IRS Jury Duty, Reverse Sear Steaks, and the Friday Traffic Meltdown
Nelson is back after a stress headache knocked him out for a week, and Mike picks up right where they left off: gardens going in, taxes raising eyebrows, and a kitchen experiment that might change his weeknight dinners forever. Mike walks through the planting push at his place, sunflower seeds in (the multi-colored five to six footers), onions and potatoes down, and a fresh three-tier planter on the way from Amazon to hold the herbs and scallions. The greenhouse run set him back over 300 bucks, another reminder that even dirt and seedlings are not immune to sticker shock.The legal and tax updates pile up. The second jury duty summons resolved itself online with an "excused" page he could not click past, which checks out since he is already excused as his mom's legal guardian. Then comes the IRS letter holding his refund for a 60-day review, the kind of note that triggers identity-theft paranoia until his Aunt Marlene can decode it. He digs into the annual guardianship report, the conservatorship question his lawyer keeps dancing around, and the bank-statement back-and-forth that wasted a perfectly good afternoon. Plus a quick book review: Nick Petrie's Peter Ash series number seven, The Runaway, is a return to form after the strange Iceland detour in The Wild One, and Barry Eisler's John Rain assassin series gets a tentative first try.The back half goes practical and a little philosophical. Mike pulls off his first reverse sear, a filet mignon at 250 for 30 minutes, then a screaming-hot stainless skillet with butter, olive oil, and garlic, finished with a side of cucumber-pepper-onion salad doused in Toledo's own Garlic Expressions. He is never going back. The guys preview the new intro and outro Nelson is cutting (hot chicken in Malaysia included), debate how to handle the Godzilla rights problem for Mike's "guy," and lock in a plan to dump SiriusXM for YouTube Music. Then Mike vents about Friday and Saturday traffic: a road system that used to be empty now full of maniacs gunning it through every light, with no end in sight.Key Takeaways● Stress is the silent killer, and walking away from a 12-layer management nightmare 12 years ago is still the best decision Mike ever made.● The second jury summons cleared itself: the online portal locked Mike out at "excused" thanks to his guardianship status.● The IRS holding a refund for a 60-day income and withholding review is unsettling, but step one is calling the person who actually filed the return, not the credit bureaus.● Reverse sear method: 250 degree oven for about 25 to 30 minutes, then a hard sear in a hot stainless pan with olive oil, butter, and garlic. Perfect crust, perfect medium rare.● Garden math hurts: a single greenhouse run came to over 300 dollars, with 6.99 plants where 4.99 used to live.● Friday and Saturday driving has become a full-contact sport, and the only cure is staying home on Sunday morning before the church crowd.Timestamps00:00 - Nelson's stress headache and Mike's escape from corporate layers01:30 - Garden plans, raised beds, and borrowing the electric tiller03:14 - Sunflowers, scallions, and the new three-tier planter05:00 - Peter Ash book seven and trying out Barry Eisler's John Rain08:34 - The second jury duty summons resolves itself online09:42 - The IRS verification letter and calling Aunt Marlene12:00 - 300 bucks at the greenhouse and multi-colored sunflower seeds14:25 - Guardianship paperwork, conservatorship questions, and lawyer back-and-forth19:00 - First-ever reverse sear filet mignon, plus the new intro and outro preview23:30 - Killing SiriusXM for YouTube Music and chasing down mystery charges25:30 - Friday traffic, weekend madhouse driving, and the Sunday morning loopholeConnect● Website: https://www.gomando.com● Hosts: Mike and Nelson#GoManDo #PodcastLife #TravelPrep #LifeUpdates #EntrepreneurLife #ReverseSear #IRS #JuryDuty #GardenSeason #PeterAsh #JohnRain #GarlicExpressions #YouTubeMusic #FridayTraffic