Sapphic Sanctuary

This episode is an invitation to begin contemplating what you sapphic life could look like. the future can feel foggy for anyone but especially if you are contemplating coming out as gay. there is a lot of expectations that society places on us starting with all the rules we have been taught about gender.

My ex boyfriend came at the perfect time. He helped me in so many ways but the relationship was definitely a struggle.  In this episode I  give insight into: 1. Why I was able to date him for as long as I did. 2. What was going on in my life that made me more likely to date a man. 3. How that relationship eventually fizzled out. 4. My thoughts on if you need to have the I'm gay talk with you significant other.

The best part of coming through people pleasing is finding that core part of you. Discovering your real truthful personality and getting to meet yourself feels so lovely.  This episode is pretty reflective. I share a lot about my personal experiences with people pleasing, anxiety and how it played into my late bloomer story. Moving through this taught me two things: 1. that part of you that is willing to do whatever it takes to make someone happy is just trying to protect you  2.The best part of coming through people pleasing is finding that core part of you.  I will send you a pile of virtual confetti for saying no to someone this week! Email me @thedreamandbloom@gmail.com

Your emotions may be everywhere but that doesn't mean what you're doing is wrong or bad. its important  look for the parts  of your life that you can do the same. Doing so will help you navigate your emotional ups and downs. Make sure you are actively finding ways to comforting yourself.  Send in your questions or your story to help the community grow. we can do this together and your thoughts will likely help the next person. thdreamandbloom@gmail.com Sending you all my love and encouragement

This is the episode to listen to if you are feeling really freaked out and stuck in your life. I go into the three  stages late blooming Sapphic women go through when they are in the closet. From denial to Creating a plan it's all covered. Hey my loves send me a email with your story. Its going to take all of us to help each other your story could be the thing that really helps someone heal! thedreamandbloom@gmail.com the best way to support this podcast is to leave a review :)