F*ck Your High Vibes

The Shift Happens In The Pause • Episode 53

In this Love Chat episode, Nicole Love explores the space between trigger and reaction and how chronic chaos conditions the nervous system to live in urgency, overstimulation, and emotional reactivity. This episode unpacks survival-based responses, conscious awareness, and why calm can feel uncomfortable when chaos has become the baseline. Together we talk about pause, discernment, nervous system recalibration, and learning how not to continue the emotional momentum unconsciously. Because the shift doesn’t happen in the chaos, it happens in the moment you choose not to continue it. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe [https://nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]

Surviving the Frequency of Chaos • Episode 52

In this Cutting Through the BS episode, we unpack how chronic chaos, overstimulation, emotional activation, and survival mode quietly begin rewiring your nervous system, perception, and frequency. This truth session explores how chaos becomes a setpoint the body adapts to over time, impacting emotional regulation, intuition, relationships, creativity, and the way we interpret reality itself. We also cut through the performative “high vibes only” narrative to talk about the difference between real discernment and becoming emotionally consumed by the chaos around you. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe [https://nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]

You Think This Is Just Life… It’s Not • Episode 51

In this episode, we take a deeper look at what a chaos setpoint actually is and how it quietly becomes the baseline your system learns to function within. This conversation explores the mental, emotional, and behavioral patterns that can keep you stuck in cycles of overthinking, reacting, fixing, and constantly feeling activated, even when nothing is technically wrong. I also share a vulnerable real-time moment of catching myself slipping into a chaos setpoint, highlighting how subtle and normalized these patterns can become. Because if you don’t recognize the setpoint, you may mistake survival mode for just “how life is". This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe [https://nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]

Something Feels Off…Because It Is • Episode 50

In this episode, we pause for a real-time vibe check using an intuitive card pull to reflect on what we’ve just experienced. What came through clearly is this: we’re still operating from a chaos setpoint, not just externally, but in how we process and respond. This conversation invites honesty about your emotional reactions, the patterns being revealed, and where you may still be participating in the chaos. Because awareness alone isn’t the shift, what you do with it is. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe [https://nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]

This Is Hard To Admit… But I Caused Harm: The Truth About Self-Hate • Episode 49

In this Season 2 opener of F*ck Your High Vibes, Nicole shares a moment she had to face the truth - she caused harm. This episode explores the deeper reality that self-hate doesn’t stay internal; it spills onto others in ways we don’t always want to admit. Through real reflection and accountability, you’re invited to look at a time you hurt someone and uncover what within you was out of balance. This is about taking responsibility without shame and learning how to rebalance what’s been neglected. Because healing isn’t what you say, it’s how you show up. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe [https://nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]