Her Path Her Pace: Where Growth Meets Grace

Operation: Go Outside

This episode is a little lighter, a little more playful, and honestly… a reminder to myself to actually practice what I preach. For so long, life felt heavy, serious, structured, and honestly a little survival-mode coded. And while healing, growth, and self-work are all important, I’m realizing that joy matters too. So this summer? We’re going outside 😭 In this episode, I’m sharing my summer bucket list—things I’ve never done, things I haven’t done in years, random adventures, experiences that push me outside of my comfort zone, and moments that simply sound fun. From horseback riding and waterfall hikes to pool days, solo adventures, random experiences, and saying yes to life a little more… this episode is really about learning to enjoy life again. Not every moment has to be deep.  Not everything has to be productive.  Sometimes healing looks like laughter, fresh air, trying something new, and allowing yourself to fully experience joy without guilt. This episode is your reminder that you don’t have to have everything figured out to start living your life. Maybe this summer isn’t about becoming a whole new person…  maybe it’s just about letting yourself experience life as you are. So yeah… welcome to Operation: Go Outside 😭☀️ — 🎧 Her Playlist  “Don’t Cha” — The Pussycat Dolls  “Freakum Dress” — Beyoncé  “Booty Wurk” — T-Pain — 💌 Letters Along the Way  Have a story, experience, or something on your heart? Send it in:  lettersalongtheway@gmail.com — ✨ 75 Day Challenge Reminder  Stay consistent, stay intentional, and give yourself grace.  Use #HPHP75DayChallenge or #HPHP75Days so we can grow together 🤍 — 📲 Stay Connected  Follow the podcast:  Instagram: @herpathherpace  TikTok: @her.path.her.pace Follow me, your host:  Instagram: @reshae____  TikTok: @reshae__ — If this episode spoke to you, don’t forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe—especially on YouTube. It helps this message reach who it’s meant for 🤍 And as always… give yourself some grace.

They're Just Girl Too

In this episode, I’m honoring both of my moms. The one who gave birth to me… and the one who stepped in and chose to be my mom when she didn’t have to. And if I’m being honest, my relationships with both of them have come with different layers, emotions, lessons, and moments of healing. For a long time, I only saw things through my own perspective—through my hurt, my confusion, and the experiences I had to grow through. And those feelings were real. They still are. But as I’ve gotten older, healed, and started navigating life as a woman myself… I’ve gained a different kind of understanding. I’ve started to see them not just as “moms,” but as women. Women who were experiencing life for the first time too. Women carrying responsibilities, pressures, insecurities, sacrifices, expectations, and emotions that I couldn’t fully understand until I started facing some of those same things myself. This episode isn’t about pretending everything was perfect or dismissing my own experiences. It’s about acknowledging that both truths can exist at the same time. My feelings were valid.  And so were theirs. I talk about the complicated emotions surrounding divorce, abandonment, womanhood, motherhood, stepping into a role that wasn’t originally yours, and the grace that comes from finally seeing people fully. Because understanding them differently didn’t erase my feelings… It helped me heal them. And ultimately, this episode is a thank you. To the women who shaped me, protected me, loved me, sacrificed for me, and helped make me who I am—even in ways I couldn’t fully recognize at the time. They were just girls too… trying to figure it out. — 🎧 Her Playlist (Ep. 19)  https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/her-playlist-ep-19/pl.u-BNA6Xq6C16Y8D1 [https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/her-playlist-ep-19/pl.u-BNA6Xq6C16Y8D1] — 💌 Letters Along the Way  Have a story, experience, or something on your heart? Send it in:  lettersalongtheway@gmail.com — ✨ 75 Day Challenge Reminder  Stay consistent, stay intentional, and give yourself grace through the process. Use #HPHP75DayChallenge or #HPHP75Days so we can grow together 🤍 — 📲 Stay Connected  Follow the podcast:  Instagram: @herpathherpace  TikTok: @her.path.her.pace Follow me, your host:  Instagram: @reshae____  TikTok: @reshae__ — If this episode spoke to you, don’t forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe—especially on YouTube. It helps this message reach who it’s meant for. And as always… give yourself some grace 🤍

Loving Me...As I Learn Me

In this episode, I’m getting honest about something I’m still learning in real time… what it actually means to love yourself. Because if I’m being real, it wasn’t that I didn’t love myself… I just didn’t fully understand myself. As I’ve been on this journey of dating myself and pouring back into me, I’ve realized that what I was lacking in my past relationships wasn’t just effort or care—it was intimacy. Not the way the world defines it, but the kind of intimacy that comes from being truly seen, understood, and known. And the truth is… how could I expect someone else to know me like that, when I didn’t even fully know myself? In this episode, I talk about what it’s been like learning a new version of me. Not because I was completely out of touch, but because I’m growing, evolving, and being stretched in ways that require me to meet myself again. I’m opening up about the moments where I had to face myself—the good, the not so good, and everything in between. The times I realized I didn’t have the answers I thought I did. The times I had to stop placing blame outward and start looking inward. And through it all, I’m learning how to love me… as I learn me. This episode is about self-partnering. About grace. About understanding that growth doesn’t mean you had it all wrong—it just means you’re becoming more aware. And maybe… it’s not that you don’t know yourself. Maybe you’re just meeting a new version of you. — 🎧 Her Playlist  “Bleeding Love” — Leona Lewis  “Best Part” — Daniel Caesar ft. H.E.R.  “Good as Hell” — Lizzo — 💌 Letters Along the Way  Have a story, experience, or something on your heart? Send it in:  lettersalongtheway@gmail.com — ✨ 75 Day Challenge Reminder  Stay consistent, stay intentional, and give yourself grace.  Use #HPHP75DayChallenge or #HPHP75Days so we can grow together 🤍 — 📲 Stay Connected  Instagram: @herpathherpace  TikTok: @her.path.her.pace Follow me:  Instagram: @reshae____  TikTok: @reshae__ — If this episode spoke to you, don’t forget to like, comment, share, and follow. And as always… give yourself some grace 🤍

This One Is For the Graduates

First things first… congratulations 🤍 Whether you’re graduating from high school or college, this is a moment to celebrate. You made it to a milestone that required discipline, growth, and perseverance—and you deserve to be proud of that. In this episode, I wanted to take a moment to speak directly to you as you step into this next phase of life. For my college graduates… I know that transition into the “real world” can feel overwhelming. The pressure, the uncertainty, the job search, the feeling of “what now?”—it’s real. And there is nothing wrong with acknowledging that. It doesn’t make you weak, it makes you human. Sometimes things will work out exactly how you planned… and other times they won’t. You might not land the job you expected right away. You might hear things like “you don’t have enough experience,” and start questioning everything you worked for. Take a breath. The reality is, a lot of people don’t end up working in the exact field they got their degree in—and that’s okay. Be open to pivoting. Be open to the flow of life. Trying to control every detail will only create more pressure. Trust that things can still work out for your good, even if it doesn’t look how you imagined. And don’t let imposter syndrome stop you from taking a chance on yourself. You’ve put in the work. You’ve learned the skills. Now it’s time to use them. Everybody starts somewhere—this is just your beginning. And for my high school graduates… you’re stepping into something completely new, and I know that can feel just as scary. Whether you’re going to college, trade school, or stepping straight into the world, all of those paths are valid. This is your life, your journey. You might get somewhere and realize… this isn’t for you. And that’s okay. You are allowed to change your mind. You are allowed to pivot. You are allowed to figure it out as you go. If you feel like you need time to learn yourself a little more, take it—but use it intentionally. Explore. Try new things. Get to know who you are and what you actually want. Don’t let fear or outside opinions keep you from going after the life you want to live. This is a new beginning. You’re not behind… you’re just starting. — 🎧 Her Playlist  “All I Do Is Win” — DJ Khaled — 💌 Letters Along the Way  Have a story, experience, or something on your heart? Send it in:  lettersalongtheway@gmail.com — ✨ 75 Day Challenge Reminder  Stay consistent, stay intentional, and give yourself grace.  Use #HPHP75DayChallenge or #HPHP75Days so we can grow together 🤍 — 📲 Stay Connected  Instagram: @herpathherpace  TikTok: @her.path.her.pace Follow me:  Instagram: @reshae____  TikTok: @reshae__ — If this episode spoke to you, don’t forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe—especially on YouTube. It helps this message reach who it’s meant for. And as always… give yourself some grace 🤍

The Voice I Was Running From

There was a time in my life where I felt completely lost. Not just a little confused… but truly didn’t know where to start to even begin finding myself again. And in that space, I made a choice. I decided I wasn’t going to stay there. So I went looking for my purpose. But what I didn’t realize at the time was this… I wasn’t lost because I didn’t have purpose. I was lost because I couldn’t see it. In this episode, I’m talking about how my need to control everything—how it looked, how it showed up, how it was supposed to happen—actually kept me from recognizing that I was already living in my purpose. I had this very specific idea of what it was supposed to be, and because of that, I missed all the ways it was already showing up in my life. The truth is… sometimes your purpose doesn’t look how you imagined it would. Sometimes it shows up in the things you do naturally. In the moments you speak up. In the times you advocate—for others and for yourself. In the patterns that follow you no matter where you go. And if I’m being honest… sometimes your purpose can scare you. Sometimes you don’t want to see it. Or you can’t see it yet. I’m sharing real moments from my life where I was using my voice—without even realizing that was the very thing pointing me back to what I’m here to do. And how, over time, I’ve refined my understanding of my purpose to this: To be a voice for the voiceless… even if that voice is just for me. Because that still matters. This episode is also a reminder that even when you start to understand your purpose, you’re still human. You’re still going to misstep. You’re still going to have moments where you question it, where you fall back into old patterns, where you don’t get it “right.” And that’s okay. This podcast… this space… is a part of me walking in that purpose. It’s me creating a place where people can feel seen. Where the thoughts, emotions, and experiences the world tries to minimize can be spoken out loud. A reminder that you are not alone. And if this reaches millions… that’s beautiful. But if the only voice that’s healed in the process is my own… that still matters too. — 🎧 Her Playlist (Ep. 16)  https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/her-playlist-ep-16/pl.u-leylWD8tjd91rj [https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/her-playlist-ep-16/pl.u-leylWD8tjd91rj] — ✨ Glow Up Goals Reminder  We’re still in the 75 Day Challenge—stay consistent, stay intentional, and give yourself grace through the process. No matter what your version looks like, keep showing up. Use #HPHP75DayChallenge or #HPHP75Days so we can grow together 🤍 — 💌 Letters Along the Way  Have something on your heart? A story, experience, or something you’re navigating? Send it in and you might be featured in an upcoming episode:  lettersalongtheway@gmail.com — 📲 Stay Connected  Follow the podcast:  Instagram: @herpathherpace  TikTok: @her.path.her.pace Follow me, your host:  Instagram: @reshae____  TikTok: @reshae__ — If this episode spoke to you, don’t forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe—especially on YouTube. It helps this message reach who it’s meant for. And as always… give yourself some grace 🤍