This isn't in the handbook

Caitlin: ADHD, a Late Diagnosis, and the Manual I Never Got

In this episode of This Isn’t in the Handbook, we are hanging out with Caitlin, a tutor assistant who’s not just helping others, she’s figuring out her own brain along the way. Diagnosed with ADHD in mid 20s, Caitlin’s here to share what it’s been like to grow up feeling like she didn’t fit the mould, and how she’s learning to embrace who she really is.  Caitlin talks about her journey of navigating ADHD and the ongoing process of getting assessed for autism. It’s not all neat or solved, but it’s real, sometimes messy, sometimes enlightening. From burning out to unmasking, Caitlin opens up about how she’s been learning to show up for herself, even when life feels like it’s coming without a manual.  This episode is all about the raw moments, the unexpected discoveries, and the courage to keep moving forward when the answers aren’t clear yet. If you’ve ever felt like you're a little different, or you’re still figuring out what makes you you, this one’s for you. Let’s dive into real talk about ADHD, self-discovery, and living in a world that wasn’t built for us.

Julie & Pat - Parenting without a Map (Part 2)

The journey continues! In Part 2, Julie and Pat get real about the battles behind the scenes. Fighting for the right education, navigating the maze of social care, and pushing to make sure their son gets the support he deserves.  It’s a raw and honest look at the grit and determination families need when the system feels like an uphill climb. Plus, they share their hopes and fears for the future, how they’re planning ahead when there’s no clear map, just love and resilience leading the way.  Tune in for a powerful follow-up packed with heart, insight, and the kind of stories that don’t make it into any handbook.  You won’t want to miss this.

Julie & Pat - Parenting without a Map (Part 1)

When you already raised one child, you think you know the route. But what do you do when parenting takes you down a completely different route? In this episode, we are joined by Julie and Pat, parents to a young autistic adult with Learning Disabilities, as they share how parenting the second time around came with no handbook (and definitely no sat nav). They talk us through their journey, from the early signs and diagnosis, through the world of EHCPs, education choices, adult education and the complicated world of social care. Julie and Pat open up about the learning curve, the roadblocks, and the unexpected turns that shaped their journey. Don't miss Part 1 of this real-life chat filled with insight, empathy, and the kind of perspective you only gain when the parenting path is not what you planned,  but ends up being just as meaningful.  And of course, it includes all the bits no one puts in the handbook.

Welcome to This isn't in the handbook!

This Isn’t in the Handbook is the podcast where we ask the awkward, honest, important stuff no one else will. Autism, behaviours of concern, learning disabilities...we’re diving into it all with real talk from people who live it, work in it, and try to change the system. There's no manual, so we created a podcast! Hosted by Sara and Scott, produced and edited by Andi, plus student voices from Mercury College. Real people, real stories, big conversations. You're welcome! A new kind of conversation is on its way. Real stories. Honest voices. Perspectives that matter. "This isn’t in the Handbook" is more than a podcast - it’s a platform for truth, lived experience, and meaningful change.