The Anatomy of a Myth: Why Freud Was Wrong About Your Sex Life

The Anatomy of a Myth: Why Freud Was Wrong About Your Sex Life

Paul challenges cultural and Freudian myths about male and female sexuality, explaining how anatomy — not moral failure or poor technique — often determines whether a woman orgasms from intercourse. He dispels harmful stereotypes, describes the role of clitoral vaginal distance, and offers a simple, practical suggestion (using a small vibrator between partners during face-to-face intercourse) to help couples improve their sexual connection. A small vibrator [https://bit.ly/3YZHtWC]

Is Your Perception Shrinking Your Husband & Hurting Your Marriage?

This episode looks at a common false image some women have of their husbands—treating them like a child or calling them a “man-child”—and explains how that perception can harm him, the marriage, and the children. Paul explores why men’s playfulness and women’s higher daily stress can create misperceptions, and offers practical guidance: challenge your assumptions, communicate gently, and ask for reassurance before your husband takes a mental break so you both can work through problems together. This podcast is donation-supported. [https://doingmarriagewell.com/support-dmw/]

Born of Love, Built on a Lie: The Danger of Seeing Your Wife as Fragile

This episode explores how a heartfelt but false view of a wife as fragile—shaped by culture or past experiences—undermines marriage. Paul explains how projecting weakness can lead to secrecy, imbalance, and justification of sin. Listeners are urged to compare their inner assumptions with their spouse's reality, confess distortions, and pray for a truthful, honouring vision that strengthens partnership. This podcast is donation-supported. [https://doingmarriagewell.com/support-dmw/]

Marriage Trap: Are You Gender Profiling Your Spouse?

This episode explores how past experiences and social stories cause us to 'gender profile' our spouse, letting fear and prejudice colour our view of their actions. Paul explains the difference between our reactive heart (Mr. Hyde) and our rational mind (Dr. Jekyll), and urges listeners to challenge their feelings, look for alternative explanations, and give their partner a large benefit of the doubt. Practical advice and a simple challenge—ask for one good thing about a partner next time someone complains—show how to shift perspective and strengthen marriage.

Mind vs. Heart: Which Version of Your Spouse Are You Married To?

Host Paul explains that we perceive our spouse in two ways: the mind (facts, behaviour) and the heart (feelings shaped by past hurts). When the heart is driven by old wounds, it creates a ‘Hyde’ version that magnifies faults and erodes grace. The episode offers a simple solution: work to get your heart to see what your mind already knows—address past influences and choose the Jekyll view of your partner so marriage can thrive.