Jillian on Love

Jillian opens up about five things she wishes she’d known before getting married—things that could’ve saved her a lot of pain. She talks about the pressure to rush into commitment, the importance of knowing your non-negotiables, and why avoiding hard conversations can cost you more than you think. If you’ve ever felt unsure in a relationship or afraid to speak up about what you really need, this episode will hit home. Join The Conscious Woman Waitlist [https://mailchi.mp/0221461c6359/cw-wait-list] Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman [https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership] Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/ [https://askjillian.com/]  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

We’ve all heard it: you have to forgive to move on. But what if that’s not true? In this episode, Jillian challenges one of the most commonly held beliefs in the self-help and spiritual world: that forgiveness is required for healing. She unpacks what it really means to let go, move on, and find peace—without having to forgive someone who hurt you. Join The Conscious Woman Waitlist [https://mailchi.mp/0221461c6359/cw-wait-list] Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman [https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership] Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/ [https://askjillian.com/]  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

Trying to convince someone to love you is one of the most painful patterns to get stuck in—and it can quietly destroy your mental health. In this episode, Jillian goes deep on the emotional toll of chasing love that isn’t mutual. She breaks down why connection isn’t enough, what real commitment looks like, and why settling for someone who’s one foot in and one foot out is a form of self-abandonment. Join The Conscious Woman Waitlist [https://mailchi.mp/0221461c6359/cw-wait-list] Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman [https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership] Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/ [https://askjillian.com/]  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

Jillian sits down with Mel Robbins to unpack the Let Them Theory — a mindset shift that helps you stop trying to control others and start focusing on your own emotional wellbeing. They explore how the urge to control often stems from stress and fear, and how letting go can actually lead to deeper healing, stronger boundaries, and more self-trust. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stuck in relationship patterns that drain you, this conversation offers a path back to clarity and inner strength. Buy Mel’s book, The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About [https://www.melrobbins.com/book/the-let-them-theory/] Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/ [https://askjillian.com/]  Order Jillian's NEW book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

As part of Mental Health Awareness Month, this episode explores one of the most destabilizing relationship dynamics: when a partner shuts down during conflict. Jillian coaches a listener through the emotional toll of being avoided and unpacks how this behavior impacts your mental health, sense of safety, and self-worth. With guidance on emotional regulation, accountability, and what it really takes to break unhealthy cycles, this conversation is a powerful reminder that protecting your peace starts from within. Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman [https://www.jillianturecki.com/membership]. Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/ [https://askjillian.com/]  Order Jillian's NEW book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]