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Disconnected Husband? Try This Experiment

Is your husband distant and disconnected when he comes home at the end of the day? Do you know the one thing that can instantly change the atmosphere between you and your husband? It’s so simple you’ll wonder why no one ever suggested it. This solution takes only 10 seconds, can change the mood in your home almost instantly, and has the power to create a lasting impact. The goal of this 3-step experiment is to shift the mood — both yours and his — in 10 seconds or less. A Fresh Perspective ► https://DrDebiSmith.com [https://DrDebiSmith.com] Disclaimer: The information shared on this channel is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This content is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves here as a marriage educator and couples coach. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage to help husbands and wives better understand—and love one another—in everyday life.

What Does a Good Husband Want from His Wife?

What does a husband really want from his wife? A man may not say this out loud. In fact, he may not even consciously articulate it to himself. But his efforts are not random. They are directional. They are aimed at one primary relational outcome: He wants to know that what he does matters — that he matters to her. And he wants to be wanted. A Fresh Perspective ► https://DrDebiSmith.com [https://DrDebiSmith.com] Disclaimer: The information shared on this channel is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This content is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves here as a marriage educator and couples coach. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage to help husbands and wives better understand—and love one another—in everyday life.

Making Sense of a Husband's Behavior

A woman is often confused by her husband’s behavior. This is especially true when they’re not getting along. When she can’t understand why he does what he does instead of what she thinks he should do, she’s overlooking the fact that he is different from her by design. When she interprets his behavior using the correct framework, she can easily identify why he is doing what he is doing. If she understand his motivation to fulfill these four purposes, then what he does actually makes perfect sense. Through the process of nature and nurture, a man learned how to fulfill four purposes: to protect, to provide, to problem-solve, and to please. He is passionate about each one — first, because he cares — and second, because he feels responsible. A man’s sense of duty is so powerful, in fact, that he will keep working toward these purposes in the absence of any acknowledgement or reward. Of course, he carries a secret hope that his wife will notice. A Fresh Perspective ► https://DrDebiSmith.com [https://DrDebiSmith.com] Disclaimer: The information shared on this channel is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This content is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves here as a marriage educator and couples coach. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage to help husbands and wives better understand—and love one another—in everyday life.

The Making of a Man: Nature and Nurture

There's real wonder in a man, not because he's flawless, but because he has an amazingly intricate design. In this first episode in the series "The Wonder of a Man," Dr. Debi explores his biological foundation and the upbringing that shaped his emotional expression ... and more.   Discover the intricate design of masculinity and how understanding it prevents marital confusion. It all began with his emotional wiring, his nature, the biological foundations of who he is. Then he was shaped through nurture — based on his biological design — so that he grew from a boy to a man.  A Fresh Perspective ► https://DrDebiSmith.com [https://DrDebiSmith.com] Disclaimer: The information shared on this channel is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This content is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves here as a marriage educator and couples coach. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage to help husbands and wives better understand—and love one another—in everyday life.

The Marriage Trap: Where to Begin When It Seems You Can't Win

If you're feeling trapped in your marriage, and nothing you've tried has worked, chances are it's not due to a lack of effort. Most couples have tried everything they can think of to fix their marriage. They've read books, attended seminars, gone on retreats, and tried counseling. But nothing has changed. In many ways, it feels like it's only getting worse. If that describes your situation, the problem definitely isn’t a lack of effort. The problem is that one essential piece of the puzzle has been missing. Get a Fresh Perspective on Marriage ► https://DrDebiSmith.com [https://DrDebiSmith.com] Disclaimer: The information shared on this channel is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical advice. This content is not therapy, and participation does not establish a therapist–client relationship. Although Dr. Debi Smith is a psychologist by training, she serves here as a marriage educator and couples coach. She teaches the Psychology of Men, Women, and Marriage to help husbands and wives better understand—and love one another—in everyday life.