The Pearls and Perils

Toxic Mothers, Performative Sisterhood and International Women's Month

In this episode, Peta-Kay celebrates International Women's Month by reflecting on the achievements of inspiring women, societal changes, and personal growth. She discusses the importance of authenticity on social media, the impact of upbringing and culture, and explores the complex dynamics of toxic motherhood. If you have a dilemma (peril) that you'd like to share anonymously email: ⁠info@pearlsandperils.com⁠ or send a direct message to @⁠yourfinancept⁠ on Instagram. Book a Finance coaching session with me: ⁠⁠https://www.pearlsandperils.com⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa3dSTzFWU3Q4eWtNaExHanRja2hfeDYtZlFQd3xBQ3Jtc0ttb1RsaWRUcEtaOVZyYkVfSTJrZ0JZRE5mVmIxM0I0QTZZbGxTYU4zQWdIV0M1UTE0VlhxREdDN25KeGFvWTd5U2lrTEVSdWdNT1ZhRFRpczhtOFBtU2tLaHhLT01LWW8tSmhySkJFbE16SGFqZmJxcw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pearlsandperils.com%2F&v=3yBCPh4L8LE] You can stay connected with me on social media at:Instagram: @yourfinanceptTiktok: @yourfinancept Grab a copy of my Finance & Budgeting tracker:⁠⁠https://www.pearlsandperils.com/shop⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbjNWbGNIemp4Z3ZwcFpnV1ZiZlpnRXhNZnhXd3xBQ3Jtc0tsQzh5RVpqSjZmaEJwdVUzNEY4RHhfRDNTTVR3aEhTdVdhZkRGcTYyMVN3cjVMRWlrbU1DNEg2OGhTYXhqcEtET1JfWFU0eGd1Z0Q5MWJBYV9sQURheWZicUk4QktaMzQtTVB6QjlHbXVwTGloakFrWQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pearlsandperils.com%2Fshop&v=3yBCPh4L8LE]

Unsubscribing from the Strong Woman Narrative and the Power of Community

In this episode of the Pearls and Perils, Peta-Kay shares a personal life update, lessons learned from navigating challenges, and insights on vulnerability, community, and being a safe place in your relationships. She discusses the importance of letting go of the 'strong woman' narrative and embracing support from your community. If you have a dilemma (peril) that you'd like to share anonymously email: ⁠info@pearlsandperils.com⁠ or send a direct message to @⁠yourfinancept⁠ on Instagram. Book a Finance coaching session with me: ⁠https://www.pearlsandperils.com⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa3dSTzFWU3Q4eWtNaExHanRja2hfeDYtZlFQd3xBQ3Jtc0ttb1RsaWRUcEtaOVZyYkVfSTJrZ0JZRE5mVmIxM0I0QTZZbGxTYU4zQWdIV0M1UTE0VlhxREdDN25KeGFvWTd5U2lrTEVSdWdNT1ZhRFRpczhtOFBtU2tLaHhLT01LWW8tSmhySkJFbE16SGFqZmJxcw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pearlsandperils.com%2F&v=3yBCPh4L8LE] You can stay connected with me on social media at:Instagram: @yourfinanceptTiktok: @yourfinancept Grab a copy of my Finance & Budgeting tracker:⁠https://www.pearlsandperils.com/shop [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbjNWbGNIemp4Z3ZwcFpnV1ZiZlpnRXhNZnhXd3xBQ3Jtc0tsQzh5RVpqSjZmaEJwdVUzNEY4RHhfRDNTTVR3aEhTdVdhZkRGcTYyMVN3cjVMRWlrbU1DNEg2OGhTYXhqcEtET1JfWFU0eGd1Z0Q5MWJBYV9sQURheWZicUk4QktaMzQtTVB6QjlHbXVwTGloakFrWQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pearlsandperils.com%2Fshop&v=3yBCPh4L8LE]

Before You Say “I Do”: Things to Consider when Choosing your Spouse

In this episode of the Pearls and Perils, Peta-Kay shares her personal journey of marriage from getting married at 23, the lessons learned and advice for those considering marriage. She explores key aspects and areas of compatibility to consider when choosing a spouse. If you have a dilemma (peril) that you'd like to share anonymously email: ⁠info@pearlsandperils.com⁠ or send a direct message to @⁠yourfinancept⁠ on Instagram.Book a Finance coaching session with me: https://www.pearlsandperils.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa3dSTzFWU3Q4eWtNaExHanRja2hfeDYtZlFQd3xBQ3Jtc0ttb1RsaWRUcEtaOVZyYkVfSTJrZ0JZRE5mVmIxM0I0QTZZbGxTYU4zQWdIV0M1UTE0VlhxREdDN25KeGFvWTd5U2lrTEVSdWdNT1ZhRFRpczhtOFBtU2tLaHhLT01LWW8tSmhySkJFbE16SGFqZmJxcw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pearlsandperils.com%2F&v=3yBCPh4L8LE]You can stay connected with me on social media at:Instagram: @yourfinanceptTiktok: @yourfinanceptGrab a copy of my Finance & Budgeting tracker:https://www.pearlsandperils.com/shop [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbjNWbGNIemp4Z3ZwcFpnV1ZiZlpnRXhNZnhXd3xBQ3Jtc0tsQzh5RVpqSjZmaEJwdVUzNEY4RHhfRDNTTVR3aEhTdVdhZkRGcTYyMVN3cjVMRWlrbU1DNEg2OGhTYXhqcEtET1JfWFU0eGd1Z0Q5MWJBYV9sQURheWZicUk4QktaMzQtTVB6QjlHbXVwTGloakFrWQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pearlsandperils.com%2Fshop&v=3yBCPh4L8LE]

Is Social Media stealing our joy? Galentines & Hormones in your 30s

In this episode Peta-Kay explores social media and whether it is stealing our joy, she shares her experience hosting her Galentine's event and candidly discusses changes she's noticed in hormones since turning 30. She also shares a special announcement. Join the Patreon community for exclusive bonus episodes & community: https://patreon.com/PearlsandPerils Book a Finance coaching session with me: https://www.pearlsandperils.com You can stay connected with me on social media at Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourfinancept Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourfinancept Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@pearlsandperils Grab a copy of my Finance & Budgeting tracker:https://www.pearlsandperils.com/shop

The Weight of Being the Strong One, Investing for Women and January Recap

In this episode of Pearls and Perils, Peta-Kay reflects on the lessons that shaped her January, from celebrating her birthday to navigating the realities of planning an event. She opens up about the emotional and logistical challenges of event planning, the pressure of always being “the strong one”. Peta-Kay dives into why financial literacy is critical for women, the importance of stability in entrepreneurship, and the very real impact of the gender gap in retirement. Throughout the episode, she shares candid insights on being intentional with time and money, learning from setbacks, and cultivating the kind of bold, “delusional” faith required to pursue big goals, even when things feel uncertain. If you have a dilemma (peril) that you'd like to share anonymously email: ⁠info@pearlsandperils.com⁠ or send a direct message to @⁠yourfinancept⁠ on Instagram. Book a Finance coaching session with me: https://www.pearlsandperils.com You can stay connected with me on social media at Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourfinancept Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourfinancept Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@pearlsandperils Grab a copy of my Finance & Budgeting tracker:https://www.pearlsandperils.com/shop Chapters 00:00 Welcome Back to Pearls and Perils 01:00 Reflections on January and Birthday Traditions 02:52 Planning Events and the Stress of Coordination 05:56 The Importance of Financial Stability and Investing 08:43 The Weight of Being the Strong One 11:27 Lessons from Event Planning and Ticket Sales 16:15 Empowering Women to Invest 18:49 The Gender Gap in Retirement 21:31 The Power of a Delusional Mindset 24:03 Looking Ahead: February and Future Plans