Episode 17: What No One Tells You About Caring for Aging Parents (Legal, Financial, and Practical)
Caring for aging parents doesn't start with a crisis—it starts with small signs you're probably already noticing.
We're breaking down the legal paperwork, funding realities, and care options you need to line up now, before the hospital calls or the neighbor does, so you're not scrambling to make life-altering decisions in a parking garage somewhere.
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📄 THE AGING PARENT CHECKLIST
https://www.brookehardie.com/aging-parent-checklist
What You'll Learn
- The paperwork you need to have legal authority
- Helpful info for bridging the middle-class care gap
- Medicaid vs Medicare
- When to start looking at care facilities
- Simple home safety changes
- And more!
⏱️Chapters
[00:01:04] — Who this episode is for: the sandwich generation
[00:03:20] — When "can you help with the Netflix password" becomes project managing a parent's life
[00:04:19] — The boring paperwork that saves the day: HIPAA, medical POA, advance directive, financial POA
[00:08:23] — The conversation no one wants to have: talking to your parents about their wishes
[00:12:03] — Understanding the levels of care: independent living vs. assisted living vs. memory care vs. skilled nursing
[00:18:56] — How much does elder care actually cost?
[00:26:40] — Wait lists are real: get on them now, not during a crisis
[00:31:23] — Home care options: what's possible and what it costs
[00:37:45] — Medicare vs. Medicaid: they are not the same thing
[00:46:20] — The brutal middle-class care gap: too much money for Medicaid, not enough for private care
[00:54:14] — What people actually do when they fall into the care gap
[00:54:51] — Do these things now while you still have time
[00:56:42] — Don't wait for the fire—build the emergency exits now
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The views and opinions expressed on “Life Is Legal” are those of Brooke Hardie and her guests alone…and are provided for informational and entertainment purposes only. No part of this podcast or any related materials are intended to be a substitute for professional legal advice.
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