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Successful Women Appearing Normal: Inside the SWAN Experience with Stevie Blum

Hello! In this seriously helpful episode, I sit down with therapist Stevie Blum for a conversation that will feel deeply familiar to anyone who looks like they have it together on the outside, but feels completely overwhelmed on the inside. Stevie works with high-functioning women who are capable, successful, and seemingly calm - but internally are stuck in cycles of overthinking, self-doubt, and constant mental pressure. She introduces the concept of the "SWAN" (Successful Women Appearing Normal), and explains why so many women today are quietly exhausted from living in their heads. Together we unpack the gap between awareness and actual change, why traditional therapy can sometimes leave us feeling stuck, and what's really happening in the brain when we spiral. Stevie shares practical, tangible tools to help interrupt anxious thought patterns, move out of analysis into action, and build real self-trust. We also get into jealousy and comparison as signals rather than flaws, how to stop judging your emotions, and what it looks like to create your own "Personal Operating Manual" for a calmer, more aligned life. Thank you so much Stevie!  This episode is brought to you by Alice + Olivia and Sam Edelman. * Exclusively for With Whit listeners, you can get 15% off everything from new arrivals to best sellers by visiting aliceandolivia.com/whit [http://aliceandolivia.com/whit] * Visit Samedelman.com [http://samedelman.com/] to explore everything you need for spring and get 15% off with code WITHWHIT15. This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media [https://dearmedia.com/] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

Courting The Next Era Of Tennis Style with Courtney Kelly

Today, I have the pleasure of sitting down with Courtney Kelly, founder of Courting - a tennis-inspired brand rooted in nostalgia, community, and seriously good style. What started as an idea for a tennis themed coffee shop (and even a matchmaking app) evolved into a full collection that blends performance, functionality, and fashion in the coolest way. We talk about the real story behind Courting - from growing up around tennis in the 90s to reimagining what the sport looks and feels like today. Courtney shares what it actually takes to build a brand from the ground up: trademarking your idea, pushing through endless design iterations, and learning when to trust your instincts. We also get into starting something new later in your career, navigating stability vs. risk, and letting go of the idea that there's a "right" timeline for success. Plus, a behind the scenes look at what it's been like working together on the collection, and why tension, honestly, and creative trust are the magic ingredients. Courting is about more than just tennis fashion, it's about community, self-expression, and doing something because you genuinely love it.  This episode is brought to you by Alice + Olivia, Sam Edelman, and Jones Road Beauty.  * Exclusively for With Whit listeners, you can get 15% off everything from new arrivals to best sellers by visiting aliceandolivia.com/whit [http://aliceandolivia.com/whit] * Visit Samedelman.com [http://Samedelman.com] to explore everything you need for spring and get 15% off with code WITHWHIT15. * For a limited time our listeners are getting a free Jones Road Beauty Shimmer Face Oil on their first purchase, just head to jonesroadbeauty.com [http://jonesroadbeauty.com] and use code WITHWHIT at checkout. This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media [https://dearmedia.com/] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

True Anxiety Vs. False Anxiety with Dr. Ellen Vora

Today we are revisiting a powerful conversation from the With Whit archives with holistic psychiatrist Dr. Ellen Vora that still deeply resonates. In it, Dr. Vora unpacks the difference between "true" and "false" anxiety and how our bodies often hold the clues to what we're feeling. We get into how physical imbalances like sleep, hormones, and blood sugar can affect our mental health, and how learning to listen to our bodies can help us respond with more clarity and compassion. With so many of us navigating stress and uncertainty, this conversation feels more relevant than ever- and the perfect time to revisit.  This episode is brought to you by HERS and Sam Edelman.  * It’s time you get the support that actually reflects your needs. Start your free intake at ForHers.com [http://forhers.com/] * Time to refresh for spring, visit samedelman.com [http://samedelman.com/] to explore everything you need for spring and get 15% off with code WITHWHIT15 This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media [https://dearmedia.com/] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

Date Night: Can We Just Be 8 Years Old Again?

Hello hello, we are here. We are swamped with things, crazed, and late on our episode, but we are here and doing the best we can. What's been going on with us? We get into all of it. Plus, our thoughts on what we've been watching - Love Story, more weekly Timothee Chalamet commentary, debating whether or not we want to go to the Elton John Oscars After Party, the goodness of French onion soup, and lots more from the Port-Rosenman Kitchen Table Chronicles. PS. Timmy has 24 Hours to let me know if you want to come to the Elton John After Party with me. Thank you for being here with us! This episode is brought to you by HERS and Sam Edelman.   * It’s time you get the support that actually reflects your needs. Start your free intake at ForHers.com [http://forhers.com/] * Time to refresh for spring, visit samedelman.com [http://samedelman.com/] to explore everything you need for spring and get 15% off with code WITHWHIT15 This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media [https://dearmedia.com/] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

Spacious Enough To Hold It All: It's Been A Heavier Week, Let's Solo

This week felt heavy, not catastrophic, not dramatic, just layered. I'm sharing about our recent surrogate embryo transfer and finding out it didn't take. Even when you know the statistics, hope quietly builds a future in the back of your mind, and each time that future dissolves, the grief is real. I talk about what it feels like to move through disappointment when your life is objectively full and beautiful, and how gratitude and grief can sit side by side without canceling each other out. I also get into the complicated tension of ambition and motherhood. Missing a camping trip with Sonny and Timmy. Launching new projects. Turning 41. Wondering how I want to be remembered - as ambitious, present, steady, joyful? Can you be all of them at once? This episode is really about capacity and how much we can hold. Absence and abundance. Career momentum and family tenderness. Disappointment and deep gratitude. Maybe adulthood isn't about resolving the contradictions. Maybe it's about becoming spacious enough to carry them.  This episode is brought to you by HERS and The RealReal.  * It’s time you get the support that actually reflects your needs. Start your free intake at ForHers.com [http://forhers.com/] * The RealReal is the most trusted name in authenticated luxury resale, start shopping now at therealreal.com/whit [http://therealreal.com/whit] and get $25 off your first purchase. This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media [https://dearmedia.com/] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].