Mark 3:20-35 Doubt, Blasphemy, and Forgiveness
Recap: Last week we saw the humanity of Christ under the pressure of growing crowds and demands on him. Jesus called the 12 apostles who were with Christ as a blessing to Jesus and to us today. Christ the cornerstone, they, by the power of the Holy Spirit, are the foundations of the church. Giving us the complete bible by which we can know and love Jesus.
Today we are going to see Jesus’ confrontation with his family, his call to submit our will, our loves to God above all others, and a severe warning to the pharisees hard hearted reaction to him, these three paragraphs are what is often called a “Markan Sandwich” meaning Jesus’ dealing with his family (a case of unbelief, of struggling to believe in Jesus) frames either side of the hard-hearted, blasphemous rejection of not just Christ but the entire work of the Holy Spirit in the ministry of the messiah.
Read Mark 3:20–35
[20] Then he went home, and the crowd gathered again, so that they could not even eat. [21] And when his family heard it, they went out to seize him, for they were saying, “He is out of his mind.”
[22] And the scribes who came down from Jerusalem were saying, “He is possessed by Beelzebul,” and “by the prince of demons he casts out the demons.” [23] And he called them to him and said to them in parables, “How can Satan cast out Satan? [24] If a kingdom is divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand. [25] And if a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. [26] And if Satan has risen up against himself and is divided, he cannot stand, but is coming to an end. [27] But no one can enter a strong man’s house and plunder his goods, unless he first binds the strong man. Then indeed he may plunder his house.
[28] “Truly, I say to you, all sins will be forgiven the children of man, and whatever blasphemies they utter, [29] but whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit never has forgiveness, but is guilty of an eternal sin”—[30] for they were saying, “He has an unclean spirit.”
[31] And his mother and his brothers came, and standing outside they sent to him and called him. [32] And a crowd was sitting around him, and they said to him, “Your mother and your brothers are outside, seeking you.” [33] And he answered them, “Who are my mother and my brothers?” [34] And looking about at those who sat around him, he said, “Here are my mother and my brothers! [35] For whoever does the will of God, he is my brother and sister and mother.” (ESV)
Prayer of Illumination
#1 Faithful Pains: vv. 20-21 & 31-35
#2 Painful Blasphemies: vv. 22-30
#1 Faithful Pains: The Renewed, the Righteous mind lives Life Zealously Devoted to God above all other callings
20] Then he went home, and the crowd gathered again, so that they could not even eat. [21] And when his family heard it, they went out to seize him, for they were saying, “He is out of his mind.” (ESV)
J.C. Ryle says, Zeal is often opposed, in the book of Acts Festus calls Paul (mad)
Was Jesus out of his mind?
Certainly not, He has fulfilled the role of prophet in his history-shifting preaching about the need for repentance and faith. He has shown he is fulfilling the priesthood and sacrificial system, by forgiving sins, he is the priest-physician of sinners, he is the Lord of a Creation ordinance—claiming to be the Lord of the Sabbath, and He now has massive crowds, all with the singular opposition of the religious leaders, the scribes and pharisees.
We don’t know what precisely shook the confidence of Jesus’ family that he is on the right path; Even if they might be holding out that he is a human messiah who has gone off track, they do not believe in him as the Son of God who forgives sins.
So they seek to seize him and bring him back by force. But Jesus will not be derailed from the mission he has received from his heavenly Father, the mission he has promised to accomplish, and empowered by the Holy Spirit to perform. Preach. Heal. Cast down Satan. Die. Defeat Death and Sin and rise as the Lamb slain ascended to the fathers right hand.
Jesus’ mind was zealous for his ministry. We do not have the same identity as Jesus, or the same mission, but we ought to have the same zeal for our individual callings and, as Jesus says later, do the will of God.
Do you have the mind of Christ?
This is important, Christ calls us to prioritize the renewed mind that follows the Will of God. Zeal and being in your right mind may get confusing to people who don’t prioritize a life devoted to God.
ILL: Derek Thomas (religious excitement and the kindly wicked priest)
For the believer, when you have zeal, and zeal is joined with being grounded in the scriptures, and in community with mature believers, then you will grow in discernment, wisdom, and resiliant convictions.
1 Corinthians 2:14–16 The natural person does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are folly to him, and he is not able to understand them because they are spiritually discerned. The spiritual person judges all things, but is himself to be judged by no one. “For who has understood the mind of the Lord so as to instruct him?” But we have the mind of Christ. (ESV)
Our passage raises the question, What if we are tempted to love father or mother, sons or daughters more than Christ?
The Gospel transformation study bible answers this well: “Jesus never calls his followers to sever ties with their natural families (as do some cults and sectarian movements). He does, however, exhort each follower to place the call of Christ above all ties to the natural family. The hyperbolic language of Matthew 10:35 [https://www.esv.org/Matthew+10%3A35/] and Luke 14:26 [https://www.esv.org/Luke+14%3A26/] should not be interpreted as a call to family antipathy”
Pause here, Jesus speaks even more hyperbolically to compare loyalty to God vs. family: Luke 14:26 “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple.
“but as a clear reminder of the priority of Christ’s claim upon his disciples—his purposes must outweigh all other loyalties. This requires a sober assessment of loyalties toward one’s natural family. While honoring parents is very important, Jesus does question absolute subservience to the natural family (see Mark 7:10–13 [https://www.esv.org/Mark+7%3A10%E2%80%9313/] with 10:29–31 [https://www.esv.org/Mark+10%3A29%E2%80%9331/]). [ E.g. Muslim converts and more collective societies…]
Focus on the will of God (3:35 [https://www.esv.org/Mark+3%3A35/]), as ascertained by means of prayer, humility, and in consultation with other believers, is central to defining one’s relationship with his or her natural family. Having been delivered by Christ in a work of sheer grace, our fundamental loyalty is to him.”
– Gospel Transformation Study Bible
See this in vv. 33-35 again, And he answered them, “Who are my mother and my brothers?” [34] And looking about at those who sat around him, he said, “Here are my mother and my brothers! [35] For whoever does the will of God, he is my brother and sister and mother.” (ESV)
Absolute Allegiance is to Christ First, this allegiance to Christ comes from his being our creator and law giver, but also because by his grace he has loved us when we were enemies, in our unloveliness.
But disordered love, Love for Family above God, disordered romance, disordered desires, coveting fame, coveting fortune, money or career above Christ that ignores the words and voice of Christ, his objective will as revealed in scripture, is idolatry and diminishes the capacity to ultimately love family.
Loving Christ will increase your capacity to love family with a bold love (not love faking or love breaking). Love for Christ allows for the truest definition of love, doing the will of God, love God and love neighbor. True love is this.
“Love seeks the other persons highest good, ultimately” 2x
Love Seeks the other: it calls us to pursue being interested in others lives.
Seek the Highest Good vs. cultural good
Seek goodness, mercy, beauty, and TRUTH. Not cultural fads or compromise.
Seeking the highest good has an objective moral component, wisdom component, you can find this objectivity in the 10 commandments, the fruit of the spirit, the book of proverbs, and the instructions for believers in the second half of paul’s epistles.
Seek it Ultimately not near term.
We know a dentist visit is near term unpleasant but is for the long term health of the child.
We know withholding money now and putting it in a savings account is good for a child.
A near term pain of calling sin “sin” or expressing a correction now can steer the ship of someone’s life back into save water.
Have you, like Jesus, crossed “the pain threshold?” where integrity could cause relational and cultural friction with the world and your fallen desires.
In the context of this June, as pride month, you must be willing to side with “the will of God” “with the renewed mind of Christ” and cross the pain threshold with the world and our fallen natures.
We saw last week that Jesus determines his Apostles, by implication the N.T. by implication the OT
2 Timothy 3:16 says, All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, (ESV)
Therefore, Jesus determines our priorities and what knowledge directs our zeal. He is not out of his mind, he has a righteous mind, is calling us to renewed minds, that will flow to renewed wills, affections, and lives. And his Holy Spirit by the WORD is effectively shaping this renewal.
Satan is our enemy, and he knows, and Jesus knows that family (or the promise of a family-like belonging, inclusion) can call us to compromise on truth and goodness.
(by family like I mean the peer pressure & internet or media pressure with the promiste of acceptance e.g. Reddit acceptance, sub-culture acceptance, family like belonging and inclusion on the SURFACE…But Satan always hides the Hook!
Deuteronomy warns if a family members goes and worships idols, not to join them in it.
In our post-modern age we know that the ONE of the biggest pressures of compromise is often in the area of Christian sexual ethics, and the pressure is often when a family member has pursued a morally distorted relationship of some kind.
And then holds the relationship hostage to the affirmation of the sinful lifestyle…or else be cut off. (or peers or internet sub-culture).
This is an unfair blackmailing of unconditional love being by slight of hand replaced/confused with unconditional approval.
Faithful relatives love each other by telling the truth, praying for, and in love, including wayward family in wise and appropriate ways. This takes wisdom.
Remember seek the other persons highest good…ultimately.
Our passage today stresses family. But this principle holds true for friendships.
Are you still seeking their good? Are you finding ways to show love?
Affirming sin, sins against nature that will harm both soul and body is not seeking the other’s good. And short-term compromises may ruin the long term witness of love.
I would encourage you to read Rosaria Butterfield’s story, her testimony is found in numerous places on Youtube. Beckett Cook’s “a change of affections” is another wonderful account of God’s Grace. Chloe Cole, is a faithful story of regaining a grounding in her calling as a woman.
Christopher Yuan’s mother and him toured the country explaining her faithful love to him from, a truly broken lifestyle in Atlanta Georgia, to prison and drugs, all the way to his conversion and faithful witness. (their testimony is on youtube
His story in particular is one of Family faithfully loving him, praying for him, but yet never always thinking that faithfulness to Christ and the Will of God was the solution not the hindrance to healing their relationship.
The Call to follow Jesus is Real. When you follow Jesus you are following your creator and your savior. You are beginning life as a forgiven sinner, and a beloved son or daughter, and all the benefits and assurance of adoption, of being filled by the Holy Spirit. And you can know and do the will of God, objectively found in the scriptures.
Jesus knows the feeling of struggle to be faithful as a finite human
1. Take your struggles to Jesus in prayer
2. Ask for friends & Mothers & sisters to walk alongside you
3. Be resolved to cross-the pain threshold to be called crazy by the world, I hope not by your family, but it did happen to Jesus.
a. The Good news is his family did eventually believe and follow him, and his brother James even wrote a book of the bible.
4. Enjoy the blessing of church family being brothers and sisters, mothers and fathers.
a. And remember your very much still true calling to in the 5th commandment: Honor your father and mother, to love and care for kin.
Jesus has crossed the Pain threshold, following the will of his Heavenly Father
Now he has to answer a Character Assassination and Accusation that he is not just out of his mind but Wicked, Unclean, Demonic, Working for the kingdom of Darkness and Satan THAT is how he does healing is by Satan, that is how he casts out demons by Satan.
#2 Blaspheming the Holy Spirit vv. 22-28
Or Painful Blasphemies
[22] And the scribes who came down from Jerusalem were saying, “He is possessed by Beelzebul,” and “by the prince of demons he casts out the demons.”
First, the Pharisees identified the work of the Spirit to heal, to cast out demons, and to grant power to Jesus’ preaching as demonic.
They are challenging Jesus yes, but it is also a challenge to the claim that Jesus is Fulfilling scripture, specifically ones like Isaiah 61, Jesus has preached Isaiah 61 in the synagogue, “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim liberty to the captives and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty those who are oppressed, [19] to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.”
Jesus continued: “Today this Scripture has been fulfilled in your hearing.” [22] And all spoke well of him and marveled at the gracious words that were coming from his mouth.
Jesus’ claim was grounded in the Old Testament anticipation of his work as the Messiah. The Pharisees say” this is of Satan.” They are opposing Jesus and the Prophets, saying he has an unclean spirit.
Rather than recognizing that these good deeds of Jesus are from God they claim they are of the devil. Because to accept these exact kinds of signs would be to accept Jesus as God’s anointed Messiah. Per. Is. 61.
Jesus soundly dismantles this Objection He is casting out and opposing demons. He is healing the sick and oppressed and these things are clearly opposite of Satan’s goals.
He is forgiving sins and calling people to repent of sins, to turn away from uncleanness to holiness. – If he was TEAM Satan, then Jesus is waging a civil war against Satan.
[Video games friendly fire…oops the first time but the 3rd time, the little option to kick the team mate pops up….Jesus is saying, If I was on satan’s side then he is down a few teammates and he is losing this game in no time.
Look in verse 27 But no one can enter a strong man’s house and plunder his goods, unless he first binds the strong man. Then indeed he may plunder his house.
Douglas O’Donnell says that, Jesus’ point is he has shown by his power that he has entered satan’s house, “bound the strong man” and plundered him of his captives. He has freed people from his dominion. ( Par. O’Donnall, 100).
So first, Pharisees, your position is absurd, Second, hear this warning!
You are calling the Work of the Holy Spirit demonic. This is dangerously high-handed blasphemy
Look in 28-30 “Truly, I say to you, all sins will be forgiven the children of man, and whatever blasphemies they utter, [29] but whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit never has forgiveness, but is guilty of an eternal sin”—[30] for they were saying, “He has an unclean spirit.”
“all sins will be forgiven the children of man, and whatever blasphemies they utter.”
Let’s pause there a minute. Jesus is the savior of sinners; he took our humanity so that for men and women, young and old, with sins lighter and heavier, limited or heinous, shameful, harmful, and hateful, “all sins will be forgiven.” If you have hated and harmed your neighbor, God, and even yourself. Jesus says your sins can be forgiven.
If you have never turned to Christ for forgiveness and healing, go to Christ, experience his love, he died for the broken and messy, the ruined and wretched. And he will restore, cleanse, and separate those sins from us as far as the east is from the west.
This is why we have a confession of sin and assurance of pardon each week. We need to remember daily, weekly that we are sinners, and that we ARE Forgiven! You if you have rested, trusted, and cried out to Jesus in prayer are forgiven. It is true. [pause]
But in this context Jesus is talking to scribes and pharisees who walked all the way from Jerusalem to look at the messiah in the flesh, the God-Man working to heal, to cast out demons and say, what you are doing, Jesus, is demonic and evil.
And Jesus in the context of his family struggling to believe in his ministry and knowing that many are wrestling with whether he is the messiah, says, You can insult me all day long. But do not insult the work of the Holy Spirit? You do not call the work of the Spirit unclean.
[ILL] This like siblings saying, You can call me names, you can pick on me, but don’t say anything about my brother, my sister, my mother… Or Military branches we can pick on each other, but don’t you dare as non-military attack any branch of the military in front of us….
Jesus recognizes there is a difference between a slowness to accept that he is the true messiah vs. a hard-hearted looking at the work of the Holy Spirit to heal and restore people, to undue darkness with light and holiness, and to call that satanic.
And so Jesus says, in a verbal warning to the Pharisees, be careful, if you are hard-heartedly opposed to the very work of the Holy Spirit there is not forgiveness for you. DO not attribute to Satan the work of the Spirit.
Now with this,
Douglas O’Donnall asks two helpful questions of this passage:
1. Can we still commit this sin? And (2) if so, have we committed this sin?
Let’s answer that first one, can we still commit this sin and answer that precisely.
There is certainly a uniqueness to being face to face with Jesus as the Pharisees were and their hard-hearted rejection and accusation, this seems to bear out for most of them in the crucifixion of Jesus and lack of repentance ever noted in the book of Acts!
Whereas numerous people were slow to recognize Jesus as the messiah but later respond in faith. That seems to be the very point of our passage. Jesus’ family says, this is crazy, they struggled to believe, or Mary struggled at least to know this is How this ministry ought to be going.
Therefore, Keep wrestling with following Jesus if you’re slow to believe. But do not delay saying I will do that tomorrow, no one is guaranteed tomorrow, take your sins to Jesus today and entrust your life, your love, and your loyalty.
Be encouraged even Jesus’ siblings struggled. But be pressed to believe even Jesus’ siblings believed! In Acts 1:14 gathered at Pentecost with the apostles “Mary the mother of Jesus, and his brothers.” And Jesus’ brothers James even pens a letter of the bible, he speaks at the Jerusalem council.
So, struggling to believe in Jesus is not the blasphemy of the Holy Spirit, it is wrong and dangerous.
Yet even after the life of Jesus the Apostle John In 1 John 5 still talks about “the sin that leads to death.” That some sins simply need repentance and prayer, but that some lead to death and should not even be prayed for.
J.C. Ryle Says it well, “the doctrine here laid down is to be found in other places of Scripture beside this. I allude of course to the well-known passages, Hebrews 6:4-6; 10:26 and 1 John 5:17. In all these places there seems a reference to a sin which is not forgiven. What then is the unpardonable sin? It must be frankly confessed that its precise nature is nowhere defined in Holy Scripture. The most probable view is, that it is a combination of clear intellectual knowledge of the gospel, with deliberate rejection of it, and willful choice of sin. It is a union of light in the head, and hatred in the heart. … The limits which knowledge combined with unbelief must pass, in order to become the unpardonable sin, are graciously withheld from us. It is mercifully ordered of God, that man can never decide positively of any brother, that he has committed a sin which cannot be forgiven. [pause here, it is interesting to note the pharisees were literally watching the healings and casting out of the demons in the unique period of history…and their hearts were so hard that they assigned this work, a withered hand restored, the sick healed to SATAN. And so while there seems to still be a blasphemy of the Holy Spirit, listen to this second half by Ryle answering… Have I committed the unforgivable sin?]
But although it is difficult to define what the unpardonable sin is, it is far less difficult to point out what it is not. … those who are troubled with fears that they have sinned the unpardonable sin are the very people who have not sinned it. The very fact that they are afraid and anxious about it is the strongest possible evidence in their favour. A troubled conscience-an anxiety about salvation, and a dread of being cast away— concern about the next world, and a desire to escape from the wrath of God—will probably never be found in the heart of that person who has sinned the sin for which there is no forgiveness. It is far more probable that the general marks of such a person will be utter hardness of conscience—a seared heart—an absence of any feeling, a thorough insensibility to spiritual concern.
The subject may safely be left here. There is such a thing as a sin which is never forgiven. But those who are troubled about it, are most unlikely to have committed it.” (Ryle, 46).
And in all this do not miss this comfort of Christ, save this one mysterious exception, all sins will be forgiven mankind who hide themselves in Christ, whom to Jesus for refuge have fled…And we can be certain those in this sin will not seek to entrust themselves to Christ.
The ESV study bible notes “even heinous sins are forgivable. Christ pardoned Peter for denying Him (John 18:15–27; 21:15–19) David repented and was forgiven for murder and adultery (2 Sam. 11:1–12:15a) Paul was made an apostle even though He once persecuted Jesus (Acts 9:1–19)
Matthew Henry comments, “Those who fear they have committed this sin, give a good sign that they have not.”
What can you know for certain today.
Christ has broken the power of satan. If the idea of the power of sin being broken in your life is beautiful, is hopeful to you, then know ALL YOUR SINS MAY BE FORGIVEN if you cast them on Christ. He is a good savior.
The second thing you may know is if you are ungrieved, in bondage to, and unwilling to break with sin it will be the death of your soul. You must cry out in order to be forgiven, or else your heart will harden in sin, and an unrepentant heart is an unforgiven heart.
Which way, the way of life or the way of death? The will of God or your own will? Choose this day the LORD and LIFE go to him in prayer.
Prayer
Benediction.
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