Pondering Podcast

Life Lessons With Cecilia

What's the secret to a lasting marriage? In this heartfelt epiosde, Erica sits down with her mother-in-law Cecilia, for an honest and deeply personal conversation about love, loss, and life after more than 60 years marriage, Together, they reflect on the beauty and challenges of growing older with someone, the quiet moments that truly build a relationship, and the grief that comes with losing a lifelong partner. From lessons through decades of marriage to stories filled with laughter, wisdom, heartbreak, and resillience, Cecilia shares her perspective on what it really takes to make love last through every season of life. This episode feels like sitting at the kitchen table listening to generations connect through open conversation, cherised moments, and timeless advice. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com [Erica@EricaPHonore.com] https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1 [https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1]

Back When 2026 Felt Brand New

Back in January, Louis and Erica recorded their reflections and thoughts on 2025- the grief, the growth, accomplishments and unexpected adventures. In this episode, they re cap the old year, and discuss their hopes and goals for 2026. Erica shares her emotional journey of publishing a book, what it was like sharing her story with the world, and how grief can reshape not only your perspective but future. They discuss upcoming plans on starting a new local crawfish business, reflect on their podcast adventure and where they think it's headed. From personal healing and accomplishments, new dreams, new goals, and family life, ambition, and marriage- this episode is about embracing the unknown while choosing to keep going and remain hopeful for what ''New Year'' brings! About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com [Erica@EricaPHonore.com] https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1 [https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1]

Conversations With My Mom Part 2

This episode contains discussions of death and grief. The content may be emotionally intese or triggering for some listeners. These conversations are raw and real, and they might be triggering for some. Take breaks listening as needed, skip or come back when you are ready. This episode contains discussions about race, segregation, and lived expereinces of discrimination. Listener discretion is advised as some topics may be emotionally impactful. Picking up from Conversations With My Mom Part 1, Erica and her mom continue the episode with discussing their grief journey about the lose of Austin and Erica's dad. How they both naviagted it, the different experiences, and the time leading up to the death of Erica's dad, as well as expereincing her second husband dying. Erica's mom shares stories of family memories, from her early adulthood to now. She gives a mother perspective on some of her decisions and the value of what family means to her. They also discuss the book Loving,Losing&Living written by Erica, and reshare the stories wrote and dive deeper into the emotional and true feelings being held at that time. Erica's mom shares her perspective on those stories and together they discuss the ''why's'', ''when'' and understandings of each other during those times. They end this episode off by discussing Erica's moms childhood, cooking, Lousiana expereinces and shared laughter of new and old stories. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com [Erica@EricaPHonore.com] https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1 [https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1]

Conversations With My Mom Part 1

This episode contains discussions about race, segregation, and lived expereinces of discrimination. Listener discretion is advised as some topics may be emotionally impactful. A powerful conversation between Erica and her mother-covering life during segregation in Louisiana, the identify of being Creole, culture shock in California, and the deep grief of loosing a grandson. A story of strength, memory, and the unbreakable bond between generations. Across generations, stories carry weight. Together, they navigate the emotional terrain of culture, transitions, identiy and more. This conversation is about where we come from, what we carry, and how we share stories to future generations. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com [Erica@EricaPHonore.com] https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1 [https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1]

Letters Home

Sending love and support to our military during this time.. During his two-week break from basic training, we sit down with our son for a conversation we'll never forget. We talk about what he expected before he left.. and what it's actually been like stepping into this new chapter of his life. From physical challenges to mental growth, he opens up about how he's handling it all-and suprisingly how much he likes it! Jordan shares what's been the hardest, what's pushes him the most, and how it's already changing him. This episode is about growth, proud parents and military insight to new beginnings. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com [Erica@EricaPHonore.com] https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1 [https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1]