unpack the real, unfiltered truths about aging. From unexpected physical changes and shifting energy levels to the deeper emotional realities of loss, identity, and self-awareness—this conversation explores what so many women experience but rarely say out loud. Mary shares how her “fact snacks”—bite-sized insights about aging—help women better understand what’s happening to their bodies, minds, and lives without feeling overwhelmed. Together, Sherri and Mary also explore the surprising gifts of aging, including increased self-awareness, freedom, and the ability to finally focus on what truly matters. If you’ve ever wondered, “Is it just me?”—this episode is your reminder that it’s not. ✨ Key Takeaways: * Why aging can feel sudden—and how to better understand the changes * The emotional weight of loss (beyond death) and how to process it * The importance of “paying attention” to your life as you age * How laughter can make difficult transitions easier * The hidden benefits of getting older, including clarity and autonomy * Why you are not alone in this journey 💬 Memorable Moments: * “Yesterday I was fine… and today I can’t open a jar.” * “If you’re paying attention, aging teaches you what works—and what doesn’t.” * “You’re not alone. We’re all going through this.” 🌿 Connect with Mary Westheimer: Website: https://www.whatnobodytellsyou.com/ [https://www.whatnobodytellsyou.com/] Learn more about the book, read “fact snacks,” and find purchase links online and in bookstores. Learn more about Sherri O.: Website: https://matureallure.net/ [https://matureallure.net/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/ [https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure [https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure] Instagram: @mature.allure [https://www.instagram.com/mature.allure/] Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you! Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy [https://ausha.co/privacy-policy] for more information.

Why Shame Keeps People Stuck in Sexual Addiction—And How to Heal

In this deeply honest and eye-opening episode of Mature Allure, Sherri O. sits down with Rick Manabat, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and EMDR-trained clinician, to unpack the complex and often misunderstood world of porn addiction and sexual compulsivity. At the heart of this conversation is one powerful truth: it’s not just about the behavior—it’s about the story underneath it. Rick shares how shame plays a central role in addiction, often shaping how people see themselves, relate to others, and cope with unresolved emotional pain. Through real-life examples and clinical insight, he explains how compulsive sexual behaviors are often attempts to heal or recreate past experiences—what therapists call trauma reenactment. Together, Sherri and Rick explore how early exposure to pornography, childhood trauma, and deeply rooted beliefs like “I am unworthy” or “I am a burden” can influence behavior well into adulthood. This conversation also offers clarity and compassion for partners navigating betrayal, helping them understand the emotional dynamics at play while emphasizing the importance of boundaries, honesty, and healing. Key Takeaways from This Episode: * The difference between guilt and shame—and why shame is more destructive * How sexual compulsivity is often connected to unresolved trauma * Why addiction is less about the behavior and more about the underlying story * How shame distorts communication and relationships * The role of secrecy and why honesty is critical in recovery * How pornography rewires the brain—and how it can be rewired back * What healthy recovery actually looks like beyond “just stopping” * Why community and connection are essential to healing * Guidance for partners navigating betrayal and rebuilding trust * The first courageous step toward healing: telling someone A Powerful Reminder: Addiction thrives in secrecy—but healing begins with truth, connection, and a willingness to face the deeper story. Contact Information for Rick Manabat Rick Manabat, CSAT Certified Sex Addiction Therapist | EMDR-Trained Clinician Practice: Numa Therapeutic Services * Locations: Chicago, IL & Colorado Springs, CO * Website: https://numatherapy.com [https://numatherapy.com] (recommended to confirm exact URL if needed) * Services: Trauma therapy, sex addiction recovery, couples therapy, partner support Learn more about Sherri O.: Website: https://matureallure.net/ [https://matureallure.net/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/ [https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure [https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure] Instagram: @mature.allure [https://www.instagram.com/mature.allure/] Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you! Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy [https://ausha.co/privacy-policy] for more information.