This is Why We’re Late

Summer Scaries

When the chaos of summer looms and your house feels like a full-blown circus, this episode is your survival guide—minus the clown costumes. Grace and Daniel navigate the wild ride of balancing work, kids, and the endless summer bucket list that makes you wish for a vacation from summer itself.Ever wonder how to keep six kids entertained without losing your mind? We break down their epic “summer bucket list” that includes everything from sleep-under experiments to lemonade stands with a side of sibling negotiations. Spoiler: there's no hamster in sight, but there is a hilarious debate about boy chores vs. girl chores, and a detailed critique of the latest popular camp prices that’ll make your wallet sweat.You'll discover: * The insider secrets to unplugging and trusting your kids with mall adventures and slime-free assignments * Creative strategies to dodge the summer slump—because yes, Kumon isn’t just a fancy word for “never-ending homework” * How working from home transforms summer chaos into family adventures, and why dad’s push to get a pet hamster might be the greatest mock trial ever * Plus, Daniel’s bold take on trash Jenga and the secret to surviving toddler animal attacks—all served with a hearty side of humor This episode isn’t just for busy parents—it's a hilarious, relatable escape hatch for anyone living through the “I-have-no-idea-how-we’ll-do-it” summer chaos. Essential listening if your house is about to turn into a beach resort or a full-blown comedy show. Get ready to embrace the chaos, laugh at the madness, and learn how to turn summer from a stress-fest into an epic adventure—because if they’re going to fight over the backseat, it might as well be while hanging out with you.Perfect for tired parents, summer planners, or anyone who’s ever wondered what the heck they’re doing when the kids are home 72 days straight. Hit play now—your sanity can wait.

The Surprising Way Life Keeps Pausing Our Podcast (And Why We Love It)

Most parents will tell you they’re experts at being late—which means we’re basically professional chaos coordinators. But behind the casual “we’re just a little behind” lie weeks full of busy kids, lost keys, and life doing its best to throw us off course. In this episode, Grace and Daniel finally sit down after a whirlwind five-week break, spilling the real behind-the-scenes on their crazy, beautiful journey — including motherhood, marriage, and the chaos that keeps their family running. They break down the art of balancing work, family, and a full calendar without losing your mind (or your marbles). You'll discover: how they navigate busy football seasons at 5 p.m. games, the honest truth about sleep deprivation, and the surprisingly profound lessons they’ve learned about raising resilient, compassionate kids. Plus, get a sneak peek into their hilarious Hawaiian adventure and what the future holds for their growing crew—spoiler: it involves lots of love, a big family, and maybe a few more trips to the fridge for Diet Coke.

Surviving Spring Break

Spring Break sounded like a dream… until reality packed its bags too. In this episode of This Is Why We’re Late, we’re taking you along for the wild ride of traveling across the country with four kids in tow. From packing for a family of six (how is it possible to need this much stuff for one week?!) to navigating time zone changes and keeping a one-year-old entertained on a five-hour flight—we’re in the thick of it. We also share the surprisingly sweet side of the trip: a place where kids run free until sunset, neighbors actually say hello, and life feels just a little bit slower (and kinder). But don’t worry—it wouldn’t be our story without a little chaos. We’re talking about the flight home from hell, complete with a sick toddler and two very tired parents just trying to survive the day. At the end of it all, we love traveling with our kids… but let’s be honest—calling it a “vacation” feels like a stretch. This was a full-on work trip. Tune in for the laughs, the real talk, and the reminder that sometimes just making it home is the biggest win. ✈️

Marriage Maintenance Episode

Podcast: This Is Why We’re Late Episode Title: Keeping the Spark Alive (Even When the Kids Won’t Go to Bed) In this episode of This Is Why We’re Late, we’re diving into one of the biggest challenges couples face after kids enter the picture—how to keep the romance alive when life is busy, loud, and exhausting. Between school drop-offs, bedtime routines, and everything in between, it can be easy for marriage to move to the back burner. But we believe it doesn’t have to. We talk about taking the Five Love Languages test and how the way we give and receive love can shift over time—especially as seasons of life change. What made you feel loved when you were newly married might look completely different after years of parenting together. We also get real about what it means to show up for each other when you’re tired. Marriage after kids isn’t always candlelight dinners and grand gestures—it’s often the small, intentional moments that keep the connection strong. One of the practical things that has helped us is our 2-2-2 rule: * A date night every 2 weeks * A quick getaway every 2 months * A longer vacation every 2 years We share how we try to make this work in real life, why prioritizing time together matters, and how scheduling connection can actually protect spontaneity in the long run. Most importantly, we talk about how marriage isn’t meant to stay the same—it’s meant to grow, evolve, and deepen over time. The goal isn’t just to survive the busy seasons of parenting, but to keep discovering new ways to love and support each other along the way. If you’ve ever wondered how to keep your relationship strong while raising kids, this conversation is for you. Because sometimes the reason we’re late… is that we’re still figuring out life, love, and marriage together. ❤️

Discipline...Minus the Drama

In this episode of This is Why We’re Late, we dive into the messy, humbling, and sometimes hilarious world of disciplining our kids—without all the extra drama. We share a bit about the homes we grew up in: loud, busy households full of sibling fights, questionable decisions, and the occasional time we got away with things we probably shouldn’t have. Those experiences shaped the way we parent today, for better or worse. We talk honestly about the challenge of staying calm and keeping your cool—even when your kids definitely aren’t. From the differences in parenting boys vs. girls to the daily need for forgiveness and repair in our own home, this conversation is a reminder that parenting rarely goes perfectly. We discuss the grace parents need for their kids—and for themselves—because every parent misses the mark sometimes. But at the heart of it all, we come back to this: disciplining our children is a vital and loving part of parenting and childhood. It doesn’t have to be loud or dramatic, but it does have to be intentional.