The Messy Middle Matters

Ep 53: Becoming Myself Again, One Episode at a Time

Indra reflects on her podcast journey over the past year, sharing successes, challenges, and personal growth. She discusses the evolution of her podcast, technological hurdles, and how the experience has transformed her confidence and voice.  Takeaways * Consistency in content creation builds confidence. * Technological hurdles are significant but manageable. * Reflecting on progress reveals areas of growth and improvement. * Feedback from listeners is vital for motivation and direction. More from Indra and The Messy Middle Matters * Indra on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/indrak/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/indrak/] * Indra’s Blog: https://peopleprocessthings.substack.com [https://peopleprocessthings.substack.com]   * The Messy Middle Matters on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themessymiddlematters/ [https://www.instagram.com/themessymiddlematters/] * Feedback for The Messy Middle Matters: https://messymiddlematters.com/feedback [https://messymiddlematters.com/feedback]  * The Messy Middle Matters Merch https://messymiddlemerch.com [https://messymiddlemerch.com]  * Podbean Podcast Hosting - https://www.podbean.com/messymiddle [https://www.podbean.com/messymiddle]  Keywords podcast journey, personal growth, technology challenges, self-confidence, retrospective, podcasting tips Chapters 00:00 Reflecting on Season One 03:09 What Went Well: Celebrating Successes 06:04 Challenges Faced: Technology and Consistency 09:06 Personal Growth: Finding Confidence Through Podcasting 11:55 Looking Ahead: Future of the Podcast 12:40 Outro + Post-roll - Like and Subscribe

Ep 52: From Rioja to Holistic Home: The Power of Passion in Professional Journeys w/ Ana Fabiano

In this episode, Indra and Ana Fabiano explore the intricate journey of Ana's career in the wine industry, her deep connection to the Rioja region, and the launch of her new venture, Rioja Holistic Home. They discuss the importance of passion, authenticity, and building trust with craftspeople, especially in a traditionally male-dominated industry. The conversation highlights the shift towards sustainability and intentional living, emphasizing the value of community and patience in navigating the 'messy middle' of personal and professional growth. Takeaways * Let your passion guide you in your career. * Authenticity is crucial in building connections. * Rioja represents more than just wine; it's a cultural experience. * Building trust with craftspeople requires respect and dedication. * The wine industry is becoming more inclusive of women. * Intentional living can enhance well-being and connection. * Sustainability is a growing focus in consumer choices. * The messy middle is a vital part of any journey. * Patience is essential when navigating challenges. * Community support is key to success in business. More from Ana Fabiano * Rioja Holistic Home on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/riojaholistichome/ [https://www.instagram.com/riojaholistichome/]  * Ana’s Book: https://www.anafabiano.com/riojabook [https://www.anafabiano.com/riojabook]  * Ana’s  Website: https://www.anafabiano.com/ [https://www.anafabiano.com/]  * Ana’s on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anafabianorioja [https://www.instagram.com/anafabianorioja]  * Ana Fabiano on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juleenbean/https://www.linkedin.com/in/anafabiano/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/anafabiano/]  More from Indra and The Messy Middle Matters * Indra on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/indrak/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/indrak/] * Indra’s Blog: https://peopleprocessthings.substack.com [https://peopleprocessthings.substack.com]   * The Messy Middle Matters on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themessymiddlematters/ [https://www.instagram.com/themessymiddlematters/] * Feedback for The Messy Middle Matters: https://messymiddlematters.com/feedback [https://messymiddlematters.com/feedback]  * The Messy Middle Matters Merch https://messymiddlemerch.com [https://messymiddlemerch.com] Keywords career paths, authenticity, Rioja, wine industry, craftspeople, sustainability, holistic living, intentionality, women in business, personal growth

Ep 51: The Secret Memos of Agency Life: Unpacking Imposter Syndrome w/ Kat Logan

In this episode of Messy Middle Matters, Indra and Kat delve into the complexities of Imposter Syndrome, exploring its roots, manifestations, and the societal conditioning that often exacerbates it, particularly for women. They discuss practical tools and strategies for reframing negative self-perceptions, the importance of coaching and mentorship, and the need for authentic role models. The conversation emphasizes the significance of finding support and resources to navigate the challenges of self-doubt and encourages listeners to embrace their true selves. Key Takeaways * Imposter Syndrome is often more prevalent among women due to societal conditioning. * The concept of 'secret memos' illustrates how people feel out of place in social settings. * Reframing negative thoughts is crucial in overcoming Imposter Syndrome. * Writing down negative beliefs can help in assessing their truth. * Coaching provides an objective perspective that can aid in personal growth. * Client preferences can impact self-perception and work satisfaction. * Women often have fewer role models in leadership roles, making it harder to find relatable guidance. * Authenticity is vital in overcoming Imposter Syndrome and finding one's voice. * Support systems, whether human or virtual, are essential for personal development. * Taking small steps and finding resources can help in managing self-doubt. Resources * Clifton Strengths Finder: https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/home.aspx [https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/home.aspx]  * Debbie Millman's Design Matters Podcast:  https://designmattersmedia.com/ [https://designmattersmedia.com/]  * Frances Frei & Anne Morris's Fixable Podcast: https://anneandfrances.com/fixable [https://anneandfrances.com/fixable]  * Carla Harris - Pearls of Wisdom: https://www.carlaspearls.com/ [https://www.carlaspearls.com/]   * Brene Brown - The Power of Vulnerability: https://brenebrown.com/ [https://brenebrown.com/]  Find Kat * Kat on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juleenbean/https://www.linkedin.com/in/katlogan/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/katlogan/]  * Kat’s Website: https://www.illuminatedcoach.com/ [https://www.illuminatedcoach.com/]  * Kat on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katlogan01 [https://www.instagram.com/katlogan01] More from Indra and The Messy Middle Matters * Indra on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/indrak/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/indrak/] * Indra’s Blog: https://peopleprocessthings.substack.com [https://peopleprocessthings.substack.com]   * The Messy Middle Matters on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themessymiddlematters/ [https://www.instagram.com/themessymiddlematters/] * Feedback for The Messy Middle Matters: https://messymiddlematters.com/feedback [https://messymiddlematters.com/feedback]  * The Messy Middle Matters Merch https://messymiddlemerch.com [https://messymiddlemerch.com]  Keywords Imposter Syndrome, Coaching, Mentorship, Women in Leadership, Self-Perception, Overcoming Doubt, Personal Growth, Authenticity, Social Conditioning, Professional Development Chapters 00:00 Understanding Imposter Syndrome 03:02 The Secret Memos and Social Conditioning 06:12 Reframing Imposter Syndrome 08:52 Tools and Practices for Overcoming Imposter Syndrome 11:46 The Role of Coaching and Mentorship 14:49 Navigating Client Expectations and Self-Perception 17:58 The Importance of Role Models 21:19 Raw to Roar: Embracing Authenticity 23:41 Finding Support and Resources 26:52 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Ep 50: The Messy Middle of Agency Life: Pressure, Subjectivity, and Survival w/ Kat Logan

In this conversation, Kat Logan joins Indra to explore the complexities of agency life, discussing the challenges and rewards of working in a dynamic environment. They delve into the impact of client culture, the revolving door of talent, and the importance of building community and support within agencies. The discussion highlights the nuances of navigating agency culture, managing uncertainty, and adapting to different styles while emphasizing the need for connection and collaboration among colleagues. The episode concludes with a teaser for the next topic on imposter syndrome.   Key Topics * Agency culture and personality influence * Impact of client and company culture * Revolving door of talent and team dynamics * Adapting to agency structure and leadership styles * Supporting each other in agency environments * Managing uncertainty and career stability * Networking and community building within agencies * Impacts of industry crises on agency work  Find Kat: * Kat on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juleenbean/https://www.linkedin.com/in/katlogan/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/katlogan/]  * Kat’s Website: https://www.illuminatedcoach.com/ [https://www.illuminatedcoach.com/]  * Kat on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katlogan01 [https://www.instagram.com/katlogan01] More from Indra and The Messy Middle Matters * Indra on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/indrak/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/indrak/] * Indra’s Blog: https://peopleprocessthings.substack.com [https://peopleprocessthings.substack.com]   * The Messy Middle Matters on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themessymiddlematters/ [https://www.instagram.com/themessymiddlematters/] * Feedback for The Messy Middle Matters: https://messymiddlematters.com/feedback [https://messymiddlematters.com/feedback]  * The Messy Middle Matters Merch https://messymiddlemerch.com [https://messymiddlemerch.com]  Keywords agency life, career development, networking, agency culture, leadership, adaptability, agency challenges, agency success, agency community, imposter syndrome

Ep 49: Listening to Your Inner Voice in a Noisy World w/ Jameelah Calhoun

In a world full of noise, expectations, and competing identities, how do we hear our inner voice? In this episode of The Messy Middle Matters, Indra sits down with Jameelah Calhoun, founder of Unpopular Decisions, to explore the courage it takes to choose alignment over conformity. Together, they unpack the difference between fear and intuition, regret versus consequences, and why comfort isn’t always safety. They also discuss the realities of responsibility, intersectionality, and privilege — and why listening to your inner voice doesn’t have to mean reckless abandon. Sometimes it’s about small acts of reclamation, play, and returning home to yourself. Takeaways * Your intuition is often immediate: yes, no, hell yes, hell no. Fear rationalizes. It builds a courtroom case. * What feels comfortable may slowly misalign you. * Growth often begins when comfort stops feeling safe. * Play reconnects us to identities we shed to “fit in.” * Not everyone has the same latitude to take bold risks. * You don’t know the identities, risks, or responsibilities someone carries. * Choosing alignment publicly can give others permission to do the same. * Sometimes what looks like instability is actually a return to self.  Follow Jameelah: * Jameelah on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juleenbean/https://www.linkedin.com/in/jameelah-calhoun/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/jameelah-calhoun/] * Unpopular Decisions Website: https://www.unpopulardecisions.com/ [https://www.unpopulardecisions.com/] * Jameelah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unpopulardecisionspod/ [https://www.instagram.com/unpopulardecisionspod/]  More from Indra and The Messy Middle Matters * Indra on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/indrak/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/indrak/] * Indra’s Blog: https://peopleprocessthings.substack.com [https://peopleprocessthings.substack.com]   * The Messy Middle Matters on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themessymiddlematters/ [https://www.instagram.com/themessymiddlematters/] * Feedback for The Messy Middle Matters: https://messymiddlematters.com/feedback [https://messymiddlematters.com/feedback] * The Messy Middle Matters Merch https://messymiddlemerch.com [https://messymiddlemerch.com]