Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

On this episode of Conversations with Tom, author Dave Rubin and Tom Bilyeu discuss the nature of identity and freedom, and talk about how we might do better as parents, citizens and individuals. SHOW NOTES: Dave talks about trying to launch a book during a quarantine [0:30] Tom discusses his conflicting feelings about writing a book [3:26] Dave describes his process for getting his book written [4:47] Tom explains how he became the “mindset guy” [8:02] Dave discusses the difficulties facing entrepreneurs and small business owners [9:54] Dave talks about how his interest in politics developed [13:08] Dave describes his experience of being “in the closet” [19:53] The terrible results of refusing to let people be who they are [24:49] Dave explains how he deals with surrogate parenting [30:26] Dave details the criteria he and his partner use to choose surrogates [35:04] What is the definition of a decent parent? What constitutes good parenting? [38:35] Dave and Tom discuss helicopter parenting and how technology has changed kids [41:45] Tom talks about why he would be much too overprotective as a parent [46:05] Your kids will rebel against you no matter what, so there’s no perfect parenting method [49:38] Dave celebrates the freedom that has transformed people who live in the US [51:26] Dave and Tom discuss the difference between equal opportunity and equal outcomes [57:16] Tom talks about the influence on luck in life, and how the education system works [1:06:13] Dave strongly advocates for stable families [1:09:23] Tom talks about his experience working with people who grew up in South Central LA [1:12:01] You can’t solve everyone’s problems, but they still might haunt you [1:16:19] Dave advocates helping out small businesses and mom and pop stores [1:19:53] What is the government really good at? [1:25:01] Dave claims that the individual is the only thing that matters [1:27:47] Tom and Dave discuss Jordan Peterson [1:30:50] Tom strongly advocates deep personal responsibility [1:39:49] FOLLOW DAVE: WEBSITE: daverubin.com INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/34X3w5i [https://bit.ly/34X3w5i%20] FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2Vupp8V [https://bit.ly/2Vupp8V%20] TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2KqyitT [https://bit.ly/2KqyitT%20] What's up, everybody? It's Tom Bilyeu here: If you want my help... * STARTING a business: join me here at ZERO TO FOUNDER [https://tombilyeu.com/zero-to-founder?utm_campaign=Podcast%20Offer&utm_source=podca[%E2%80%A6]d%20end%20of%20show&utm_content=podcast%20ad%20end%20of%20show] * SCALING a business: see if you qualify here. [https://tombilyeu.com/call]  Get my battle-tested strategies and insights delivered weekly to your inbox: sign up here. [https://tombilyeu.com/] If you're serious about leveling up your life, I urge you to check out my new podcast, Tom Bilyeu’s Mindset Playbook [https://open.spotify.com/show/47VE90Cittmo6TGGFqg2xf] —a goldmine of my most impactful episodes on mindset, business, and health. Trust me, your future self will thank you. Join me live on my Twitch stream [https://impacttheory.co/4fitmnJ]. I'm live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/0482bfe8-8502-11ed-af5d-3bdc320068d7/podcasts/0a41f61a-9ddf-11ed-9eb7-dbb3a40775f5/episodes/8ac68366-8a85-11ef-bb65-abca3ffdcf54/www.twitch.tv/tombilyeuwww.twitch.tv/tombilyeu [https://impacttheory.co/4fitmnJ] LISTEN TO IMPACT THEORY AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/impacttheory [http://apple.co/impacttheory] FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ [https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/] Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en [https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en] Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu [https://twitter.com/tombilyeu] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu [https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

What does it mean to be masculine? In his fascinating new book, best-selling author, speaker, and high-performance coach Lewis Howes asks this very question.Whether it’s the jock, the playboy, or the fighter, Lewis breaks down the different masks that men unknowingly wear to hide their authentic selves. Watch “The School of Greatness” host discuss masculinity, vulnerability, and authenticity in this eye-opening episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu. Buy the Mask of Masculinity Here: http://amzn.to/2yZ5sfT [http://amzn.to/2yZ5sfT%20] SHOW NOTES Tom and Lewis talk about masculine vulnerability and how a fight changed his life. [5:05] Lewis shares when he discovered that he was wearing masks and how he learned to forgive. [11:26] Lewis breaks down different types of masks and overcoming the fear of being perfect. [13:27] Lewis talks about using masks to our advantage and knowing when it’s time to take it off. [17:07] Tom and Lewis deconstruct the process that draws a line between masks and authenticity. [19:20] Lewis reveals the question he used to start every conversation and what waits on the other side. [21:53] Lewis describes practical steps that you can usedto identify and remove masks in your life. [26:13] Tom and Lewis dive into the comfort of wearing masks and how they are created. [29:36] Lewisgives society’s definition of a “real man” and being educated by powerful women. [34:13] Lewis offers his definition of real masculinity and the basis of self-love. [37:56] Lewis explains how he ranks priorities in his life. [40:05] Lewis clarifies why he tailored a section for women in his book about masculinity. [43:25] Tom and Lewis discuss connectivity at every level and creating meaningful conversation and change. [45:51] Lewis reveals the three truths that are essential to creating your best life. [49:00] Lewis defines the impact that he wants to have on the world. [51:18] FOLLOW LEWIS HOWES INSTAGRAM: http://bit.ly/2gBczV1 [http://bit.ly/2gBczV1%20] TWITTER: http://bit.ly/1T6F5bq [http://bit.ly/1T6F5bq%20] FACEBOOK: http://bit.ly/2tgJouE [http://bit.ly/2tgJouE%20] LINKEDIN: http://bit.ly/2zDI9WN [http://bit.ly/2zDI9WN%20] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Range Rover: Range Rover: Explore the Range Rover Sport at  https://landroverUSA.com [https://landroverusa.com] Audible: Sign up for a free 30 day trial at https://audible.com/IMPACTTHEORY [https://audible.com/IMPACTTHEORY1]  Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com [https://www.vitalproteins.com] and entering promo code IMPACT at check out. NetSuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/THEORY [https://netsuite.com/THEORY]  Found Banking: Try Found for FREE at https://found.com/impact [https://found.com/impact] What's up, everybody? It's Tom Bilyeu here: If you want my help... * STARTING a business: join me here at ZERO TO FOUNDER [https://tombilyeu.com/zero-to-founder?utm_campaign=Podcast%20Offer&utm_source=podca[%E2%80%A6]d%20end%20of%20show&utm_content=podcast%20ad%20end%20of%20show] * SCALING a business: see if you qualify here. [https://tombilyeu.com/call]  Get my battle-tested strategies and insights delivered weekly to your inbox: sign up here. [https://tombilyeu.com/] If you're serious about leveling up your life, I urge you to check out my new podcast, Tom Bilyeu’s Mindset Playbook [https://open.spotify.com/show/47VE90Cittmo6TGGFqg2xf] —a goldmine of my most impactful episodes on mindset, business, and health. Trust me, your future self will thank you. Join me live on my Twitch stream [https://impacttheory.co/4fitmnJ]. I'm live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/0482bfe8-8502-11ed-af5d-3bdc320068d7/podcasts/0a41f61a-9ddf-11ed-9eb7-dbb3a40775f5/episodes/8ac68366-8a85-11ef-bb65-abca3ffdcf54/www.twitch.tv/tombilyeuwww.twitch.tv/tombilyeu [https://impacttheory.co/4fitmnJ] LISTEN TO IMPACT THEORY AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/impacttheory [http://apple.co/impacttheory] FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ [https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/] Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en [https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en] Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu [https://twitter.com/tombilyeu] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu [https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Welcome to another riveting episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu. In today's episode, we peel back the layers on some of the most pressing and polarizing topics of our time. Joining me are guests Marek and Rudyard Lynch, recognized voices in historical and political analysis. We're diving deep into the distinctions between authoritarian and totalitarian regimes, comparing modern leaders like Trump to historical figures such as Hitler, and debating the implications of these comparisons. You'll hear Lynch discuss why true totalitarian societies are rare, often eliminating social institutions for ideology, and why modern left-leaning governments may be closer to totalitarianism in their intolerance for dissenting viewpoints. Marek brings a fascinating perspective, likening Trump's traits to leaders like Alexander the Great and Churchill, questioning the uniqueness of these comparisons. We'll explore economic and social dynamics, including discussions on AI's impact, enduring generational wealth, and democracy's reliance on the average citizen. Tom also delves into the evolution of warfare, global power structures, and the sometimes brutal realities of historical conflict, using vivid examples to highlight our comparatively humane modern methods. Additionally, we look at Tom's ambitious business ventures and insights on the future of technology. From the development of a multi-billion dollar video game to releasing compelling comic content, the show explores the intersection of innovation, creativity, and relentless pursuit of excellence. SHOWNOTES Encourage honesty in company culture, despite challenges. 01:20:02 Hitler's expansionist vision involved conquering Russia. 01:23:11 Criticism of Democrats as totalitarian, unlike Trump. 01:33:04 Western history oversimplifies leadership harshness, unlike others. 01:50:08 Trump critiques: bully, not totalitarian, potential danger. 02:01:28 Left dominates rhetoric; Trump challenges elite interests. 02:04:17 Billionaires influencing politics; government versus public. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Range Rover: Range Rover: Explore the Range Rover Sport at  https://landroverUSA.com [https://landroverusa.com/] Audible: Sign up for a free 30 day trial at https://audible.com/IMPACTTHEORY [https://audible.com/IMPACTTHEORY1]  Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com [https://www.vitalproteins.com/] and entering promo code IMPACT at check out. NetSuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/THEORY [https://netsuite.com/THEORY]  Found Banking: Try Found for FREE at https://found.com/impact [https://found.com/impact] What's up, everybody? It's Tom Bilyeu here: If you want my help... * STARTING a business: join me here at ZERO TO FOUNDER [https://tombilyeu.com/zero-to-founder?utm_campaign=Podcast%20Offer&utm_source=podca[%E2%80%A6]d%20end%20of%20show&utm_content=podcast%20ad%20end%20of%20show] * SCALING a business: see if you qualify here. [https://tombilyeu.com/call]  Get my battle-tested strategies and insights delivered weekly to your inbox: sign up here. [https://tombilyeu.com/] If you're serious about leveling up your life, I urge you to check out my new podcast, Tom Bilyeu’s Mindset Playbook [https://open.spotify.com/show/47VE90Cittmo6TGGFqg2xf] —a goldmine of my most impactful episodes on mindset, business, and health. Trust me, your future self will thank you. Join me live on my Twitch stream [https://impacttheory.co/4fitmnJ]. I'm live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/0482bfe8-8502-11ed-af5d-3bdc320068d7/podcasts/0a41f61a-9ddf-11ed-9eb7-dbb3a40775f5/episodes/8ac68366-8a85-11ef-bb65-abca3ffdcf54/www.twitch.tv/tombilyeuwww.twitch.tv/tombilyeu [https://impacttheory.co/4fitmnJ] LISTEN TO IMPACT THEORY AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/impacttheory [http://apple.co/impacttheory] FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ [https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/] Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en [https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en] Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu [https://twitter.com/tombilyeu] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu [https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Welcome to another riveting episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu. In today's episode, we peel back the layers on some of the most pressing and polarizing topics of our time. Joining me are guests Marek and Rudyard Lynch, recognized voices in historical and political analysis. We're diving deep into the distinctions between authoritarian and totalitarian regimes, comparing modern leaders like Trump to historical figures such as Hitler, and debating the implications of these comparisons. You'll hear Lynch discuss why true totalitarian societies are rare, often eliminating social institutions for ideology, and why modern left-leaning governments may be closer to totalitarianism in their intolerance for dissenting viewpoints. Marek brings a fascinating perspective, likening Trump's traits to leaders like Alexander the Great and Churchill, questioning the uniqueness of these comparisons. We'll explore economic and social dynamics, including discussions on AI's impact, enduring generational wealth, and democracy's reliance on the average citizen. Tom also delves into the evolution of warfare, global power structures, and the sometimes brutal realities of historical conflict, using vivid examples to highlight our comparatively humane modern methods. Additionally, we look at Tom's ambitious business ventures and insights on the future of technology. From the development of a multi-billion dollar video game to releasing compelling comic content, the show explores the intersection of innovation, creativity, and relentless pursuit of excellence. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Project Kaizen enables rapid creative iteration, brainstorming. 18:29 Embrace innovation to thrive despite uncertainty. 21:26 Reality indistinguishable from simulation; brain simulates reality. 30:58 Crypto: advances, good trade now, uncertain future. 50:27 Condescending attitude undermines faith in intellect. 58:06 Beliefs guide actions towards achieving honorable goals. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Range Rover: Range Rover: Explore the Range Rover Sport at  https://landroverUSA.com [https://landroverusa.com] Audible: Sign up for a free 30 day trial at https://audible.com/IMPACTTHEORY [https://audible.com/IMPACTTHEORY1]  Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com [https://www.vitalproteins.com] and entering promo code IMPACT at check out. NetSuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/THEORY [https://netsuite.com/THEORY]  Found Banking: Try Found for FREE at https://found.com/impact [https://found.com/impact] What's up, everybody? It's Tom Bilyeu here: If you want my help... * STARTING a business: join me here at ZERO TO FOUNDER [https://tombilyeu.com/zero-to-founder?utm_campaign=Podcast%20Offer&utm_source=podca[%E2%80%A6]d%20end%20of%20show&utm_content=podcast%20ad%20end%20of%20show] * SCALING a business: see if you qualify here. [https://tombilyeu.com/call]  Get my battle-tested strategies and insights delivered weekly to your inbox: sign up here. [https://tombilyeu.com/] If you're serious about leveling up your life, I urge you to check out my new podcast, Tom Bilyeu’s Mindset Playbook [https://open.spotify.com/show/47VE90Cittmo6TGGFqg2xf] —a goldmine of my most impactful episodes on mindset, business, and health. Trust me, your future self will thank you. Join me live on my Twitch stream [https://impacttheory.co/4fitmnJ]. I'm live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/0482bfe8-8502-11ed-af5d-3bdc320068d7/podcasts/0a41f61a-9ddf-11ed-9eb7-dbb3a40775f5/episodes/8ac68366-8a85-11ef-bb65-abca3ffdcf54/www.twitch.tv/tombilyeuwww.twitch.tv/tombilyeu [https://impacttheory.co/4fitmnJ] LISTEN TO IMPACT THEORY AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/impacttheory [http://apple.co/impacttheory] FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ [https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/] Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en [https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en] Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu [https://twitter.com/tombilyeu] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu [https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

On this episode of Conversations with Tom, author Dave Rubin and Tom Bilyeu discuss the nature of identity and freedom, and talk about how we might do better as parents, citizens and individuals. [Original air date: April 30, 2020] SHOW NOTES: Dave talks about trying to launch a book during a quarantine [0:30] Tom discusses his conflicting feelings about writing a book [3:26] Dave describes his process for getting his book written [4:47] Tom explains how he became the “mindset guy” [8:02] Dave discusses the difficulties facing entrepreneurs and small business owners [9:54] Dave talks about how his interest in politics developed [13:08] Dave describes his experience of being “in the closet” [19:53] The terrible results of refusing to let people be who they are [24:49] Dave explains how he deals with surrogate parenting [30:26] Dave details the criteria he and his partner use to choose surrogates [35:04] What is the definition of a decent parent? What constitutes good parenting? [38:35] Dave and Tom discuss helicopter parenting and how technology has changed kids [41:45] Tom talks about why he would be much too overprotective as a parent [46:05] Your kids will rebel against you no matter what, so there’s no perfect parenting method [49:38] Dave celebrates the freedom that has transformed people who live in the US [51:26] Dave and Tom discuss the difference between equal opportunity and equal outcomes [57:16] Tom talks about the influence on luck in life, and how the education system works [1:06:13] Dave strongly advocates for stable families [1:09:23] Tom talks about his experience working with people who grew up in South Central LA [1:12:01] You can’t solve everyone’s problems, but they still might haunt you [1:16:19] Dave advocates helping out small businesses and mom and pop stores [1:19:53] What is the government really good at? [1:25:01] Dave claims that the individual is the only thing that matters [1:27:47] Tom and Dave discuss Jordan Peterson [1:30:50] Tom strongly advocates deep personal responsibility [1:39:49] FOLLOW DAVE: WEBSITE: daverubin.com INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/34X3w5i FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2Vupp8V TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2KqyitT What's up, everybody? It's Tom Bilyeu here: If you want my help... * STARTING a business: join me here at ZERO TO FOUNDER [https://tombilyeu.com/zero-to-founder?utm_campaign=Podcast%20Offer&utm_source=podca[%E2%80%A6]d%20end%20of%20show&utm_content=podcast%20ad%20end%20of%20show] * SCALING a business: see if you qualify here. [https://tombilyeu.com/call] * Get my battle-tested strategies and insights delivered weekly to your inbox: sign up here. [https://tombilyeu.com/] If you're serious about leveling up your life, I urge you to check out my new podcast, Tom Bilyeu’s Mindset Playbook [https://open.spotify.com/show/47VE90Cittmo6TGGFqg2xf] —a goldmine of my most impactful episodes on mindset, business, and health. Trust me, your future self will thank you. Join me live on my Twitch stream [https://impacttheory.co/4fitmnJ]. I'm live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/0482bfe8-8502-11ed-af5d-3bdc320068d7/podcasts/0a41f61a-9ddf-11ed-9eb7-dbb3a40775f5/episodes/8ac68366-8a85-11ef-bb65-abca3ffdcf54/www.twitch.tv/tombilyeuwww.twitch.tv/tombilyeu [https://impacttheory.co/4fitmnJ] LISTEN TO IMPACT THEORY AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/impacttheory [http://apple.co/impacttheory] FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ [https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/] Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en [https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en] Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu [https://twitter.com/tombilyeu] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu [https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]