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Get Right Church - Time to Go Home

Listen to Pastor Polite and Lady Polite in this episode, "Get Right Church - Time to Go Home," which is a sobering wake-up call to the Church and the people of God.  This conversation challenges believers to examine where they truly stand with God, to respect His divine order, and to understand that you cannot go home without getting right first. Repentance, spiritual maturity, and alignment with God’s structure are no longer optional; they are urgent. #RepentAndReturn, #TimeToGoHome, #ChurchWakeUp Send a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2285863/open_sms] You Can Connect With Us Email us: thetolikm@gmail.com Website: www.tolikm.com Follow and Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaRYLXSpjebGhnd52-UlhjQ

Your Latter Years Are Not In the Waiting Room - Life With The Polites MRL

In this episode, “Your Latter Years Are Not In the Waiting Room,” join Pastor Polite and Lady Polite in this powerful reminder that what feels like a holding place was never a setback; it was training.  This message speaks to those who have felt delayed, overlooked, or paused, and reveals that God’s timing was shaping, seasoning, and preparing you for what comes next.  Send a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2285863/open_sms] You Can Connect With Us Email us: thetolikm@gmail.com Website: www.tolikm.com Follow and Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaRYLXSpjebGhnd52-UlhjQ

Let's Talk about Sex - Who Are Life with the Polites

In this powerful and transparent episode of Life with the Polites, we tackle a topic many avoid, but everyone is affected by: sex, intimacy, and covenant. This conversation, “Let’s Talk About Sex – Life with the Polites, [https://youtu.be/aO3lfvKlQAA]” goes far beyond the surface. We break down the critical difference between sex and cleaving, and why God’s divine order for relationships still matters—especially in today’s culture. From biblical foundations to real-life application, this episode challenges cultural norms while extending grace, truth, and understanding. We discuss: * The difference between sex and covenant (cleaving) * How God’s divine will in relationships can supersede culture and even legal definitions * Why many relationships fall apart when intimacy exists without covenant * How past sexual connections can affect present marriages * The importance of communication, compassion, respect, and emotional safety before intimacy * Why sex should never replace honest conversation or healing * How intimacy involves spiritual, emotional, and physical exchange * The dangers of using sex as a coping mechanism instead of building unity, and more This episode is not about condemnation. It’s about clarity, growth, healing, and alignment with God’s design. Whether you’re married, dating, engaged, single, or healing from past relationships, this conversation offers wisdom, balance, and hope. “Let’s stop talking about sex alone and start talking about cleaving, covenant, and God’s purpose in relationships.” Watch with an open heart. Listen with discernment. Grow with intention. Send a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2285863/open_sms] You Can Connect With Us Email us: thetolikm@gmail.com Website: www.tolikm.com Follow and Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaRYLXSpjebGhnd52-UlhjQ

The Weight of Marriage - Life with the Polites MRL

Marriage is God-ordained, but it carries spiritual weight. In this episode, "The Weight of Marriage [https://youtu.be/lsb5P9UWV7s]," we explore how tolerance, patience, and faith strengthen marriages, build inner resilience, and prepare us for prayer and spiritual warfare.  Learn why enduring with God allows your soul to prosper and leads you to His expected end. Key Scriptures Referenced * Galatians 5:16-17 – The war between the spirit and the flesh * Jeremiah 29 – Prosperity of the soul and God’s expected end Key Takeaways 1. Marriage requires spiritual maturity, not just love 2. Tolerance is an act of faith, not weakness 3. Endurance produces the inner strength needed for prayer and leadership 4. Feeding the spirit equips you to stand firm in marriage 5. God uses seasons of weight to prepare us for purpose Discussion Questions * How do you define tolerance in your marriage or relationships? * What are you feeding more—the spirit or the flesh? * How has God used endurance to strengthen your faith? * Are you trusting God’s timing in your relationship? Listen & Share If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs strength in their marriage or relationship. Send a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2285863/open_sms] You Can Connect With Us Email us: thetolikm@gmail.com Website: www.tolikm.com Follow and Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaRYLXSpjebGhnd52-UlhjQ

The Lies We Tell - Life With The Polites

In this heartfelt episode, “The Lies We Tell," on this Episode of Life With The Polites, Pastor Polite and Lady Polite explore the impact of lies in relationships.  Lady Polites said, “Lies hurt, but often they come from a place of fear—fear of losing, fear of not having enough, fear of being vulnerable.” She discusses why understanding the root of a lie is essential for both the person who lied and the person who was hurt in the healing process.   This is a powerful, honest, and deeply ministering moment that reminds us that facing fear and addressing dishonesty can lead to closure, growth, and restoration. Send a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2285863/open_sms] You Can Connect With Us Email us: thetolikm@gmail.com Website: www.tolikm.com Follow and Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaRYLXSpjebGhnd52-UlhjQ