PSR Podcast

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate [http://bebroken.org/donate]. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I chat with Hadley Baker, who courageously shares his journey through sexual addiction and its impact on his life as a pastor. Hadley opens up about his childhood trauma as the result of an unwanted pregnancy, believing he was unlovable. Then came the early onset of his addiction to pornography and the eventual internal conflict of living a double life while in ministry.  He recounts pivotal moments, such as his spiritual awakening, the challenges in his marriage, and his path to healing through counseling and truly understanding God's love.  We also highlight the importance of authenticity and open discussions within the church to support anyone struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors. Hadley’s story is a powerful reminder of the need for grace, hope, and compassion. To learn more about Hadley and get his book, No Longer a Slave, visit HadleyBaker.com [http://hadleybaker.com]. Topics Covered in this Episode: * Personal journey of sexual addiction and its impact on life as a pastor. * Importance of discussing sensitive topics like addiction within the church. * Influence of childhood trauma and family dynamics on self-worth and identity. * Early exposure to pornography and its role in developing compulsive behaviors. * Spiritual awakening and commitment to faith as a turning point. * Struggles with living a double life while in ministry. * Escalation of addiction and the cycle of shame and secrecy. * The significance of counseling and understanding God's love in the healing process. * Transition back into ministry after overcoming addiction and personal struggles. * Advocacy for creating safe spaces in churches for open discussions about addiction and personal challenges. More Resources: * Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men [https://www.bebroken.org/gateway-to-freedom] * The Healing Church [https://amzn.to/3GU2cqY]* by Sam Black * SheRecovery: Porn Addiction Support for Women [https://sherecovery.com/?via=bebroken] Related Podcasts: * From Porn Pastor to Pure Desire [https://vimeo.com/296716891] * Reframing How the Church Views Sexual Purity [https://vimeo.com/630136729] * Addressing Childhood Trauma in Men [https://vimeo.com/872973742] *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853] Follow us on our Vimeo Channel [https://vimeo.com/channels/psrpodcast].

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate [http://BeBroken.org/donate]. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, we have back on the program our friend and colleague Andrew Arthur, a mediator specializing in faith-based mediation, to talk about the delicate topic of separation in relationships and how to navigate them with hope. We delve specifically into therapeutic separation, which is a process aimed at healing and potentially reuniting couples facing serious challenges like infidelity and sexual brokenness.  Andrew highlights the importance of having a support team, including counselors, mediators, and spiritual advisors, to collectively guide this tough journey for couples. We also discuss the emotional and operational aspects of separation, the need for individual care, and the crucial role of safety and trust in working towards reconciliation. It's a hopeful and insightful conversation for anyone facing relational struggles. For more information about Andrew and his resources, visit GenesisChristianMediation.com [http://GenesisChristianMediation.com]. Topics Covered in the Episode: * Definition and understanding of therapeutic separation in relationships. * The role and importance of a support team during separation. * Common reasons for couples to consider separation, including infidelity and communication breakdown. * Establishing ground rules and expectations during the separation process. * Overcoming obstacles to reunification, such as differing parenting styles and conflict patterns. * The significance of safety and trust in relationships during separation. * Steps toward reunification and the importance of joint work and assessments. * The value of commitment to the therapeutic process and early intervention. * The concept of forgiveness as a personal journey in healing. * Resources and support available for couples navigating separation and reconciliation. More Resources: * Restoration Therapy [https://amzn.to/4jUIYjj]* by Dr. Terry Hargrave * DisclosureHope.com [http://DisclosureHope.com] * Find a Counselor [https://www.bebroken.org/counselors] Related Podcasts: * Conflict Management for Marriages Healing from Betrayal [https://vimeo.com/831542536?tq=#t=411] * The Role of Boundaries in Marriage Restoration [https://vimeo.com/1067083382?tq=#t=1584] * Helping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal [https://vimeo.com/803178855] *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853] Follow us on our Vimeo Channel [https://vimeo.com/channels/psrpodcast].

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving [http://bebroken.org/donate]. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, Stephen and I explore the profound concept of "oneness," touching on its dimensions of belonging, connection, unity, and intimacy. We discuss how oneness is essential in relationships with family, spouses, and God, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability and mutual understanding.  We highlight the very real challenges and rewards of pursuing true oneness; it isn’t like flipping a switch and you will automatically achieve oneness. Oneness is a journey of growth and self-discovery. We invite you to reflect on your own relationships and seek deeper connections in your life. It’s a mission worth the journey. To get daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org [http://DoctorMarriage.org]. Topics Covered in this Episode: * Exploration of the concept of "oneness" and its complexities. * Discussion of belonging, connection, unity, and intimacy. * The significance of personal experiences in understanding oneness. * The role of vulnerability and mutual understanding in fostering deeper connections. * The relationship between oneness and one's connection with family, spouses, and God. * The importance of open communication and trust in relationships. * The idea of oneness as a love story and a journey of self-awareness. * The theological perspective on oneness, particularly in relation to marriage and divine connection. * Reflection on the ongoing journey of growth and understanding in relationships. * Encouragement for listeners to seek deeper connections and explore barriers to oneness. More Resources: * Free Men's Integrity Webinar [https://www.bebroken.org/integrity-webinar-men] * Free Wives Betrayal Trauma Healing Webinar [https://www.bebroken.org/basics-webinar-for-wives] * Sacred Marriage [https://amzn.to/3RsJnx6]* by Gary Thomas Related Podcasts: * Are You a Loner or Connector in Relationships? [https://vimeo.com/1069240612] * Unlocking Greatness: Why Emotional Connections Matter More than Success [https://vimeo.com/995454739] * Living More than a Love Story [https://vimeo.com/910550245] *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853] Follow us on our Vimeo Channel [https://vimeo.com/channels/psrpodcast].

In this episode, our guests are Johnny and Emily Spigelmire and they share their profound journey through Johnny's sex addiction and its impact on their marriage. Johnny opens up about his early exposure to pornography, his secret struggles, and the eventual escalation to extramarital affairs.  Emily shares her perspective, detailing the confusion and pain she experienced, as well as her unwavering faith in their marriage’s potential for healing. Together, they discuss their path to recovery, the importance of honesty, and their mission to help others through their podcast, "Beyond Broken Vows." Their story is a powerful testament to redemption and hope. If you are in a marriage that has experienced infidelity or other kinds of sexual betrayal, this episode will help you discover hope and insights for healing and restoration. For more information about Johnny and Emily and their ministry, visit BeyondBrokenVows.com [http://BeyondBrokenVows.com]. Topics Covered in this Episode: * The impact of early exposure to pornography on personal development. * The struggles and consequences of sex addiction within a marriage. * The dynamics of anger and emotional turmoil in relationships. * The process of deception and gaslighting in the context of addiction. * The journey of healing and recovery from infidelity. * The importance of open communication and honesty in rebuilding trust. * The role of faith and spirituality in overcoming personal challenges. * The significance of support networks and community in recovery. * The decision to share personal stories to help others facing similar issues. * The transformation of a relationship through vulnerability and shared experiences. More Resources: * Beyond Broken Vows Podcast [https://beyondbrokenvows.com/podcast] * Recovery Coaching with Johnny and Emily [https://coaching.beyondbrokenvows.com/] * DisclosureHope.com [http://DisclosureHope.com] Related Podcasts: * Rebuilding a Healthy Marriage After Betrayal [https://vimeo.com/778538552] * Helping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal [https://vimeo.com/803178855] * How Can Therapeutic Disclosure Help Heal Marriages Affected by Sexual Betrayal [https://vimeo.com/961344605] ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853] Follow us on our Vimeo Channel [https://vimeo.com/channels/psrpodcast].

In this episode, I chat with Bret Marshall about his incredible journey of faith and personal transformation. Bret opens up about his struggles with emotional expression and sexual sin, and how these challenges impacted his relationships, especially with his wife, Tena. He shares the pivotal moments that led to his healing, including a transformative intensive experience through a past partnership between Be Broken and the Navigators ministry organization. Bret highlights the ABC’s of emotional health: Acceptance, Belonging, and Connection. Bret also emphasizes the need for personal vulnerability, authentic connections, and creating safe spaces for men to share their full stories. His own story is an incredible reminder of the transformative power of God’s presence in our lives. Learn more about Bret on his YouTube channel: @whylivetoday [https://www.youtube.com/@whylivetoday]. Topics Covered in this Episode: * Bret Marshall's journey of faith and personal transformation. * The significance of being known and sharing personal stories. * Challenges faced in relationships, particularly with a spouse. * The importance of creating safe environments for men to share their experiences. * Emotional suppression and its impact on personal well-being. * The role of communication in fostering intimacy and connection in relationships. * The necessity of vulnerability and honesty in personal and spiritual growth. * Building supportive relationships with mentors and peers for spiritual development. * Encouragement for those struggling with hidden aspects of their lives to seek help and support. More Resources: * Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men [https://www.bebroken.org/gateway-to-freedom] * Mere Christianity [https://amzn.to/3Embrzg]* by C.S. Lewis * Find a Group [https://www.bebroken.org/groups] Related Podcasts: * The Story of 3 Men [https://vimeo.com/281445424] * Understanding 4 Key Roles in Your Story [https://vimeo.com/720301378] * Mr Unemotional: Moving from Isolation to Connection [https://vimeo.com/1014844768] *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853] Follow us on our Vimeo Channel [https://vimeo.com/channels/psrpodcast].