Growing Younger: Diana Howes on Tango, Flexibility, and a Life in Motion
Diana Howes joins Cathy for a conversation that feels like a celebration of what reinvention can look like when you stay open, flexible, and willing to follow joy wherever it leads. Diana describes her life today as one filled with movement, connection, and purpose, much of it centered around Argentine tango. What began as a way to strengthen her knees turned into a passion that brings her exercise, community, and what she jokingly calls her eight hugs a day. She talks about the closeness of the dance, its social nature, and the delight of learning something she had always wanted to do but never had time for while raising four children.
Her path into retirement was shaped by a lifetime of taking leaps and trusting that the net would appear. After decades in insurance and investments, she shifted into virtual bookkeeping long before remote work was common, a move that gave her the freedom to be with her children as their lives took them to different cities. When her daughter had what Diana calls a miracle baby, she moved to Charlotte to help. When her son and daughter‑in‑law in Los Angeles were expecting twins, she packed up again and headed west. She describes herself as a minimalist with a suitcase and a storage unit, choosing furnished rooms and month‑to‑month living so she can stay close to family and keep her life flexible.
Diana reflects on the realities of aging, the desire to sit less, the importance of staying mentally and physically active, and the joy of being surrounded by younger people who keep her engaged. She talks about her commitment to “growing younger,” a mix of mindset, movement, whole foods, and purpose. And she shares her newest dream with a smile: to become a dancer everyone wants to dance with. It is a reminder that reinvention does not require grand gestures. Sometimes it looks like choosing connection, choosing movement, and choosing to stay open to the next beautiful thing.
Reinventing Retirement is the property of Dr. Cathy Paessun and is produced by Tim Beeman for Such-N-Such Media [http://suchnsuchmedianc.com/].