8.《姥姥的外孙》：照顾爷爷奶奶可以获得百万房产吗？

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第八期节目请到了三七跟我一起聊泰国导演帕特·波尼蒂帕特导演的《姥姥的外孙》（2024），电影上映时，大受欢迎。电影中主人公M看到堂妹因为照顾病重的祖父，获得房子和巨额遗产后，决定效仿堂妹，走上”啃老致富“这条路，通过照顾患上癌症的外婆Menju，拿到外婆这里的房产和遗产。但随着朝夕相处的陪伴，他跟姥姥之间产生了真正的感情和连结。收听提示： * 对电影的预想，第一印象 * 泪点、及其产生的效应：如传达了对老年人需求的关注和代际沟通的问题 * 主人公M前后的大转变，即从网瘾少年到全职外孙，是否可信？青少年离开游戏空间与姥姥建立联系的可能性 * 东亚叙事？电影在国际上引起广泛共鸣，被认为代表了东亚家庭关系中的孝顺和隔代温情？英文片名How to Make Millions Before Grandma Dies形成的反差 * “儿子继承了家产，女儿继承了癌症。” -- 引自主人公母亲对姥姥说的话。 * 泰国社会结构和经济压力，年轻人面临的就业和房产问题，贫富差距 * 给姥姥买墓地，新旧价值观的交织与传承，隔代连接 * “你知道老人真的想要，但是无法从子女那里得到的是什么吗？是时间。”“你要习惯老人的味道，直到闻不到，我连爷爷的尿味都习惯了。” -- 引自主人公堂妹背景音乐出自电影，Talat Phlu & Grandma's Home by Jaithep Raroengjai

9. The Farewell (2019) Should we tell people they are dying?

In This Episode: Should we tell people they are dying? In Lulu Wang’s film The Farewell (2019), Chinese-born, U.S.-raised Billi returns to Changchun, China after her family decides to “protect” her grandmother - Nainai - from her cancer diagnosis. They plan a wedding as a cover for a good-bye party. This story is “based on a true lie.” The question provoked by the film guides the discussion of Manaka (an active violinist, recitalist and composer based in Japan) and host Roya about: 1. Our first impression of the film and the casting: Awkwafina and her backgrounds 2. The film’s Chinese-American themes and the challenges of writing a script in two languages 3. The film is named “Don’t tell her” in Chinese, as well as the cultural context of hiding a cancer diagnosis from a loved one - the cultural differences between American and Chinese approaches to family and healthcare 4. The film’s portrayal of Nainai’s character. Did Nainai know? 5. The complex relationship between Billi and her immigrant mother; Billi’s in-between/fragmented identity 6. The film’s deeper message about the distinction between death and illness, and how society often conflates these concepts; the universal theme of saying goodbye to our loved ones 7. Birds as family messengers connecting Billi and Nainai 8. The ending, where it’s revealed that the real Nainai survived her diagnosis 9. Growing Asian American representation in media and its potential to challenge fixed national categories in the study of aging and intergenerational relationships. 10. The film’s musical elements * The major takeaway we want you to have from this podcast is: Manaka: I hope we can have a deeper understanding of The Farewell beyond its landmark as a film for Asian representation, and expand that understanding to more storytelling from different cultures as well. Roya: I hope we can better understand, and keep learning more about, the complex dynamics and emotional realities of intergenerational relationships in a transnational context. This film is a good example for thinking about this. Show notes: Manaka Matsumoto is an active violinist and recitalist based in Japan. She regularly premieres her own compositions in her recitals, arranges popular classical music to be performed by smaller ensembles in more intimate settings, and frequently collaborates with visual artists in live performances. Her mission as a classical music instrumentalist is to explore the possibilities of live performance culture, challenging conventions in repertoire, venue, and communication with the audience. A fun fact about the podcast: Totally coincidentally, Roya realized she had written a social media post exactly six years ago today—February 2, 2020—when she first watched the film (actually earlier than the time she mentioned in the podcast). In it, she wrote that she was moved to tears and that the film brought back sweet memories of her grandmother. It feels like another reminder of how life can seem almost magical or even fictional. Lulu Wang’s interview re. the script: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_taWSzIaBYg [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_taWSzIaBYg] Lulu Wang and the piano: https://variety.com/2019/film/features/the-farewell-lulu-wang-interview-awkwafina-1203285725/ [https://variety.com/2019/film/features/the-farewell-lulu-wang-interview-awkwafina-1203285725/] The Farewell Soundtrack: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OIV4HAz6n3M [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OIV4HAz6n3M] “Saying Goodbye to Your Roots in 'The Farewell'” by Quality Culture https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aK1oXZ-jCZQ [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aK1oXZ-jCZQ] “In Defense of Ignorance: What You Don’t know” by This American Life https://www.thisamericanlife.org/585/in-defense-of-ignorance/act-one-8 [https://www.thisamericanlife.org/585/in-defense-of-ignorance/act-one-8] Interview “From writer/director Lulu Wang and starring Awkwafina. “ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1B6JUzB6GbQ [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1B6JUzB6GbQ] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cE289akkxY8 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cE289akkxY8] "Lies and Goodbyes" by Caroline Hensley https://medicalhealthhumanities.com/2025/11/10/lies-and-goodbyes-lulu-wangs-the-farewell-2019/ "The Farewell" by Santa Barbara International Film Festival: https://sbiff.org/the-farewell/

2 de feb de 20261 h 10 min

8.《姥姥的外孙》：照顾爷爷奶奶可以获得百万房产吗？

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