Coffee With Kam - UNFILTERED

☕️Daily & Gayly Intentions - Who's Ready?! (Ep 9)

BEAN STRONG, BABY! ☕️🌈🫘💪 Welcome to Bean Strong, y’all. I have created two spaces for us to log & share - links to these space will be at the bottom of this post. 1. A special chat thread to log your Daily & Gayly Intentions CLICK HERE [https://coffeewithkam.com/chats] 2. A strava team for those of you wanting/needing to start moving more, in any capacity. With Strava you can log your activities & see other beans progress :) HERE'S LINK [https://coffeewithkam.com/posts/gayly-intentions-159051566?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link] This is for any Bean who is ready to grow, shift, stretch, heal, rebuild, begin again, or simply prove to themselves that it is NOT too late to become stronger — mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually… whatever that means for YOU. I started this because I need help too. And one thing I’ve learned from hosting this incredibly community for six years is: when one Bean needs support, chances are another Bean does too. So let’s do this, together. THE GOAL: Every morning, post ONE Gayly Intention for the day. THAT IS IT. One sentence. One intention. One commitment to yourself. Big or small — it counts. Then use the replies for all the banter as you please! * encourage each other * celebrate wins * check in * joke around * connect * keep each other going I want this to be fun and sustainable, while still helping us all witness each other becoming stronger in real time, so please use it as a joyful cheer not an obligatory todo list item in your life. I genuinely cannot WAIT to watch your progress… and selfishly, I need the inspiration too. ☕️🫶 Thanks for bean here, ya'll. Bean (Kam) #🌈beanteam Let's play beanball ya'll! 🌈 JOIN THE BEAN STRONG CHAT THREAD - HERE [https://coffeewithkam.com/chats] ☕️ JOIN OUR STRAVA TEAM HERE [https://coffeewithkam.com/posts/gayly-intentions-159051566?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link]

I'm Not Here for Cookies & a Makeout (Ep 8)

I came back from the beach with sand in my panties, a little too much sun on my face, and a realization I can’t shake: I didn’t get sober and quit nicotine so that I could eat cookies. And I haven’t spent the last six years with an unrelenting passion for being a part of y’all finding a pal or a makeout buddy (though hear me now, GOD I LOVE IT WHEN YOU DO!). I started Coffee With Kam to be a part of something bigger than me, and to build a space where we can all inspire each other to be more, feel more, say more, and live more than any one of us could ever do, say, or experience alone. So I’m thinking about creating a daily Bean Team space here at Coffee Unfiltered — not a fitness cult, not toxic positivity, not perfection — just real lesbians/Qs aging together while sharing one thing each morning that we are going to commit to for ourselves. One thing we find difficult to do when the only person we have to answer to is ourselves… but can not only do, but feel inspired to do, when we know there’s another bean out here cheering us on and looking for a little motivation to do her/their THING as well. Mountain bikes. Morning walks. Going to bed early. Not boozin’. Skipping the cookies. Calling an old friend who’s been on our to-do list too long. Healing. Dancing. Flirting. Surviving. Thriving. Whatever your thing today is. I thought before I start this potentially MASSIVELY WONDERFUL AND SUPER FUN little Bean Ball activity, I would first see if anyone is interested in joining me. So drop a comment and let me know: Scale of 1–10… who would like me to create a thread for those of us wanting to take a new action for ourselves — and with each other — each day? 1 = NO 10 = “FUCK YES KAM! Put me in the game. You’re damn right I’m ready to play… or at least I’ll put my shoes on and come with you lesbians because it sounds entertaining at the very least.” Kam p.s. If you haven't yet, add yourself to the bean directory and say hello to the other beans! Here's the link. [https://coffeewithkam.com/posts/bean-directory-154713293?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link]

Ready to stop scrolling and start living? (Ep 7)

#🌈beanteam PARTY TONIGHT for all you lesbians and WLW/Qs out there who are ready to stop scrolling and start living...you don't even have to get out of your jammies or leave your house ya'll! Let's roll! Click Here for Link to Game Night [https://coffeewithkam.com/posts/game-night-this-157918239?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link] Tonight, May 14 - 8pm EST.

Showing Up, Fully, as We Are in a World of Highlights is Not Easy (Ep 6)

The concept I am referring to here, is how I started my podcast, Sabbatical or Suicide, which by the way is available here on my Coffee unfiltered Patreon page. Go to collections and click on my podcast. If you can access this post, you can access the entire show, it’s a hell of a ride just make sure to check your judgment at the door. Your opinion of me may shift after listening to it. At any rate, even though I believe this, it is sometimes hard to live it. That is, only showing others, the highlight reels of our lives does not add the kind of value I want to be adding to the world or two other women’s experiences of, of one another, or of yourselves. I want to always represent, the complete picture of this life experience… which ain’t all roses! So, yes, I wanted to delete the video. I posted yesterday and I was almost about to do that. And, the whole point of what we are doing here is Walk in the walk. It’s one thing to talk to talk. It’s another thing to walk the walk… all parts of our ourselves, even the ones that we aren’t quite so proud of are still parts of ourselves and we don’t need to apologize for those parts. Noticing, growing, and reframing is all part of the ride. It’s a weird thing to expose my personal experience to, strangers in essence. And, so many times in my life I would’ve given anything to find a woman like me who I could relate to so that I didn’t feel so alone with all the sides of myself so here I am y’all. I do look forward to the comments where you begin sharing your own experiences with this stuff and with yourselves, if and when you care to reveal… I will do everything in my power to continue to allow this to be the safe space to do so. Intern, you just might find the least likely friendships will blossom from your sharing. And if that isn’t the whole point of why I roll Coffee, there isn’t one! Love on, here we grow again. Kam ☕️🌈🫘👯‍♀️

The Truth Starts Here (Ep 1) COFFEE WITH KAM UNFILTERED LAUNCH

Sabbatical or Suicide, which is the name of my first podcast (also available at CoffeeWithKam.com [https://CoffeeWithKam.com]) was the beginning of everything we are doing here - TOGETHER - at Coffee With Kam today. From the moment the idea for that show dropped from my destiny and into my soul, 11 years ago exactly, I knew it was the beginning of something exceptional and most importantly, something far beyond myself. I'm so grateful that I didn't have a clue then... of the amount of struggle, doubt, fear, pain and self betrayal that I would still need to experience, to fully bring that destiny to life. And, I'd go through it all again...for the gift of getting to be a part of watching each of you continue to find each other, and this precious space that is Coffee with Kam - Unfiltered, the space where we don't have to look or act or be any other way than exactly as we are, right now, together in today. Here at Coffee, showing up with each and every one of the perfectly imperfect pieces of ourselves - fully and completely, it's not just OKAY, it's the ONLY way, it's the BEAN WAY! In 2023, I quit building this community...not because I wanted to, but because i chose booze and the false security of a woman who claimed to love me... over myself. Thank the lesbian Gods I did. Sometimes in life, it is what feels like our very worst decisions, our most painful experiences that ultimately are the very things required to reveal the only door that actually leads to our destiny. The irony is, she did everything in her power to destroy me and all she actually did was light the only path that would lead me to the courage, the confidence and the motivation to pick my ass up, to get sober, to tell my pride to F- Off and to humbly come back and try again at the ONE thing in my entire life that I have never wanted to quit. That thing is this, it's you, it's all of us here at Coffee With Kam. After 11 years of sharing my heart and soul with the world for free and 48 years of telling myself I suck, I recently decided to launch PRIVATE content because: A) I would really like to keep my house B) My days of giving any stranger, or any psycho ex, access to the intimate areas of my life - are over. C) I believe it's the truths we share that change the world, especially the hard ones. Silly content is fun, real content is my heart fuel. D) I'm worth it, and more importantly, so are you. Those of you who are willing to pay for access to me and to each other, are the kind of women, lesbians & Q human beings that I actually want to get to know. You're also the ones who are going to find fast friends and fall in love with each other here at Coffee, because...well, you're a little off, you've got a great sense of humor, you love authenticity and you're absolutely wonderful. You might not totally believe that yet, and that's ok. We'll show you. I am launching my Private Content - Coffee With Kam Unfiltered - because I'm not sure my braless, inside out tank tops covered in cat hair add much value to my content. I mean you can watch them, but in podcast form you will also be able to easily find and listen anytime and anywhere. Coffee With Kam Unfiltered, is going to be a real and raw unfolding journey happening in real time. It is not going to to have the bells and whistles of fine tune editing, scripting around audio files and 80 hours of work for every episode you hear. Some episodes will be long, rambling and frankly probably impossible to follow. Others will be inspiring, short and concise. All of them will be the truth. My long-term vision here, is to invite you beans on as guests. To provide the space I envisioned when I started Sabbatical or Suicide, the space and platform for YOU to share your stories too. I can't wait to hear them. So stay tuned and don't feel bad if you don't like my private content. Me unedited and unfiltered, is a largely different experience from Kam edited and presented in 2 minutes or less, ha! Episode 1 of Coffee With Kam - Unfiltered is free. My private episodes will be included with membership and available to purchase individually. When I start sharing your stories, I will let YOU WHO IS SHARING, decide if you want your episode to be public or for beans only. Some of your stories you may want public so those who may need to hear it, can find it...others you may want to share but with only BEANS! I have no attachment to your decision there. Thank you beans, for seeing me. I see you, and you're all F--king hot...by the only measure of any damn thing that actually matters, you're all drop dead gorgeous IN HEART, the only part of us that will keep beating long after we no longer have the luxury of aging together. If you're struggling today, thank you...for choosing to continue. I'm so glad you're here. #🌈beanteam forever. Love, Your shit show of a lesbian barista with great tits, Kam