Counseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian Counselors

Handling The Holidays For The Lord’s Glory (And Your Good)

Christians are extra busy this time of year! Christmas, New Years - a wonderful time for remembering the Lord and enjoying your family… but quite likely, also a time for extra tasks, worldly distractions, and perhaps even a “bah-humbug” or two.   As you approach Christmas and prepare for a brand new year, may you find encouragement (and perhaps some Spirit-led conviction) by the simple Bible verse of Colossians 3:17 -    And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.   Join me today for 3 tips to help you live this verse out well during a busy holiday season - for the Lord’s glory and for your own good!   ** This podcast is a ministry of iHope Christian Care and Counseling located in Florence, S.C. Are you in South Carolina and seeking Christ-centered counseling, or looking to make a meaningful end-of-year donation? We are a 501(c)(3) nonprofit and a charitable organization in S.C. and we welcome your donations, referrals, prayers, and encouragement! Learn more at www.iHopeFlorence.com [http://www.ihopeflorence.com/] **   - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -    ABOUT YOUR HOST    This podcast is offered as a ministry from iHope Christian Care and Counseling, Inc. We are a nonprofit counseling center in the Pee Dee area of South Carolina. Our primary host is our Director: Jessica Hayes, LPC, LMFT, LPCS-C. You can learn more about The iHope Center at www.ihopeflorence.com.   We hope you will subscribe to our channel and share about the podcast with the other pastors and leaders in your life. There is a video, audio, and blog version of this podcast: * LISTEN on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counseling-tips-for-pastors-and-ministry-leaders/id1727725500] Podcasts, Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3lXNpJMhUfYMHLTNA5Wa2I], or any common podcast app * WATCH on the iHope YouTube [https://youtube.com/@ihopeflorence] channel * READ on the iHope blog [https://ihopeflorence.com/blog]     - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -   REFERRALS AND DONATIONS   Our counselors are licensed in the state of South Carolina. If you are local to our state, we hope you will consider The iHope Center as a referral source for professional counseling or life coaching. We offer a 10% discount on services to full-time pastors. Virtual services are available as well.   The iHope Center is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, and we are registered in the state of South Carolina as a charitable organization. If you are local to our state, we welcome your donations and gifts to support our counseling ministry. Donations allow us to keep clients' fees at 50% below the local average cost for services.     Find out more at www.ihopeflorence.com [http://www.ihopeflorence.com/].    - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -    DISCLAIMER   This podcast, as well as other resources offered by The iHope Center, should be taken as informational and educational content only. Utilizing our resources does not create a professional relationship. This podcast is not therapy. Always use your own judgment in making decisions and in making recommendations for others.    In the case of a medical or mental health emergency for yourself or someone else, please contact your local emergency department. In the USA, you can call “988” which is the three-digit, nationwide phone number to connect directly to the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.    - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -    Thanks for tuning in to this episode of Counseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders!   What’s next? ✓ Subscribe and follow the show ✓ Leave a written review and let us know what topics we should cover ✓ Click on the 3 dots above to copy the link for this episode and share with a friend or colleague   If you’re local to South Carolina, we hope you will consider us for referrals and donations to support this ministry.    Learn more about iHope Christian Care and Counseling at www.ihopeflorence.com [http://www.ihopeflorence.com/].

Avoiding Stress During The Holidays

You want to enjoy the holidays. But the holidays can bring up a lot of hard emotions.   And one of those emotions is STRESS. From planning extra events to dealing with family conflict during holiday gatherings, there is plenty about the holiday season that can be difficult.    Thankfully, there are practical things to do that will help reduce stress - so you can enjoy your holiday season more fully. Whether it’s you struggling with stress or you’re trying to minister to someone who is stressed out, these tips will help.   Join me today for a counselor’s perspective on some tips and strategies to help avoid stress this year during the holiday season.   > > Learn more about Christian counseling services in South Carolina at www.iHopeFlorence.com [http://www.ihopeflorence.com/]. < <   - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -    ABOUT YOUR HOST    This podcast is offered as a ministry from iHope Christian Care and Counseling, Inc. We are a nonprofit counseling center in the Pee Dee area of South Carolina. Our primary host is our Director: Jessica Hayes, LPC, LMFT, LPCS-C. You can learn more about The iHope Center at www.ihopeflorence.com.   We hope you will subscribe to our channel and share about the podcast with the other pastors and leaders in your life. There is a video, audio, and blog version of this podcast: * LISTEN on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counseling-tips-for-pastors-and-ministry-leaders/id1727725500] Podcasts, Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3lXNpJMhUfYMHLTNA5Wa2I], or any common podcast app * WATCH on the iHope YouTube [https://youtube.com/@ihopeflorence] channel * READ on the iHope blog [https://ihopeflorence.com/blog]     - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -   REFERRALS AND DONATIONS   Our counselors are licensed in the state of South Carolina. If you are local to our state, we hope you will consider The iHope Center as a referral source for professional counseling or life coaching. We offer a 10% discount on services to full-time pastors. Virtual services are available as well.   The iHope Center is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, and we are registered in the state of South Carolina as a charitable organization. If you are local to our state, we welcome your donations and gifts to support our counseling ministry. Donations allow us to keep clients' fees at 50% below the local average cost for services.     Find out more at www.ihopeflorence.com [http://www.ihopeflorence.com/].    - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -    DISCLAIMER   This podcast, as well as other resources offered by The iHope Center, should be taken as informational and educational content only. Utilizing our resources does not create a professional relationship. This podcast is not therapy. Always use your own judgment in making decisions and in making recommendations for others.    In the case of a medical or mental health emergency for yourself or someone else, please contact your local emergency department. In the USA, you can call “988” which is the three-digit, nationwide phone number to connect directly to the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.    - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -    Thanks for tuning in to this episode of Counseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders!   What’s next? ✓ Subscribe and follow the show ✓ Leave a written review and let us know what topics we should cover ✓ Click on the 3 dots above to copy the link for this episode and share with a friend or colleague   If you’re local to South Carolina, we hope you will consider us for referrals and donations to support this ministry.    Learn more about iHope Christian Care and Counseling at www.ihopeflorence.com [http://www.ihopeflorence.com/].

Recognizing (And Stopping) Passive Aggressive Communication

No one likes passive aggressive communication. And it usually falls in the category of “I know it when I see it” … but we can’t always define it. We don’t always understand it.    Which makes it much harder to stop it.   So today on the podcast, join me for a counselor’s tips on building healthier communication patterns in your ministry and at home. We’ll look at some common examples of passive aggressive communication along with a few practical tips for how to handle it.   Every pastor and ministry leader needs strong communication skills. Let’s work on it together.   > > Learn more about Christian counseling services in South Carolina at www.iHopeFlorence.com [http://www.ihopeflorence.com/]. < <   - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -    ABOUT YOUR HOST    This podcast is offered as a ministry from iHope Christian Care and Counseling, Inc. We are a nonprofit counseling center in the Pee Dee area of South Carolina. Our primary host is our Director: Jessica Hayes, LPC, LMFT, LPCS-C. You can learn more about The iHope Center at www.ihopeflorence.com.   We hope you will subscribe to our channel and share about the podcast with the other pastors and leaders in your life. There is a video, audio, and blog version of this podcast: * LISTEN on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counseling-tips-for-pastors-and-ministry-leaders/id1727725500] Podcasts, Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3lXNpJMhUfYMHLTNA5Wa2I], or any common podcast app * WATCH on the iHope YouTube [https://youtube.com/@ihopeflorence] channel * READ on the iHope blog [https://ihopeflorence.com/blog]     - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -   REFERRALS AND DONATIONS   Our counselors are licensed in the state of South Carolina. If you are local to our state, we hope you will consider The iHope Center as a referral source for professional counseling or life coaching. We offer a 10% discount on services to full-time pastors. Virtual services are available as well.   The iHope Center is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, and we are registered in the state of South Carolina as a charitable organization. If you are local to our state, we welcome your donations and gifts to support our counseling ministry. Donations allow us to keep clients' fees at 50% below the local average cost for services.     Find out more at www.ihopeflorence.com [http://www.ihopeflorence.com/].    - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -    DISCLAIMER   This podcast, as well as other resources offered by The iHope Center, should be taken as informational and educational content only. Utilizing our resources does not create a professional relationship. This podcast is not therapy. Always use your own judgment in making decisions and in making recommendations for others.    In the case of a medical or mental health emergency for yourself or someone else, please contact your local emergency department. In the USA, you can call “988” which is the three-digit, nationwide phone number to connect directly to the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.    - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -    Thanks for tuning in to this episode of Counseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders!   What’s next? ✓ Subscribe and follow the show ✓ Leave a written review and let us know what topics we should cover ✓ Click on the 3 dots above to copy the link for this episode and share with a friend or colleague   If you’re local to South Carolina, we hope you will consider us for referrals and donations to support this ministry.    Learn more about iHope Christian Care and Counseling at www.ihopeflorence.com [http://www.ihopeflorence.com/].

4 Clinical And Biblical Tips For Fighting Sadness, Depression, And Hopelessness

We live in a world saturated by sadness. There are epidemics of loneliness and anxiety. Depression is a growing problem.    Yet, there is hope. Opening the pages of Scripture, we find action steps and ways to support people who are struggling. And in the counseling room, these same tips are very helpful!   So today on the podcast, let’s take a look at 4 tips that will help you come alongside people who are struggling with sadness, discouragement, and depression. In fact, these are 4 tips that you can use yourself during hard and painful seasons.   These tips come straight from Scripture, and we’ll look at how to apply them in your own ministry today.   > > Learn more about Christian counseling services in South Carolina at www.iHopeFlorence.com [http://www.ihopeflorence.com/]. < <   - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -    ABOUT YOUR HOST    This podcast is offered as a ministry from iHope Christian Care and Counseling, Inc. We are a nonprofit counseling center in the Pee Dee area of South Carolina. Our primary host is our Director: Jessica Hayes, LPC, LMFT, LPCS-C. You can learn more about The iHope Center at www.ihopeflorence.com.   We hope you will subscribe to our channel and share about the podcast with the other pastors and leaders in your life. There is a video, audio, and blog version of this podcast: * LISTEN on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counseling-tips-for-pastors-and-ministry-leaders/id1727725500] Podcasts, Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3lXNpJMhUfYMHLTNA5Wa2I], or any common podcast app * WATCH on the iHope YouTube [https://youtube.com/@ihopeflorence] channel * READ on the iHope blog [https://ihopeflorence.com/blog]     - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -   REFERRALS AND DONATIONS   Our counselors are licensed in the state of South Carolina. If you are local to our state, we hope you will consider The iHope Center as a referral source for professional counseling or life coaching. We offer a 10% discount on services to full-time pastors. Virtual services are available as well.   The iHope Center is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, and we are registered in the state of South Carolina as a charitable organization. If you are local to our state, we welcome your donations and gifts to support our counseling ministry. Donations allow us to keep clients' fees at 50% below the local average cost for services.     Find out more at www.ihopeflorence.com [http://www.ihopeflorence.com/].    - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -    DISCLAIMER   This podcast, as well as other resources offered by The iHope Center, should be taken as informational and educational content only. Utilizing our resources does not create a professional relationship. This podcast is not therapy. Always use your own judgment in making decisions and in making recommendations for others.    In the case of a medical or mental health emergency for yourself or someone else, please contact your local emergency department. In the USA, you can call “988” which is the three-digit, nationwide phone number to connect directly to the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.    - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -    Thanks for tuning in to this episode of Counseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders!   What’s next? ✓ Subscribe and follow the show ✓ Leave a written review and let us know what topics we should cover ✓ Click on the 3 dots above to copy the link for this episode and share with a friend or colleague   If you’re local to South Carolina, we hope you will consider us for referrals and donations to support this ministry.    Learn more about iHope Christian Care and Counseling at www.ihopeflorence.com [http://www.ihopeflorence.com/].

9 Tips For Keeping A Positive Attitude When People Are Complaining

It’s not your job or calling in life to make people happy. And despite your best efforts, it would be impossible to do.   All of us in ministry can take heart from the Apostle Paul’s reminder in Galatians 1:10. “Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.”   The reality of life (and definitely of ministry work) is that people complain. It may not be good or godly, but it is going to happen. Sometimes, people will even complain about you, to you, or about your loved ones. At times, people will be thoughtless in their comments. Other times, they will be downright rude.    In today’s episode, we are not going to try to pretend that these moments don’t hurt. They usually do. And we are not going to try to brainstorm ways to get people to stop complaining.   But we are not going to let those complaints control how we feel, think, or act. Instead, we are going to look at some practical tips for how you can keep a positive attitude even when people are complaining!    After all, you are not trying to please people, but to please Christ.    Join me in today’s conversation, friend.   > > Learn more about Christian counseling services in South Carolina at www.iHopeFlorence.com [http://www.ihopeflorence.com/].    - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -    ABOUT YOUR HOST    This podcast is offered as a ministry from iHope Christian Care and Counseling, Inc. We are a nonprofit counseling center in the Pee Dee area of South Carolina. Our primary host is our Director: Jessica Hayes, LPC, LMFT, LPCS-C. You can learn more about The iHope Center at www.ihopeflorence.com.   We hope you will subscribe to our channel and share about the podcast with the other pastors and leaders in your life. There is a video, audio, and blog version of this podcast: * LISTEN on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counseling-tips-for-pastors-and-ministry-leaders/id1727725500] Podcasts, Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3lXNpJMhUfYMHLTNA5Wa2I], or any common podcast app * WATCH on the iHope YouTube [https://youtube.com/@ihopeflorence] channel * READ on the iHope blog [https://ihopeflorence.com/blog]     - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -   REFERRALS AND DONATIONS   Our counselors are licensed in the state of South Carolina. If you are local to our state, we hope you will consider The iHope Center as a referral source for professional counseling or life coaching. We offer a 10% discount on services to full-time pastors. Virtual services are available as well.   The iHope Center is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, and we are registered in the state of South Carolina as a charitable organization. If you are local to our state, we welcome your donations and gifts to support our counseling ministry. Donations allow us to keep clients' fees at 50% below the local average cost for services.     Find out more at www.ihopeflorence.com [http://www.ihopeflorence.com/].    - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -    DISCLAIMER   This podcast, as well as other resources offered by The iHope Center, should be taken as informational and educational content only. Utilizing our resources does not create a professional relationship. This podcast is not therapy. Always use your own judgment in making decisions and in making recommendations for others.    In the case of a medical or mental health emergency for yourself or someone else, please contact your local emergency department. In the USA, you can call “988” which is the three-digit, nationwide phone number to connect directly to the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.    - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -    Thanks for tuning in to this episode of Counseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders!   What’s next? ✓ Subscribe and follow the show ✓ Leave a written review and let us know what topics we should cover ✓ Click on the 3 dots above to copy the link for this episode and share with a friend or colleague   If you’re local to South Carolina, we hope you will consider us for referrals and donations to support this ministry.    Learn more about iHope Christian Care and Counseling at www.ihopeflorence.com [http://www.ihopeflorence.com/].