What's the difference between teaching puberty and sex education?
What actually needs to be taught in primary RSE - and what’s optional?
In this episode of Primary Focus, we tackle one of the most commonly misunderstood areas in primary education: the difference between puberty education and sex education.
Because they’re often blurred together, it can create confusion for schools, staff, and parents - especially when it comes to what is statutory in RSE and what isn’t.
Together, they unpack:
- What must be taught in primary schools
- What schools can choose to include
- How the science curriculum overlaps with RSE
- Why parents sometimes misunderstand their right to withdraw
- What age-appropriate sex education actually looks like in Year 5/6
- How to build staff confidence when teaching sensitive topics
Learn more about our panel:
👉 Rebecca Jennings - RSE Consultant for Schools, RAISEhttps://www.raiseeducation.org.uk/
👉 Russell Stanley - PSHE/RSHE Consultant, Health and Wellbeing in Schools LTDhttps://www.schoolhwb.co.uk/
👉 Zoė Higgins - RSE & PSHE Lead, Kapow Primary
The episode also explores practical classroom strategies, including:
- Using correct scientific vocabulary (and why it matters)
- Creating safe discussion spaces with clear ground rules
- Handling tricky questions with confidence
- Whether to teach in mixed or single-sex groups
In this video:
00:00 - Introductions
01:12 - Defining Puberty vs. Sex Education
04:13 - School Policies and Parent Engagement
07:02 - Foundational Learning in Key Stage 1
08:17 - Using Correct Terminology
14:43 - Teacher Preparation and Confidence
19:14 - Helping Pupils Feel Comfortable
26:52 - Grouping Strategies (Single-sex vs. Mixed-sex)
30:37 - Final Advice and Conclusion
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