Proverbs 21:5 | Biblical Goal Setting
The Word – Setting Goals
It's typical in this season, this New Year that we have resolutions. We have resolutions for health – for wealth or some other important milestone in our life.
In a survey by people that survey such things … 31% of survey participants plan on making resolutions for 2021 while 19% are still undecided. Seems like they should resolve to make up their minds.
Of those that made a resolution in 2020, 35% kept all their resolutions, 49% kept some of their resolutions, and only 16% failed at keeping any of their resolutions.
According to an Inc. study of 2,000 people, these are the 5 most common resolutions that were made in 2019.
1. Exercise more
2. Eat healthier
3. Save Money
4. Learn a new skill
5. Quit smoking
Every year the number one resolution stays the same – Exercise more. According to statistics, more than 12% of new gym memberships start in January. During January, Google searches for health and fitness peak. That’s fantastic – that’s awesome right?
Well not so fast – statistics also say that out of those new January-joining members, 80% will quit within five months and 14% quit before the end of
February. Yikes – that’s crazy if you’re a gym owner and even worse if you are one of the ones that quit.
But take heart - this isn’t a podcast on joining gyms or making new year’s resolutions – This is a podcast about real change – from a biblical perspective…. Think of it this way resolutions are things you tell yourself – and work on for yourself with little to no help from anyone. Goals on the other hand are things you commit to. I think as Christians we sometimes fail at our resolutions because we have the wrong perspective on this tradition. You see, resolutions are statements of intention, while goals are statements of commitment. Resolutions are often vague like “I will get in shape” or “I will be more productive.” Resolutions also tend to aim for extreme changes—I will stop overspending— or I will lose 30lbs by April – this creates an intimidating gap between where you are and where you want to be with no actionable steps. This is like having two pieces of bread with nothing in the middle and trying to call it a sandwich -- This is also why 80% of New Year’s resolutions fail. I like to think of it as resolutions being secular while Goals are something God desires of us. Resolutions are great intentions, but goal setting is biblical.
Just Listen to some of what the Bible has to say on Setting Goals: Proverbs 21:5
The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty.
Philippians 3:14 – In Paul’s letter to the church at Philippi, he wrote: I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Luke 13:32
He replied, “Go tell that fox, ‘I will drive out demons and heal people today and tomorrow, and on the third day I will reach my goal.’ In this Christ is referring to Herod as a fox.
Goal setting was a part of Christ’s thinking. First and foremost, His goal was to do the will of His heavenly Father. This is the goal that got Him out of bed in the morning. It was a joint mission with the Holy Spirit. His goal was also to serve the people. He cast out demons, healed, and taught. Jesus was a focused individual with specific goals in mind.
God has a lot to say about goals and intentional planning, heck, even Jesus had goals. God desires for us to live on purpose, not by accident. Living on purpose is intentional and …. It’s easier done when you have goals.
Do you know what's so wonderful about God? Well - A lot of things actually but perhaps most important is that He wants to partner with you in your life – He wants to do life hand in hand with you! When you feel lost in your goals and purpose, when you’re not sure which path to take or what goals to choose, He wants you to ask Him for help—and he loves giving it!
James tells us, 'If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him" (James 1:5 ESV)
Even with the best-laid plans—the best written out goals you could think of— we still need God’s help. We can’t achieve our goals with our power alone. It’s just not possible. Thankfully, God didn’t design us to do it on our own.
If you’ve lived long enough you know that as flawed creatures, we can imagine some pretty crazy things and by extension we could come up with some pretty outrageous goals. So, to think that God can do far more than what we can imagine is utterly amazing, and exciting, and a gift for goal setters!
God backs up this theory by giving us true stories in his Word about how he did God-sized things through ordinary people.
• Joseph: A dreamer that was sold into slavery who was put in charge of all of Egypt. (Genesis 41)
• Moses: A man slow of speech and tongue who was used to stand up against one of the most powerful rulers of his day. (Exodus 4) • Saul: A persecutor of Christians who became one of the greatest missionaries of all time. God even changed his name!
• Mary: A young girl from a town called Nazareth who gave birth to the savior of the world. (Luke 1)
The Bible is filled with stories like these—stories where ordinary people, just like you, end up being used by God in astonishing stories of life change. Nothing is impossible with God!
Do you know what this means? This means you can dream God-sized dreams. You can set God-sized goals. You can do this only because God can do anything, and only because we can call on His power when ours begins to fail.
Think of all of the times you made a commitment to stick to a new diet or were excited about New Year’s resolutions—only to never see them realized. Those are the times when God’s power and help can make your goals reality.
God is absolutely in the business of changing lives. He can take ordinary people and do exceedingly abundant, remarkable and extraordinary things. By trusting in God’s power to help you change and not in your willpower alone, great things can happen. And you know what that means? It’s your permission slip from God to go ahead and dream big. Go ahead and set God-sized goals. God can make changes in your life that you never imagined possible.
All we humans can do is believe that reaching goals in God's eyes is not like reaching goals to the rest of us. No matter if every one of our senses warns us we are not getting anywhere, we don't have to worry or try to measure our progress against man-made deadlines. All we have to do is make sure we are doing whatever God wants us to do right this minute. He will take care of our direction and keep us on the path to His success, His way, in His timing. We can trust God because His thoughts are greater than our thoughts, and His infinite ways are beyond our finite ways.
So, go ahead and set your big goals! Then, talk them over with your heavenly father. Pray on them with Him and listen to His guidance, hear His goals for your life and then work together to achieve them!
The Weapon
Instead of making resolutions, setting measurable goals is more likely to lead to success in seeing your hopes and dreams come to fruition. Want to increase the chances of seeing your dreams become reality? Here are five goal-setting tips that will get you started on your journey towards reaching your goals.
Write your goals:
Remember, these are your goals. They have to be what you want to do. Pick goals you want to accomplish the most. Believe it or not, you won’t just fall into a “routine” with your new goals. Achieving goals involves deviating from the daily monotony, stepping outside of your comfort zone, and challenging yourself. Writing down your goals allows you to free up some of that mental clutter so that you can visualize those things that you want to achieve. Also, tracking your progress by checking things off will give you a sense of accomplishment, motivating you to keep going.
Write actions steps:
We can have goals, but we need to know how to move forward. Write down an action you can take this week that will move you forward in accomplishing each of those two goals.
Find someone who will hold you accountable:
You want the following in a person who is going to hold you accountable:
• Someone who is trustworthy.
• Someone who has your best interests at heart.
• Someone who isn’t going to be afraid to ask you how you’re doing. • Someone who isn’t going to let you off the hook when you aren’t getting the job done.
• Someone who is still going to support you, even when you falter. • Someone who is going to be encouraging as you pursue your goals. • Someone who you will actually listen to when they ask you about your goals and remind you of your commitments.
Make your Goals SMART!:
SMART Goals require that goals are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and Time-bound. While this model is great for goals, it lacks the God component that I think is very important in achieving goals. So, here’s another option for SMART goals that might feel a bit better for those who prefer to put the focus back on God.
Specific – We’ve got to be able to understand exactly what the goal is. “I want to be a better person,” is not specific. What do you mean by “better person?” Keep in mind that goals are designed to help show you the way, especially with God’s guidance. It’s nice to know that we’re not alone in the process. As Christians, we are blessed with access to the guidance and support of the greatest power in the universe
Measurable (or meaningful) – We need to be able to measure progress. How do we know we’re moving forward if we can’t measure? That’s another reason why we say your goals should be specific. When it comes to meaningful goal setting, praying is the best way to jump-start the process. By setting SMART
goals in the context of prayer, there’s a much greater likelihood that they will be meaningful and glorify God as well.
Attainable – attainable by you - “I want to go out with Taylor,” also depends on Taylor. Therefore, the goal is not attainable by your own efforts. Caveat: if this is God led (and your goals should be) and it requires God to intervene, that’s fine – as long as you’re sure this is God’s leading and not your own. Trust that God will provide what is needed in His perfect timing. If you’re anything like me, you want a perfect plan with infinite resources and a schedule that is right on track. Ha! I make plans, but God makes better ones. I learned a long time ago to stop asking God for what I want and I started asking God what He wants for me – and then I do that – it’s a lot easier that way.
Realistic – The goal should be something you’re capable of doing. I’m almost 50 years old – the likelihood of me dunking a basketball or playing football for the Patriots is long past. So a goal of “being an inside linebacker for the Patriots” is not a realistic goal. Maybe more important for the Christian here is that we set Relevant Goals and set them with purpose - Setting relevant goals that have purpose will help you develop the focus necessary to achieve your SMART goals. Ask yourself How is the goal relevant to the purpose and gifts God has blessed you with?
Time-Based – There should be some component of time to your goal – a clock to completion. But be cautious that you aren’t setting a grossly unachievable timeline as well as making sure you aren’t setting a timeline that is only of you and not aligned with God’s desires. Submit to His will and time frame. He may want things done earlier or later than you planned. Be patient and have faith that if it is truly meant to happen, it will when the time is right.
Remember: in all of our goal setting and prayers we are more successful when we are being Humble, Specific, Persistent, and Expectant.
And as a last thought - Avoid comparisons
When you are working towards improving your life, it is common to compare yourself to other people. Your perception is that they are superior to you, or more privileged in some way. Social media certainly doesn’t help; your ‘news feed’ overflows with announcements of your friends’ new love interests, weight loss, and new jobs, quickly turning you into a green-eyed monster. Jealousy is easy to get into if you aren’t guarded or protected against it. How does this serve you, exactly? It doesn’t. When you compare yourself to others,
you rob yourself of time you could be spending on your own self improvement. It is also important to keep in mind that everyone’s journey is different; although we have similar destinations, our paths are often quite different. Follow your own path.
Goal setting is your biggest weapon against complacency and failing at resolutions. Be intentional and show up every day in expectation of crushing your goals.
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